7 Ngā Painga o te Tāne Roa me te Wahine Poto i roto i te Hononga

Kaua e pohehe. Kāore mātou e kī ana ko te whanaungatanga poto o te kōtiro me te tāne roa te mea tino pai, kāore hoki e tika ana kia pērā. Kāore he whiringa teitei mō te aroha. Engari, ki te mea he whanaungatanga poto, he whanaungatanga roa, he whanaungatanga poto, ka whakaae koe he iti noa ngā mea hei painga. He maha ngā painga o tēnei momo whanaungatanga. 

Kei te maumahara tonu ahau ki te āhua o te kume a Amitabh Bachchan i tētahi tūru ki a ia anō i roto i te kiriata Hindi. Kāpīhi Khushi Kāpīhi Gham, kia taea ai e tana wahine (e takarohia ana e tana hoa rangatira tūturu, a Jaya Bachchan) te piki ki runga hei whakatika i tana tai. Ko te awhi e whai ake nei ka whakaoho i te kare ngawari, ngawari he mea taketake engari he tiaki. Kua tipu ake te whakatipuranga katoa i roto i ngā kōrero aroha a te tāne me te wahine poto, engari he nui atu ngā mea kei roto i tēnei whanaungatanga roa-poto āhuahanga i tua atu i te mea e kitea ana e te kanohi.

He tini ngā tāne me ngā wāhine rongonui he rerekē te roa – ko Ashton Kutcher rāua ko Mila Kunis, ko Chris Hemsworth rāua ko Elsa Pataky, ko Joe Manganiello rāua ko Sofia Vergara, hei tauira noa iho. Engari i mua i te kōrero mō ngā painga o te tāne roa me te wahine poto, me whakautu tuatahi tātou i te pātai: He aha ngā tāne roa e pai ai ki ngā wāhine poto?

He aha i pai ai ngā tāne roa ki ngā kōtiro poto

Tērā pea kei te whakaaro koe: He pai ki ngā tāne roa ngā kōtiro poto? He aha rānei te take e pai ai ngā tāne roa ki ngā kōtiro poto? Āe, koinei pea ngā pātai kua pātaihia e te ao mai anō, engari kāore anō kia kitea he whakautu tuturu ki ēnei pātai. Ahakoa tērā, he tino painga ētahi o te whakaipoipo a te tāne roa ki te kōtiro poto:

• He momo whakahihiri rerekē te hiki i a ia i muri i te awhi
• He roa ake, he tū rangatira hoki ngā tāne i te taha o tētahi kōtiro poto (e mōhio ana mātou he tohu pea tēnei i tō rātou koretake, i tō rātou āhua tāne kino rānei, engari he pono)
• Ka taea e rātou te kawe i a ia ki te moenga
• He rawe ngā awhiawhi, ā, he nui ake te wāhi i roto i te moenga.
• He māmā ake te moe tāne, he nui ake hoki te ngahau nā te mea he wāhi mō te whakamātautau
• He āwhina nui ngā tāne roa ki te tiki mea mai i ngā whata teitei, i ngā kāpata rānei o te kīhini.

He pai, he kino hoki ngā āhuatanga katoa. He maha pea ngā raruraru whanaungatanga mō te tāne roa, te wahine poto, engari he nui ake ngā painga i ērā. Hei tauira, he kōtiro poto e awhi ana i tētahi tāne roa. Kāore ianei tēnei i tētahi o ngā wāhi haumaru hei noho? Hei tāpiri, he awhi tino pai. Kaua e wareware, he tino ātaahua ngā mahi katoa a tētahi kōtiro poto. 

7 Ngā Painga o te Tāne Roa me te Wahine Poto i roto i te Hononga

He pai ki ngā tāne roa te whakaipoipo i ngā kōtiro poto? Āe, he maha ngā wā ka arohia ngā tāne e ngā wāhine poto ake i a rātou. Me kī atu he koretake, he koretake rānei te mate o te mate, engari ko tō rātou 'wairua toa' ka whakaoho i a rātou kia kaha, kia mana, kia tiaki hoki i te wahine e arohaina ana e rātou. Ki te tini o ngā tāne, e kitea ana he kotiro roa he tangata kaha, he tangata whakamataku hoki. Ka kukume ngā kōtiro poto i ō rātou wairua tiaki me ō rātou āwangawanga. Koinei tētahi o ngā raruraru whanaungatanga tino noa o te tāne roa me te kōtiro poto.

