E aroha ana ia ki ahau? Pātaitai

pātaitai | March 11, 2024 | Kaituhi Tohunga Dhriti Bhavsar , Tumuaki Hinengaro
Whakahōungia i te: 31 o Hūrae, 2024

Porohia te aroha

Nō reira, kua roa kōrua e whakaipoipo ana. He āhua moemoeā ia, ā, kei te pai ngā mea katoa. Kei te aroha koe, ā, e mōhio ana koe ki tēnā engari kei te whakaaro tonu koe mēnā he rite tonu ōna kare ā-roto. He mea mōhio tēnei? He tokomaha o tātou kua raru ki te pātai tawhito: "e aroha ana ia ki ahau?"

Kei konei mātou hei whakamārama i tō pōhēhētanga mā te whakamahi i tēnei 'Whakamātautau Aroha Mai Ana Ia Ki Ahau'. I hangaia e tētahi kaitohutohu whanaungatanga Kua āwhina i te tini o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, ā, e mārama ana ki te kite i ngā tohu katoa, mā tēnei koe e āwhina ki te whakatau i ngā āhuatanga o tō whanaungatanga. Kāore he wā e moumou noa ai i ngā rau putiputi me te whakaaro, "e aroha ana ia ki ahau, kāore rānei?". Tekau ngā pātai māmā engari he whai kiko kei mua i a koe mō tō whakautu.

Ka taea e tēnei pātaitai te āwhina i a koe ki te whakamārama i tō pōhēhētanga, me te whakamana i a koe kia anga whakamua me te mārama ake mō tō whanaungatanga. Nō reira, manawa hōhonu, ka tīmata i tēnei haerenga o te kimi mātauranga. Kia maumahara, kāore he whakautu tika, he whakautu hē rānei. Ahakoa e whakaatu mai ana ngā hua ki a koe kāore ia e aroha ki a koe, ehara i te mea kāore ia e pena ā muri ake nei. Ko tōna tikanga me nui ake te wā e puāwai ai tō kōrua aroha, nō reira me whakamakuku kōrua ki te whakapau kaha, ki te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, me te māramatanga hōhonu ki ngā hiahia o tētahi ki tētahi.

Pātaitai e pā ana: Kei te aroha tonu taku hoa o mua ki ahau? Pātaitai

Pātaitai e pā ana: He kaha ahau ki te aroha? Pātaitai

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1. Me pēhea tana whakaatu i tōna aroha ki a koe?

a) He maha ana kōrero mai e aroha ana ia ki ahau, ā, e whakaatu mai ana i tōna aroha mā roto i ngā nekehanga.
b) E whakaatu ana ia i te aroha i ētahi wā engari kāore i te tino whakapuaki i ōna kare ā-roto.
c) Kāore ia e tino whakaatu aroha, e kī rānei "Kei te aroha ahau ki a koe."

2. Me pēhea tana whakatau i ō hiahia me ō wawata i roto i te whanaungatanga?

a) E whakaaro ana ia he rite te hiranga o aku matea me aku hiahia ki tāna ake.
b) E ngana ana ia ki te whakatutuki i aku hiahia engari i ētahi wā ka whakatairangahia e ia āna ake.
c) He maha āna wā kāore e aro ki aku hiahia, ā, ka whakatairanga i ana ake hiahia.

3. Me pēhea tana kōrero ki a koe i ngā wā uaua, i ngā wā pakanga rānei?

a) Ka whakarongo matatau ia, ka tuku tautoko, ā, ka mahi kia ea te raruraru.
b) Ka ngana ia ki te karo i ngā pakanga, ki te ārai rānei i a ia i te wā e kōrero ana.
c) Ka whakarērea e ia aku āwangawanga, ā, kāore ia e whai wāhi ki te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero whai hua.

4. He aha tana whanonga i te taha o ō hoa me tō whānau?

a) Ka kaha tana mahi tahi me rātou, ka whakaatu i tōna hiahia, ā, ka ngana ki te hanga whanaungatanga.
b) He tangata atawhai ia engari he āhua ātaahua, he āhua tawhiti rānei.
c) Kāore ia e whakaatu ana i te hiahia nui ki te mōhio ki a rātou, ki te noho tahi rānei me rātou.

5. He pēhea tāna whakahaere i a kōrua ki te whakarite mahere mō āpōpō?

a) Ka whakaurua ahau e ia ki roto i āna mahere mō te wā roa, ā, ka kōrero tahi ia mō tō māua heke mai.
b) Ka whakatakoto ia i ngā mahere mō te wā poto engari e mangere ana ki te kōrero mō te heke mai.
c) Kāore ia e whakarite mahere mō te heke mai, e ahua kore rānei ia e tino mōhio mō te ahunga o te whanaungatanga.

6. He aha tāna tauhohenga ki ō whakatutukitanga, ki ō angitu rānei?

a) E whakanui ana ia i aku angitu, ā, e whakapuaki ana hoki i tōna harikoa pono mōku.
b) E mihi ana ia ki aku whakatutukitanga engari kāore i te whakaatu i te nui o te hihiri.
c) Te āhua nei kāore ia e aro, e kore rānei e aro ki aku whakatutukitanga.

7. He aha tāna urupare ki ō hiahia kare ā-roto, ki ō ngoikoretanga rānei?

a) Ka tautoko mai ia, ka aroha mai, ka whakamarie mai hoki i ahau ina pōuri ana ahau.
b) Kāore ia i te pai ki ngā whakaaturanga kare ā-roto engari e ngana ana ki te tautoko.
c) Ka whakakorekore ia, ka whakakorekore rānei i ōku kare ā-roto, ā, ka uaua ki te tuku tautoko.

8. He aha āna kaupapa matua mō te noho tahi me koe?

a) Ko te whakapau i te wā kounga tahi hei kaupapa matua māna i roto i tana kaupapa mahi.
b) Ka noho tahi māua i te wā e watea ana, engari kāore e whakarite kia nui ake te wā e hiahiatia ana.
c) He maha āna whakakorenga i ngā mahere, e rapu ana rānei i ngā whakamārama hei karo i te noho tahi.

9. He aha tāna kōrero mō tō kōrua heke mai?

a) E kōrero ana ia mō tō tātou heke mai me te hihiri me te whakapau kaha.
b) E ruarua ana ia, e kore rānei e mārama ana ina kōrero tahi ia mō tō māua heke mai.
c) Kāore ia e kōrero mō te heke mai, kāore rānei e aro ki te whakapau kaha mō te wā roa.

10. He aha āna whakaaro mōu me tō whanaungatanga?

a) Māna ahau e mea kia rongo i te aroha, i te uara, me te haumaru i roto i te whanaungatanga.
b) I ētahi wā ka meinga ahau e ia kia ruarua i ōna kare ā-roto, i te pumau rānei o te whanaungatanga.
c) He maha āna mea hei whakamā i ahau, hei mea rānei kāore au i te arohaina i roto i te whanaungatanga.

Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.