Ko te mamae o te ngākau, he mamae nui e haere tahi ana me te hinganga o te turanga o te aroha, he kare ā-roto e pā ana ki te ao whānui engari he whakamārama motuhake. I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka tīmata tātou i tētahi haerenga whakahihiri i roto i te arai o te mamae o te ngākau, e tūhura ana i ngā tirohanga a ngā tāngata rerekē kua whakatere i te whenua pōrearea o te aroha.
Kei roto i a rātou ko John Green, ko Ella Harper, me Julia Roberts, e tuku ana i ō rātou ake whakaaro hohonu mō te āhua o te mamae o te ngākau.
Mā roto i ngā reo o ēnei tāngata whakaaro nui, ngoikore, me te manawanui, ka rapu mātou i te whakamarie, i te māramatanga, me te kanapa o te tumanako i waenganui i ngā maramara pakaru o ō mātou ngākau. Hono mai ki a mātou i a mātou e whakamama tahi ana i te mamae o te ngākau pouri.
1. "He wā poto noa te roa o te ahuareka o te aroha. Ko te mamae o te aroha ka roa mo te wa katoa." —Bette Davis
2. "I hoatu e ahau toku ngakau ki a koe, kaore au i whakaaro ka hoki mai ano." —Kaore e mohiotia
3. “Kare koe e mate i te ngakau maru. Ko koe anake e hiahia ana koe." —Kaore e mohiotia
4. "Ka taea e koe te aroha nui ki tētahi, engari kāore e taea e koe te aroha ki te tangata pērā i tō ngaro i a rātou." -John Green
5. "Ina ngaro pinepine tātou i tētahi, ko te mea e ngaro ana i a tātou ko te wāhanga o tātou ka ara ake tētahi." -Luigina Sgarro
6. "He mea whakamiharo te taea e te tangata te wawahi i tō ngākau, ā, ka taea tonu e koe te aroha ki a rātou me ngā wahi iti katoa." -Ella Harper
7. “Ehara koe i te whetu noa ki ahau. Ko koe taku rangi whakatara katoa." —Kaore e mohiotia
8. “I rere atu koe me nga pakau o toku ngakau, a whakarerea ana ahau e koe.” —Stelle Atwater
9. “Kāore au i te mōhio he aha i kiia ai he mamae ngākau. Me te mea kua whati katoa ngā wāhanga o tōku tinana.” —Terri Guillemets
10. “Ko te aroha ki a koe i rite ki te haere ki te whawhai; Kaore au i hoki mai ano." —Warsan Shire
11. "Ko te mea tino pouri ko te waiho mo te meneti ki tetahi ka waiho e koe mo ake tonu atu." —Sanober Kahn
12. "Ko te hinga i roto i te aroha he tino ngawari, engari ki te hinga i te aroha he tino kino." —Bess Myerson
13. "He mea miharo te maha o ngā wā e whati ai te ngākau i mua i te wā e taea ai e ngā tau te whakaaro nui." -Sara Teasdale
14. “E rua nga kupu. E toru nga oropuare. E wha orokati. E whitu nga reta. Ka taea e ia te tapahi i a koe kia tuwhera ki te uho ka waiho koe i roto i te mamae kino, ka taea ranei e ia te wewete i to wairua me te hapai i te taumaha nui mai i ou pokohiwi. Ko te kupu: Kua mutu.” —Maggi Richard
15. “I roto i ngā miriona me ngā miriona tāngata e noho ana i tēnei ao, ko ia tētahi o te hunga torutoru e kore rawa e taea e au te whiwhi.” —Tabitha Suzuma
16. "He uaua ki te tono atu ki tētahi ngākau maru kia aroha anō." -Eric Krike
17. "Ko te ngākau maru ko ngā mamae tipu e tika ana kia taea ai e koe te aroha nui atu ina tae mai te mea tūturu." – JSB Morse
18. “Me i pai ahau ki te tukino i a koe penei i a koe i tukino i ahau. Engari e mohio ana ahau mehemea ka whai waahi ahau, kare au e mahi. —Kaore e mohiotia
19. "Ko te whakaaro ki a koe he paihana ka inu pinepine ahau." —Atika
20. "Ko te kare kino rawa atu o te ao ko te kore e taea e koe te aroha ki tētahi atu nā te mea kei te noho tonu tō ngākau ki te tangata nāna i pakaru." —Unknown
21. “Nō reira, he pono, ina oti ngā mea katoa, ko te pouri te utu mō te aroha.” —EA Bucchianeri
22. “Kare rawa ahau e pouri i te aroha ki a koe, me te whakapono i aroha ano koe ki ahau.” —Kaore e mohiotia
23. "Ka kite koe i tētahi rā, ko tō hapa nui ko te kore aroha ki ahau." —Nishan Panwar
24. “Kei te tino aroha ahau ki te maharatanga. He paoro mai i tetahi atu wa, he waahi kee." —Michael Faudet
25. "Ehara i te mea ka mutu tō kare ā-roto mēnā ka whati te ngākau. Ko te ritenga kē—ko tōna tikanga ka nui ake tō kare ā-roto." —Julie Johnson