Ahakoa rā, he maha ngā painga o te hoa tāne roa, te hoa wahine poto. Ki te mea kei roto koe i tētahi hononga pēnei, e tino mōhio ana mātou ka taea e koe te hono atu ki tēnā. He maha ngā rangahau kua mahia mō tēnei, e kī ana ko te hononga o te kotiro poto me te tama roa ka roa ake, ā, he hononga harikoa, he hononga whai hua hoki. Kua hanga e mātou he rārangi o ngā painga e whitu o te tāne roa me te kotiro poto ka hono atu pea koe ki ēnei:

1. Ka taea e ia te eke ki tētahi teitei

Ahakoa he whakatika i ngā pūangi rama, he tango taonga rānei mai i ngā whata teitei, i ngā kāpata rānei o te whare, he mea whai hua tonu te hoa tāne roa. Ka taea hoki e ia te āwhina i a koe ki te taurite i runga i tētahi arawhata pakarukaru, te hiki rānei i a koe ki roto i ōna ringa i a koe e tango ana i te pukapuka e hiahiatia ana mai i te whata o runga o te kāpata. Ko ngā mea katoa e hiahiatia ana e koe engari kāore e taea te toro atu, ka tangohia e tō hoa tāne roa māu.

2. He mea aroha noa iho

Ka uru kōrua ki roto i ngā ringa o tētahi ki tētahi, pērā i ngā wāhanga o te panga. kihi rae He rangi te āhua, pērā anō hoki ngā kihi mātao. Ka taea e ia te awhi i a koe i ōna ringa, te awhi rānei i a koe i muri, ka okioki i tōna kauae ki runga i tō mahunga, i tō pakihiwi rānei. Ka taea e koe te okioki i tō mahunga ki runga i tōna uma i a koe e mātakitaki ana i tētahi kiriata. He rite tonu ōna tīhāte, ōna hāte, ōna hūti, ōna hāte rānei ki ngā kāftan whakamarie e tino pai ana ki te awhi i a koe i ngā wā katoa e hiahia ana koe.

3. Ngā painga o te tāne roa me te kōtiro poto – Ka noho haumaru koe, ka noho haumaru hoki

Ko tētahi atu painga o tētahi hononga hoa tāne roa, hoa wahine poto, ko tō noho haumaru me tō noho haumaru ina tata ia ki a koe. Ka taea e koe te kopikopiko noa i ngā tiriti, i ngā ara tawhito rānei o te takiwa, nā te mea e mōhio ana koe ka tū pakari tō hoa tāne roa ki runga ake i tētahi tangata kino e ngana ana ki te whanoke i a koe. Koinei pea tētahi o ngā mea pai rawa atu mō tētahi hononga kotiro poto me tētahi tama roa. Haunga tēnā, ko ōna ringa te wāhi haumaru i hiahia tonu koe.

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4. He māmā ake te huna, te uru rānei ki ngā wāhi iti

He aha ngā tāne roa e pai ai ki ngā kōtiro poto? Nā te mea he tino ngāwari, he watea hoki mō rātou te uru ki ngā wāhi iti, ki ngā wāhi iti rānei. Ahakoa he tiki i te mana mamao mai i te wāhi iti i muri i te sofa, i te tūru rānei, he ngokingoki rānei i raro i te moenga, i te tēpu rānei ki te tiki i tētahi mea i taka pea koe, ko te hoa wahine poto te mea pai rawa atu. Hei tāpiri, ka taea e koe te huna i ngā mea katoa. ngā koha huritau ka hokona e koe māna i ngā kāpata teitei ake nā te mea e mōhio ana koe e kore rawa e taea e ia te toro atu ki aua kāpata.

5. He rawe ngā awhi me ngā awhi

He tino ātaahua te awhi a te kōtiro poto i tētahi tāne roa. He tino pai te uru o ia ki roto i ōna ringa. Kāore ianei ēnei awhi e meinga ai koe kia arohaina, kia haumaru hoki? Whakaarohia te hokinga mai ki te kāinga me ēnei awhi mahana i muri i tētahi rā mahi hoha. He tino pai te āhua, tika? He rite ki tētahi wāhi haumaru e matara atu ana i ngā raruraru o te ao. Ka taea e koe te awhi noa i roto i ōna ringa, te okioki i tō mahunga ki runga i tōna uma, me te rongo i tōna manawa pā.

