Manyan Ra'ayoyin Kyauta 10 Ga Kowanne Daga cikin Harsunan Soyayya guda 5

Jira na biyu! Yanzu dole ne mu sami rataya na 'wani' zato kalmar intanet? To, eh, amma ina ganin da gaske za ku tono manufar harshen soyayya da zarar kun san ma'anarsa. Wannan harshe ne da kowane rai ke magana a duniya. A cikin sassauƙan kalmomi, yana nufin nuna ƙauna na musamman na mutum. Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa zabar kyaututtukan yaren soyayya masu dacewa ga abokin tarayya na iya buga daidai.

Mun sami tushen wannan ra'ayi a cikin littafin 1992 Harsunan Soyayya guda 5: Sirrin Soyayya Mai Dorewa ta marubuci, mai magana, kuma mai ba da shawara Gary Chapman. Marubucin ya yi nuni da mahimman hanyoyi guda biyar waɗanda mutane gabaɗaya suke isarwa da kuma nuna yadda suke ji na ƙauna, waɗanda sune – kalmomi na tabbatarwa, ingantaccen lokaci, ayyukan hidima, karɓar kyautai, da taɓawa ta jiki. 

Don haka, a duk lokacin da kuka ƙware hanyar bayyana soyayyar abokin zamanku, aikinku na nemo kyaututtukan yaren soyayya ya ƙare rabin nisa. Ya fi kama da gwajin yadda za ku iya karanta tunanin abokin tarayya (ko tambaye su kai tsaye!) kuma ku fassara harshen soyayya zuwa irin kyautar da za su yaba da gaske. Idan har yanzu kuna buƙatar ɗan taimako wajen haɗa harsunan soyayya tare da cikakkiyar ra'ayoyin kyauta, muna nan don cetonku.

Kyauta Mai Tunani Ga Duk Harshen Soyayya

Manufar da ke bayan yarukan soyayya guda biyar na Chapman shine a taimaka wa mutane a ciki haɗi tare da masoyansu akan mataki mai zurfi. Kuma wannan shine ainihin abin da zai faru idan kun yi amfani da manufar yaren soyayya don keɓance kyaututtuka ga wani naku na musamman. Ku amince da ni, ba goro ba ne mai wuyar fashe da zarar kun canza yadda suke son bayyanawa da karɓar soyayya.

Idan abokin tarayya ya tsallake wasu tsare-tsare don ciyar da rana tare da ku (lokacin inganci), shirya fikinik tare da su zai zama irin wannan kyakkyawan ra'ayi daga duk kyaututtukan yarukan soyayya guda 5. Haka nan, idan abokin tarayya bai manta da tunatar da ku yadda suke son ku ba (kalmomin tabbatarwa), mujallar 'abubuwa 100 da nake so game da ku' za su sa su zama masu juyayi. 

Muna nan a yau don bibiyar ku cikin manyan kyaututtukan yarenmu na soyayya guda 10 waɗanda suka dace daidai da yaren soyayyar ku na SO. 

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1. Gifts don 'ingancin lokaci' soyayya harshen: Romantic abincin dare saita 

Ina matukar sha'awar waɗancan mutanen (da kuma hassada su kaɗan) waɗanda za su yi wani abu don dacewa da lokacin ingancinsu mai daraja tare da ƙaunatattun su cikin jadawalin ayyukansu. Yadda suke da kyau don kiyaye ayyukansu a ofis kuma suna tattara sauran hankalinsu don sanya mutum ɗaya ya ji na musamman. Idan kai ma kana da irin wannan abokin tarayya a rayuwarka, za ka iya rama soyayyarsu da kyaututtuka ingancin lokaci harshen soyayya kowane lokaci a lokaci guda. Don yau, sami hannayenku akan wannan kyakkyawan tsarin abincin dare kuma ƙirƙirar maraice na soyayya tare da SO.

