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Has he stopped wanting you like before? And you are thinking how to make him want you? Your relationship is at a stage where you both know that you want to have physical and mental intimacy there is respect and understanding between the two of you. But do you ever wonder if he wants you like the way he did when the romance was new?
Lust and love sometimes do not go hand in hand. Men often have a short span of attention and are not built for long-term attraction. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you-it just means that with you looking fabulous and being wonderful all the time, they seem to stop wanting you like they used to. And you could be thinking how do I make a guy obsessed with me?
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When Does A Guy Start To Miss You?
When we are in a relationship we try to work our lives in such a way that we want to give 100 per cent to the relationship. So despite having career commitments, need for leisure or travel we always want to spend the most time with our partners.
But spending too much time together and giving your entire commitment to your partner might result in being taken for granted and gradually he might not feel that intensely about you. You keep thinking how to make him want you.
You could be in a relationship where things are going great but you want to make him commit to you without putting any pressure or you want to make a guy date you exclusively. It could also be that you have just met the guy, liked him immensely and want to make the guy chase you.
In all the above scenarios you want to keep the guy interested in you. And that is only possible if the guy craves you emotionally and physically.
When does a guy start to miss you? When he feels an emotional connection with you. Cannot spend a single day without communicating with you and has this urge to share with you all the good and bad things happening in his life. Physically he misses your touch misses making love to you, misses lying next to you.
But sometimes when you are always with him he never realises how much he misses you. That’s when you have to work on the “missing you”. There are things you can do to make him miss you and want you madly.
How To Make Him Want You
Thankfully we have these very simple tips (tricks?) to jump-start his desire train all the way up to the lusty land. Nothing is too hard to do in our 10 best tips to make him want you. Well! Making him a wee bit jealous is definitely a good way or you can take him down for a trip down memory lane. Just read this and you will know.
1. Some sensory nostalgia
What are those things that were regular in the initial days which has sort of fizzled out by now? Bring those back. It is easy to forget the little things that drew you together in the beginning of the romance.
Nostalgic triggers make us remember the young, happy smiles and tears when romance was still new. Your man must have forgotten the rush and the sensual triggers which made him fall for you. How to make him want you? Go back to that initial stage of romance.
According to psychologists, tapping into the intense memories can initiate ‘positive physical reaction and generate instant longing.’
To make him want you more, start using an old perfume or visit a place you used to visit a lot with him, bring back a dating ritual that you used to follow or wear old T-shirts that he absolutely loved on you. These nostalgic and sensory instances will make him want you more.
2. Reach for keys in his pocket
The power of an unanticipated touch is massive. When he is not expecting it and you touch him suggestively but ‘accidentally’, it creates a positive physical contact and keeps him wanting it more.
So instead of asking for keys, glide into his pockets to fetch them. Instead of asking him to pass the book from the night-shelf, reach across to him to get the book, letting your skin touch his.
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3. Go bra-less
Go bra less
How do you make a guy obsessed with you? It might sound crazy, especially if you are uncomfortable venturing outside without a bra. But going bra-less will surely get his attention.
While indoors, you can go around bra-less, slip into one of his extra-large T-shirts and strut about bouncing with your nipples showing. It is sure to drive him crazy.
Trust us he would want you to do this more often.
4. Not giving details
Let the anticipation build. If you are going with your friends for the weekend, he is going to miss you. Not giving him bit-by-bit details of the girls’ vacation will keep him wanting to know more about the fun.
The less you tell him, the more his imagination will run. Less is more and leaving out the details from a girls’ night out will make him put more effort to know about it.
Being away is a good idea too. He would start missing you and think of all the fun you are having without him.
5. Harmless flirting
Harmless flirting
Men are strong and manly, right? Their competitive nature will always take the better of them. Slyly eyeing a good looking dude at the restaurant will make him want to check him out too. Lust works in funny ways. When out at a pub, where there is no lack of men who would like to have a dance or a drink with you, subtly flirt with your eyes in a harmless sort of a way.
If you are thinking of how to make him want you just go ahead and make him jealous. This is not to make your man feel jealous (ok, maybe a little).
It is more about making him attentive and making him realise that he is a lucky man who gets to take you home when there are others who would like to do the same. Dressing up sexy for a night out with your man always adds to this case.
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6. Read erotica
Just some harmless reading? Not really. When men see you reading an erotic novel he would like to know what you think of the details and if you are reading it because you want something sexually.
Not to mention, people who read have a sex appeal of their own. Tell him about the novel you are reading and glorify the intricate details you like in the book. Make sure you don’t go into the parts describing sex. When you explain an erotic novel, most would like to know the sexy bits.
To make your man want you more, leave out the dirty bits and innocently describe the psyche of the characters. That will turn him crazy enough.
7. Write erotica
Write erotica if you want to make him want you
If reading is not for you, you can always choose to write and make your man reads it. It is much like a sex chat, but without your man’s indulgence in it.
Erotic writing is wholly your perspective and the nastier the details, the more curious he gets. It will keep your man thinking “Wow. Does she really want to do this?” or “I never knew it gets so wild in her head”. He will want it so bad!
8. Change in your look
Change is always fun. Otherwise it gets a bit tedious and boring. Changing something drastic about your appearance can work wonders. He will take notice if you slip into your stilettoes more often. Get high bangs if you have never gotten it, or change your hair colour differently.
Getting coloured streaks will also make him look twice at you. Your man is more likely to feel attracted to you if there is an obvious change in your look. And as shallow it might sound, it will also make you feel sexy when you are acknowledged by your man.
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9. Utter those special words
You might have special phrases that you use for each other. Like the certain way you whisper his name, or the way you call out his name. For men, calling out their names acts like an aphrodisiac.
Cooing his name in a public place in a voice he knows is reserved for the bedroom is going to make him want you more right then and there. There is a rush a man feels when he hears you call out his name.
10. Sometimes be unavailable
Sometimes be unavailable
How to make him want you more? Be unavailable sometimes. Have your own life. Your own set of friends, your hobbies your work life, your passion.
Not being there whenever he wants you will ensure he misses you more. He will crave for you more than ever. While you are away drop him a dirty text and he will just go crazy.
Just try our 10 tips and see how he misses you. There cannot be a better way to make a man want you.
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