Mai i te wehewehe i te tika me te hē ki te whakatere i ngā wāhi pōuriuri maha i waenganui, he mahi tonu te hanga me te pupuri i ngā whanaungatanga taurite, ora. Ko tā mātou wāhanga tohutohu whanaungatanga he tohu hei whakarite kia mau tonu tō whanaungatanga i te huarahi tika, ahakoa kei roto i ngā wai pōrearea o te pakanga me te taupatupatu.
Mai i te rapu huarahi hei whakahaere i ngā rā tuatahi o te whakaipoipo e tohuhia ana e ngā tumanakohanga koretake me te koretake mō tō heke mai hei tokorua, tae atu ki te whakatau i ngā take nui pēnei i te tinihanga, te whakahāwea i te hoa, te tukino, te kore whakaute, ngā take whakawhirinaki, te tinihanga, me te whakaora i ngā whara - o mua me o nāianei - kia pai ake ai tō putanga hei takitahi me te hoa rangatira, me whai hoa tautoko koe i ia taahiraa o te huarahi.
He tino uaua ki te whakaaro me pēhea te pupuri i te mura o te whanaungatanga; Tāpirihia he rau maero i waenganui i a kōrua, ā, ka tino whakamataku. Mā te kore o te aroaro tinana ka puta te ahua kei te ngaro tonu tetahi mea. Engari kaua e ngakaukore: ka taea e ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti te mahi. Inaa, kua kitea e ngā rangahau ko ngā tāne me ngā wāhine tawhiti […]
Ko te "pōuri ā-ira" e pā ana ki te ahotea me te kore e makona ina kore e tutukihia ngā hiahia ā-ira o te tangata. He mea noa tēnei wheako, ā, he mea noa hoki mō ngā pakeke. I roto i ngā whanaungatanga, ka puta te pōuri ā-ira tāne i roto i ngā huarahi ngawari, kāore rānei i te tino ngawari, e pā ana ki te oranga ngākau me ngā whanaungatanga. He mea nui te mōhio ki ngā tohu o te pōuri ā-ira i roto i ngā tāne nā te mea
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Ko te Imago Therapy, e mōhiotia ana ko te Imago Relationship Therapy, he huarahi motuhake mō te tohutohu i ngā tokorua kua hangaia hei āwhina i a kōrua ko tō hoa ki te kōrero pai ake, me te whakaora i ngā patunga kare ā-roto. Ko te kupu "imago" he kupu Latina mō te "ahua," e pā ana ki te ahua ngaro o te aroha e mau ana i ia tangata mai i te tamarikitanga. I roto i te Imago Therapy, ka tūhura koe me pēhea tō...
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Ina rongo koe i tētahi hoa e kōrero ana kei te tūtaki ia ki tētahi e rua tekau tau te pakeke ake, ka huri haere ngā pātai mano tini. Tērā pea ka hurihia ō kanohi ki tētahi katakata "mō te raruraru o waenganui o te ao". Tērā pea kei te hiahia koe ki te mōhio nā te mea kua roa koe e hiahia ana ki ngā hoa kua roa ake te pakeke. Tērā pea ko koe te tangata i roto i tētahi hononga e rua tekau tau te rerekētanga o te tau, ā, ka whakahengia koe i ia wā.
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Kua pāngia koe e te pouri ina whara koe i tētahi e arohaina ana e koe? Tērā pea he hoa rangatira, he mema o te whānau, he hoa tata rānei i tukua koe kia hinga i te kore e tūmanakohia. Ka taea e taua kare ā-roto mamae te mamae hohonu, te whakaoho i te mamae me te pouri. I roto i ngā whanaungatanga, he maha ngā wā ka puta te mamae mai i ngā tumanakohanga kua pakaru, i te kore aro rānei ki ngā kare ā-roto, ā, ka taea e ia te waiho i a koe kia pōhēhē, kia pōhēhē hoki.
Ko te kupu "Banksying" i roto i te whakaipoipo he kupu mō te whanonga paitini e ringihia ana e te tangata he whakamoemiti nui rawa atu ki a koe, ā, i muri mai ka mawehe atu koe, ka waiho koe kia pōuri. I ahu mai te ingoa i te kaitoi tiriti a Banksy, e mōhiotia ana mō ana mahi toi ohorere me ngā huringa whakaari, e tohu ana i te mahi a tēnei rautaki whakaipoipo. I roto i te horopaki Banksying, ka hangaia e te hoa he
Ina aroha koe ki tētahi, he ngāwari noa iho te wareware i aua feaa e mau tonu ana i roto i tō hinengaro. Engari ki te titiro matatau koe, tera pea ka kitea e koe ngā tohu whakatūpato - ngā tohu whero rongonui i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga. Koinei ngā whanonga me ngā waiaro e tohu ana i ngā raruraru kei mua. Tērā pea ka puta mai hei kōrero huna, hei aituā nui rānei.
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Haere ki roto i tētahi rūma i runga i te ringa o tō hoa, ā, ka tata rongo koe i te tapanga e rere ana i runga i te whāriki: he wahine tohu. I roto i te ahurea rongonui, he whakarāpopototanga tēnei mō tētahi hoa rangatira rangatahi, ātaahua hoki e noho ana hei tohu mana i roto i te marena—he tangata e whakaatuhia ana i tua atu i te rongonga, e whakanuia ana mō te ataahua, ehara i te mea mō te mana whakahaere. He kaha te āhua o te ataahua-mō te moni nā te mea
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I mua i tō hikoi ki te arawhata, he mea nui kia whakarongo ki taua reo o roto, kia titiro hoki ki tō whanaungatanga me ngā kanohi mārama. Ka taea e te aroha te whakapōrearea i te whakaaro, engari ko te mōhio ki ngā tohu whero i nāianei ka taea te whakaora i a koe i te mamae o te ngākau i muri mai. He maha ngā tāngata e aroha ana ka wareware i ngā tohu whakatūpato, me te tumanako ka pai ake ngā mea i muri i te marena. I roto i
7 Ngā Tohu Kaua e Mārena ki a Ia Pānuitia atu »
Ki te mea kua whakaaro koe kei te piri tahi koe me tētahi tamaiti tāne, e mōhio ana koe ki te hōhā me te ngenge o taua wheako. Tērā pea ka kitea koe e kohikohi ana i ana tōkena paru i a ia e matakitaki ana i tētahi kēmu ataata, ko koe rānei te tangata e whakapāha ana mōna ina riri ia. Ehara i te mea ko koe anake.
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