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• An yi shi da gilashin inganci, ain, da bakin karfe
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2. Kayayyakin Spa sune kyaututtukan yaren soyayya masu ban mamaki

Ma'anar ingancin lokaci ya bambanta daga mutum ɗaya zuwa wani. Zai iya zama dalla-dalla kamar tafiya hutun karshen mako zuwa Vermont ko wani abu mai sauƙi kamar yin burodi tare. Abokai na, Alice da Dave, sun fi zama kamar ma'auratan zama a gida koyaushe suna nema ra'ayoyin dare a gida. Yayin da yake gungurawa cikin kyaututtuka don yaren soyayya na 'kyakkyawan lokaci', Dave ya ci karo da wannan kayan wanka na alfarma da kwandon kyaututtukan jiki wanda ya kai su ga ciyar da maraice na soyayya da yawa cikin kwanciyar hankali na gidansu.

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• Ya zo cikin kwandon saƙa mai sake amfani da shi 
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3. Rubuta "Littafi Game da Mu" don 'kalmomin tabbatarwa' kyauta 

Shin masoyin ku yana amfani kalaman tabbatarwa a matsayin harshen soyayya? Suna ci gaba da aiko muku da rubutun soyayya-dovey cikin yini. Cire haɗin kira ba tare da cewa "Ina son ku" - sabo! Don haka, ga masoyi irin su, waɗanne kalmomi na tabbatarwa za ku iya samu waɗanda za su narkar da zuciyarsu a cikin harshensu na soyayya? Kuna iya rubuta cikakken littafi game da labarin soyayya mai dadi! Sauti kamar shiri?

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• Yana fasalta abubuwan ban mamaki da ban sha'awa da yawa don yin rubutu game da ku da ƙaunar ku
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4. Kyauta a matsayin harshen soyayya: T-shirts ga ma'aurata

Neman kyaututtuka a matsayin yaren soyayya ba dole ba ne ya zama wayo. Kuna son yin karin magana game da yadda kuke ji ga abokin tarayya? Sa'an nan kai su zuwa wani karaoke da dare da kuma sadaukar da wani soyayya song. Ka rubuta musu kyakkyawar wasiƙar soyayya zuba dukkan motsin zuciyar ku a ciki. Zama office dinsu yayi kawai yace "I love you". Ko kuma kuna iya ɗaukar waɗannan t-shirt ɗin ma'auratan da suka dace a matsayin kalmomin tabbatarwa waɗanda za su kasance kusa da zuciyarsu har abada. 

• Biyu na t-shirts masu hoto a cikin kyakkyawan zane
• Akwai shi a cikin kewayon launi da nau'ikan wuyansa
• An yi shi da kayan inganci 
• Yana jin taushi sosai akan fata 

5. 'Ayyukan Hidima' Kyautar Harshen soyayya: Masu yin Sandwich

Ayyukan hidima shine irin yaren soyayya inda aikin mutum yayi magana da karfi fiye da kalmomin sha'awa ko ta'aziyya a gare ku. Koyaushe za su taimake ka yin jita-jita, su ba ka hannu da jakar kayan abinci, ko kuma su yi maka kokon koko mai zafi a duk lokacin da ka ji haushi. Yaya za ku nuna wa abokin tarayya soyayya a cikin yaren da suka fahimta? Daga cikin duk kyaututtukan yarukan soyayya guda 5, zaku iya zaɓar wannan mai yin sanwici don shirya wasu abubuwan karin kumallo masu daɗi ga masoyin ku. 

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6. Ƙaunar takardun shaida don ba abokin tarayya kyakkyawan 'aikin sabis'

Wataƙila ba koyaushe muna godiya da duk ƙoƙarin abokan hulɗarmu ba, amma sun cancanci sanin ƙimar su. Na san wannan yarinyar, Sarah, zaune a gefen titi, kyakkyawa kamar maɓalli, koyaushe tana kula da saurayinta. Shi ma Daniel bai bar wata dama ta sa ta ji kamar sarauniya ba. Don haka, a makon da ya gabata, lokacin da ya nemi in ba da shawarar wasu kyaututtuka a matsayin harshen soyayya, waɗannan takaddun soyayya sun zo a zuciyata. Daga tausa jiki zuwa karin kumallo a gado, yana ba ku dama da yawa don yin wani abu mai kyau ga bae. 

