He takatāpui koe, he wā noa iho rānei? Kaua e manukanuka, kei waenganui i 2.8 ki 4% he nui ngā wāhine e kī ana he takatāpui rātou, he tohu rānei nō te takatāpui. Waihoki, he nui haere ngā tāne o ēnei rā e kī ana he 'takatāpui' rātou.
Ko Robyn Ochs, he kaiwhakahau ira-rua, ētita o te kohinga pukapuka Te Whiwhi i te Ira Tāne me te Wahine: Ngā Reo o ngā Ira Tāne me te Wahine huri noa i te Ao, me te Mōhio, e tuhituhi ana, "E whakaae ana te tangata takirua i roto i a ia anō te kaha ki te kukume — i te taha aroha, i te taha kare ā-roto, i te taha moepuku rānei — ki ngā tāngata neke atu i te kotahi te ira tangata, ehara i te mea i te wā kotahi, i te ara kotahi, i te taumata kotahi rānei."
Kei konei te pātai 'He Bi-I, he āhua noa iho rānei ahau' hei whakaora i a koe! E whitu noa iho ngā pātai e pā ana ki tēnei pātai, ā, ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakatau i tō hiahia ā-ira tangata…
E ai ki a Bjork, kaiwaiata, "Ki taku whakaaro ko te whiriwhiri i waenga i te tāne me te wahine he rite ki te whiriwhiri i waenga i te keke me te aihikirīmi. He kuware koe ki te kore e whakamātau i ngā mea e rua ina he maha ngā momo reka."
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
Kāore i te rawaka te whānuitanga o te whakamātautau, ā, kāore i whakaurua ngā pātai nui.