He aha te momo tāne e kukume ana i ahau? Pātaitai

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He aha te momo tāne e kukume ana ahau
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Pania ki maui, pania ki matau… kua whakaaro koe mēnā he tauira kei roto i ō haerenga taupānga whakaipoipo? Kei te kitea e koe he taurite tonu koe ki te "momo" kotahi (ā, kāore pea i te huarahi pai i ngā wā katoa)? Kua tae ki te wā ki te whakarērea te panuku mutunga kore me te tiki i te whakautu ki taua pātai e pupū ake ana i roto i tō mahunga, "He aha te momo tāne ka kukume ahau?" Ehara tēnei i te whakamātautau a tō kuia "he aha ngā tāne ka kukume ahau" – he mea hanga tēnei pātaitai mō te tohunga whakaipoipo o ēnei rā, ahakoa he pī Bumble koe, he tigress Tinder, he tangata e tumanako ana ki te Hinge rānei. I hangaia e te tohunga mohio kaitohutohu whanaungatanga, mā tēnei pātaitai e 8 ngā pātai koe e āwhina ki te hura i ngā tauira huna o tō oranga whakaipoipo.

He aukume koe mō te hunga e rapu ana i ngā mea whakahihiri, te hunga mātau, te hunga ngaro rānei? Tērā pea ka kukume koe i te ranunga o ēnei e toru! Mā tēnei pātaitai ka whakakitea tō āhuatanga pai rawa atu ina tae mai ki te kukume i ngā hoa, me te momo tāne e ngaro atu ana pea koe (kia ora, he taonga huna!). Nō reira, whakarērea te whakaaro noa, kia rite ki te iriti i ngā mea ngaro o tō oranga whakaipoipo! Whakaotia te pātaitai, tohaina ō hua ki ō hoa pai, ā, tērā pea ka kitea "taua tangata" kāore koe i mōhio kei te rapu koe.

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1. He aha tāu e mahi ana i tō wā waatea?

  • Te whai wāhi atu ki ngā mahi auaha, te mahi tūao rānei.
  • Te whakawhanaungatanga me ngā hoa i ngā pāti, i ngā huihuinga rānei.
  • Te pārekareka ki ngā mahi mārie pēnei i te pānui pukapuka, te hikoi takitahi rānei.
  • Te mahi i te whanaketanga whaiaro, te whai rānei i ngā whāinga whakapakari tinana.

2. He aha te momo whakawhitiwhiti kōrero e pai ana ki a koe ina tūtaki koe ki ngā tāngata hou?

  • He tangata māhorahora ahau, ā, he pai ki ahau te tīmata kōrero.
  • He pai ki ahau te whakarongo me te mātakitaki i mua i te whakapuaki.
  • He pai ake ki ahau ngā kōrero hōhonu takitahi i ngā kōrero pakupaku.
  • He tika, he mārama taku kōrero mō aku hiahia me aku whāinga.

3. He aha to whakaaro mo te ra tino pai?

  • Te toro atu ki tētahi whare toi, te haere rānei ki tētahi huihuinga ahurea.
  • Te haere ki tētahi wharekai rongonui, te whakamātau rānei i ngā mahi hou.
  • Te kōrero whai tikanga i te wā kawhe, i te hikoi rānei.
  • Te mahi i tētahi mahi mōrearea pērā i te piki toka, te ruku rangi rānei.

4. He aha ngā āhuatanga e tino whakanuia ana e koe i roto i tētahi hoa rangatira?

  • Te auahatanga, te aroha, me te ngākau aroha.
  • Te māia, te hihiri, me te ngākau hihiko.
  • Te mātauranga, te hohonutanga o ngā kare ā-roto, me te pono.
  • Te tū motuhake, te whakahoahoa, me te wairua harikoa.

5. Me pēhea te whakahaere i ngā tautohe i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga?

  •  He pai ake ki ahau te kōrero tuwhera me te kimi huarahi e pai ai te whakatau.
  •  Tērā pea ka karohia e au te tautohetohe, ka ngana rānei ahau ki te pupuri i te rangimārie.
  •  He mea nui ki ahau te pono me te tika, ahakoa ka arahi ki te tautohetohe.
  •  He tangata pakari ahau, ā, i ētahi wā ka ara ake he tautohe.

6. He aha tāu huarahi ki te whakatipu whaiaro me te whakapai ake i a koe anō?

  •    a) Kei te rapu tonu ahau i ngā wheako hou me ngā whai wāhitanga ako.
  •    b) Ka awhi ahau i ngā wero, ā, ka kite ahau i aua wero hei whai wāhitanga mō te tipu.
  •    c) He mea nui ki ahau te whakaaroaro me te whakaaroaro ki ahau anō kia pai ake ai tōku mārama ki ahau anō.
  •    d) Ka whakatakoto au i ngā whāinga, ā, ka mahi māia ki te whakatutuki i aua whāinga.

7. He aha te tūranga o ngā wairua whakakatakata i roto i tō koiora?

  •    a) He mea nui! He pai ki ahau te kata, ā, he pai ki ahau te wairua whakakatakata me te wairua whakakatakata.
  •    b) He pai ki ahau ngā katakata, engari kāore e whakanuia e au tēnei i runga ake i ētahi atu āhuatanga.
  •    c) He pai ki ahau ngā katakata maroke, ngā katakata whakatoi rānei, ā, he pai ki ahau ngā kōrero whakakatakata.
  •    d) He tino pai tōku wairua whakakatakata, ā, he pai ki ahau te mea kia kata te tangata.

8. He aha ō whakaaro mō te whakapau kaha me ngā whanaungatanga mō te wā roa?

  •    a) E tuwhera ana ahau ki te whakaaro mō tētahi whanaungatanga pumau, engari e whakanuia ana e au te tū motuhake.
  •    b) Kei te pupuri tonu ahau i aku kōwhiringa kia tuwhera, ā, kāore e whakawhāiti i ahau anō
  •    c) Kei te rapu au i tētahi hononga hōhonu, whai tikanga hoki ki tētahi tangata motuhake.
  •    d) Kei te rapu au i tētahi e whakapau kaha ana mō te wā roa ki tētahi e rite ana ōku uara ki ahau

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