26. "Aue, me i rite anō ahau ki tētahi kōtiro nohinohi nā te mea he māmā ake te whakatika i ngā turi kiri i te ngākau maru." -Julia Roberts
27. “I te wā i whakahokia ai ngā wahi, ahakoa te āhua ora tonu, kāore koe i rite ki tō āhua i mua i te hinganga.” —Jodi Picoult
28. “Ki te timata koe ki te ngaro i ahau, maharatia: Kare au i haere atu, ka tuku koe i ahau kia haere.” —Kaore e mohiotia
29. "Kaua e tangi ina ngaro te rā, nā te mea e kore ngā roimata e tuku i a koe kia kite i ngā whetū." -Violeta Parra
30. "Ka waiho e te mate he mamae e kore e taea te whakaora, ka waiho e te aroha he mahara e kore e taea te tahae." -Richard Puz
31. "Ahakoa te kino o te pakaru o tō ngākau, e kore te ao e mutu mō tō pouri." -Faraaz Kazi
32. “Kaua e pouri mo te tangata kua tuku atu ki a koe, arohaina ia na te mea kua whakarerea e ia te tangata e kore rawa e whakarere ki a ia.” —Frank Moana
33. "I tētahi rā ka mahara koe ki ahau me te nui o taku aroha ki a koe… kātahi ka kino koe ki a koe anō mō te tuku i ahau kia haere." -Aubrey Drake Graham
34. "Kaua rawa e tukua te tangata kino kia huri i tō pai o roto." – Karen Salmansohn
35. "Ko te murunga hara he kakara e ringihia ana e te waioleto ki te rekereke nāna i kuru."- Mark Twain
36. "Te wehenga. Ka puta ohorere. I tētahi meneti, kei te pupuri ringa kōrua e hikoi ana i te tiriti, ā, i te meneti i muri mai, kei te takoto kōrua i runga i te papa e tangi ana, ā, kua ngaro katoa ngā CD pai." – Kennedy Kasares
37. "E toru ngā kupu ka taea e au te whakarāpopoto i ngā mea katoa kua akohia e au mō te ao: kei te haere tonu."- Robert Frost
38. "He kaha tō wheako pouri, engari he kaha anō hoki tō kaha ki te aroha me te whakaora." – Kāore i te mōhiotia
39. "Ka toto te roimata i te ngākau maru." -Steve Maraboli
40. "Ko te pakaru o te ngākau ina whati te ata noho nui rawa atu." -Carroll Bryant
41. "Āe, e mārama ana ahau he aha i pēnei ai ngā mea. E mārama ana ahau ki tana take i mamae ai ahau. Engari ko te mārama noa iho kāore e taea te peia atu i te mamae. Kāore e karanga ki te rā ina taupokina ahau e ngā kapua pōuri. Tukua kia ua mai te ua mēnā me tae mai! Ā, kia horoia atu te puehu i whara ai ōku kanohi!" -Jocelyn Soriano
42. "Ko te aroha te moemoeā tino ataahua, me te moemoeā kino rawa atu." - Aman Jassal
43. "Ehara te ngākau maru i te mea kua maru koe. Kei reira te kapiti hei tuku i te māramatanga ki roto." -Unknown
44. "Ahakoa te nui o tō hiahia kia hiahia mai tētahi ki a koe, kāore he mea e taea e koe te mahi hei whakatutuki i tēnā. Ahakoa he aha tāu i mahi ai mā rātou, ahakoa he aha tāu i hoatu ai ki a rātou, ahakoa he aha tāu i tuku ai i a rātou kia tangohia, e kore rawa e ranea. Kāore rawa e ranea hei tino mōhio. Kāore rawa e ranea hei whakamātau i a rātou. Kāore rawa e ranea hei aukati i a rātou kia haere atu. Kāore rawa e ranea hei mea kia aroha rātou ki a koe." - Manna Francis
45. "Ko te aroha kore utu he kanga mutunga kore o te ngākau mokemoke." -Christina Westover
46. “Me here ahau i a koe e haere noa ana, me aroha ahau ki tētahi tangata kāore e aroha ki ahau, me whānau mai ahau me te iti o te toi, kia aroha ai ahau ki tētahi tangata e whati ai tōku ngākau?” -Cassandra Clare
47. "I te wā i whakahokia ai ngā wahi, ahakoa te āhua ora tonu, kāore koe i rite ki tō āhua i mua i te hinganga." -Jodi Picoult
48. "He uaua te kimi i te aroha, he uaua te pupuri, ā, he uaua hoki te wareware." -Alysha Speer
49. “Kei te ngaro koe i roto i ngā ngaru, ā, i tēnei pō kei te toremi ahau. I waiho ahau e koe kia tiaki i tōku ora, ā, e ahua ana ko koe anake te tangata ka taea te whakahoki mai i ahau ki uta ora tonu.” -Denice Envall
50. "Me i rite te ngāwari o te hinganga o te aroha ki te hinganga ki te aroha. Kāore he aha te ahuareka e kawea mai ana e te aroha ki te whakataurite ki te mamae ina tangohia atu." -Unknown
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
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