• Saitin takardun shaida na soyayya 15 na musamman don ma'aurata
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• Ana amfani da ingantaccen inganci, kayan kati mara rufi
• 100% ƙirar asali ta masu zane-zane na cikin gida na alamar

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7. Jefa bargo don maraice mai daɗi 

Zumunci ba koyaushe yana zuwa ne daga soyayya mai daɗi ba, ina tsammanin za ku yarda da hakan. Tausasawa, ba jima'i taba suna da mahimmanci haɓaka zumuncin zuciya tsakanin abokan tarayya biyu. Runguma mai laushi ko ɗan ƙaramin peck akan kunci na iya ba ku ƙaƙƙarfan haɓakar hormones na soyayya don sanya ku jin daɗi, gamsuwa, da annashuwa. Shi ya sa samun kyaututtuka don harshen ƙauna ta taɓa jiki zai iya taimakawa sosai wajen ƙarfafa dangantakarku. Me ya sa ba ku duba wannan babban bargon jifa mai laushi don duk zaman cuddling ɗinku akan kujera? 

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• Babban isa (50 a x 70 in) don nannade ku cikin kwanciyar hankali 

8. Kyawawan tafiye-tafiye masu zurfi a matsayin kyauta don 'harshen soyayya' ta jiki

Wannan ana cewa, idan kuna tafiya a kan wani m ma'aurata ta tafiya don karshen mako da fatan abubuwan da za su juya dan kadan, kuna iya buƙatar wani abu mafi dacewa don bikin. Mun sami ɗayan mafi kyawun kyauta don harshen soyayya ta zahiri kuma ku amince da ni, zaku gode mana daga baya saboda wannan. Ba tare da wani ɓata lokaci ba, bari mu shiga cikin wannan ƙaƙƙarfan saitin kyauta na Kamasutra, wanda aka kera musamman a cikin fakiti masu girman tafiye-tafiye. 

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• An cushe a cikin wani zik ɗin, jakar ajiyewa
• Ya dace da kyau a cikin kayan da ake ɗauka 

9. Sami kwafin waƙoƙin acrylic azaman kyaututtukan harshen soyayya

Idan ya zo ga karɓar yaren soyayya na kyaututtuka, muna ba da shawarar keɓantawa kaɗan don sanya shi zama na musamman ga abokin tarayya. Kowane ma'aurata suna da waccan waƙa ɗaya ta kusa da zuciyarsu. Yana ba da labarinsu kuma yana tuna musu lokacin da suka yi soyayya. Ɗauki waccan waƙar kuma ku sa ta keɓance ta akan bugu na acrylic tare da mafi kyawun hoton ku biyu. Zaka kama abokin zamanka cikin kuka tabbas.

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• Akwai shi a cikin wasu kayan kuma, kamar itace da gilashi

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10. Rungumar kyandir ga mutumin da ke da 'kyautar ba da harshe na soyayya

Idan harshen soyayyar abokin tarayya ya kai ga bayarwa ko karɓar kyaututtuka masu ma'ana, muna da zaɓin da ya dace a gare ku. Aika soyayyar ku babban runguma mai daɗi tare da wannan kyakkyawan kyandir kuma ku cika gidansu da ƙamshin lavenders. Idan kuna ƙoƙarin sa dangantakarku ta nesa ta yi aiki, Wannan 'kyauta bayarwa' yaren soyayya da aka gabatar zai taɓa zuciyarsu kuma ya sa su ƙara kewar ku!

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• Yana da tasirin warkarwa don rage damuwa da damuwa, da inganta barci

Can za ku je - cikakken jagora don siyan kyaututtukan yaren soyayya don sake lashe zuciyar bae ɗin ku. Ko ana ƙarfafa su da kalmomin tabbatarwa ko kuma suna da yaren ƙauna na 'karɓar kyaututtuka', za ku sami zaɓuɓɓuka da yawa don zaɓar daga jerin duk kyaututtukan harsunan soyayya guda 5. sara sara! Lokaci ya yi da za a adana waɗannan kyaututtuka a cikin keken ku. 

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