Kaua e wareware, he tino mīharo hoki ngā awhi! Ka taea e ia te awhi noa, te whakapūmau rānei i a koe i te pō, ā, ka meinga koe kia rite ki te pai o te ao. Mena he hoa tāne roa tāu, anei tētahi kīwaha e pā ana ki a koe: "He poto noa ngā mea pai katoa, pērā i a koe, engari ko ngā mea roa te wā e roa ai te whanake, ka ataahua ai te whanaungatanga pumau."

6. He maha atu ngā whakamātautau me ngā tūnga moepuku

Ko tētahi o ngā painga whakamiharo o te tāne roa me te kōtiro poto ko te tino rawe o tō oranga moepuku. Ka taea e koe te whakamātau i ngā momo mea e kiia ana he uaua. tūranga sex ā, kia nui ake te māia i runga i te moenga. Kāore he mea e kiia ana he tūnga whakamā. Ka tino wera tō oranga moepuku. Ka taea e koe te hiki i a ia (me te whakaae) te hiki, te takahuri me te huri i a ia, te pupuri rānei i a ia ki raro – kāore he mea e āraia ana. Ka taea e koe te huri i ō whakaaro katoa hei mea tūturu.

7. Ngā painga o te tāne roa me te wahine poto – Ka taea e ia te kawe ngāwari i a koe

He pai ki ngā tāne roa te whakaipoipo i ngā kōtiro poto? Ae. Nā te mea ka taea e rātou te hiki ake i a ia, te kawe rānei i a ia i ngā wā katoa e hiahia ana ia kia arohia. Kei te moe te hoa wahine i runga i te tūru i a ia e mātaki ana i te kiriata? Kāore he raruraru. Ka taea e rātou te kawe i a ia ki te moenga. Kua hoha koe ki te hikoi? Hopukia ia mō tētahi wā. Kāore koe e manukanuka kei whara ia i a koe e mahi ana. Ka taea e koe te kawe ngāwari i a ia ki te kāinga, ki te papa waka rānei mēnā kua haurangi rawa ia, kāore e taea te tū tika.

Ngā Mea Poto mō ngā Kōtiro Me Mōhio Koe

Nā te mea kua kōrerohia e tātou ngā painga o te whanaungatanga i waenganui i te kōtiro poto me te tama roa, anei ētahi kōrero mō te whanaungatanga kōtiro poto me mōhio koe i mua i tō whakatau kia noho hei tokorua poto me te roa.

• Ahakoa tōna iti, tera pea he āhua whakahirahira tōna, ā, he hinengaro anō tōna.
• Kaua rawa e kī atu ki a ia he pai ki a koe tōna iti. Ahakoa he ātaahua te ahua, engari ka taea e koe te tiki i tētahi whakaaro mōna.
• Me matatau koe ki te tiki mea mai i ngā wāhi kāore e taea e ia te tae atu.
• Piko ki raro ki kihi ia, hāmama ki roto i ōna taringa, whakatakotoria taua whenu makawe ki muri i ōna taringa, ā, tērā pea ka ngoikore ōna turi i a koe
• Kaua rawa, kaua rawa, kaua rawa e takoto tō ringa, tō tuke rānei ki runga i tōna māhunga pērā i tāu mahi ki ngā tāne. Ka puta te āhua o te tīkā i roto i a ia.
• Tērā pea he poto tōna roa, he pukuriri hoki. Kaua e whakapataritari i a ia.

Tērā pea he maha ngā raruraru i roto i te whanaungatanga o te tāne roa, te wahine poto, engari he nui ake ngā painga i roto i ēnei raruraru. Ki te mea kei roto koe i tētahi whanaungatanga pēnei, ka mōhio koe. Haunga tēnā, ko tēhea whanaungatanga kāore he raruraru? Kāore mātou e kī ana ko te hoa tāne roa me te hoa wahine poto te mea tika, koia rānei te mea tino pai, engari kāore hoki e taea te whakakore i te meka kua noho te whanaungatanga o te tāne roa me te wahine poto hei tikanga noa i roto i tō tātou hapori tāne rangatira.

Haunga tēnā, ko ngā whanaungatanga e hangai ana ki te aroha me te whakaae ki ngā rerekētanga, ki ngā hapa rānei o tētahi ki tētahi. Mēnā he aroha, he whakawhirinaki, he te whakaute tetahi i tetahi i roto i te whanaungatanga, kāore he mea kē atu e tika ana kia nui. Kaua te teitei e waiho hei take whakatau mō te aroha. 

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