I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka kōrero te tohunga ira tangata a Tākuta Rajan Bhonsle, MD, Hon Professor & HOD, Department of Sexual Medicine, KEM Hospital & GSMedical College, mō te rerekētanga kua kitea e ia i roto i ngā tau 36 o te wheako hei tohunga mahi.
He pēhea te hurihanga o te tirohanga ki te moepuku i ngā tau 40 kua pahure ake nei? Pānuihia atu »
Ka huri te hiahia nui ki te whakama nui ina mau koe i a koe e mahi ana i te mahi whakaipoipo. Kāore he whakama nui atu i te mau koe i a koe e mahi ana i te mea kino. I tētahi meneti kei te kihi koe i tāu tāne ki te reo Wīwī, ā, ka werawera, ka taumaha haere ngā mea, ā, i tētahi wā, ka titiro iho koe ki te mata whero o tō hoa.
Tokowhitu ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i whaki i te mauheretanga o rāua i a rāua e mahi ana Pānuihia atu »
(E ai ki tā Joie Bose) I tino hiahia ia ki te whakapau i te wā roa ki ana hoa? Ko te wā tuatahi i puta ai te whakaaro huna kei te tinihanga taku wahine i ahau, ko tana tumanako ki taku haerenga ki te tari i muri i te whiwhinga o tō māua whare hou i Gurgaon. I muri i tō māua marena,
He tangata whakamātau moepuku taku wahine, ā, kua pakaru tā māua whanaungatanga. Pānuihia atu »
E whā tau māua e marena ana, ā, kei tāwāhi taku tāne. I muri i tā māua marena, kāore i oti te marena, ā, i hoki ia ki tāwāhi ki te mahi anō. I noho ahau ki Īnia. I hoki mai ia i muri i ngā marama 10, ā, i reira ka mōhio ahau kāore ia i te pai mō te moe tāne. He ngoikore taku tāne.
He ngoikore taku tāne, ā, kei te moe tahi māua me tētahi atu Pānuihia atu »
Ka huri te āhua o te moe tāne i muri i te marena, ahakoa kua noho tahi kōrua, kua piri tahi rānei i mua i te marena. Ā, mehemea kua tatari kōrua tae noa ki te pō o tō marena kia tīmata ai te moe tāne, he maha ngā mea hei tumanako atu mā kōrua, hei ako atu hoki mō tētahi ki tētahi. Engari, pērā i te nuinga o ngā āhuatanga o
(E ai ki a Joyeeta Talukdar) E whitu tau māua i roto i tētahi hononga ki a Meera. I tētahi rā ka waea mai ia ki ahau me te kī mai, "Kua mutu!" I taua wā tonu, ka mutu tā māua hononga. Ko ia wā i noho tahi ai māua ka tīmata te puta ki mua i ōku kanohi. Ka tīmata ahau ki te whai i a ia i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori ki te
I te wā i arahina ai ahau e taku wehenga ki te tino pouri ā-ira Pānuihia atu »
(E ai ki a Joie Bose) Me waiho te whanaungatanga hei wāhi tapu mō te hononga me te ahuareka, hei wāhi e hono tahi ai ngā wairua e rua i roto i te kanikani o te ngoikore me te hiahia. Engari he aha te mea ka tupu ina taupokina te harikoa o te noho tahi e te pēhanga ki te mahi? Ina huri te rūma moe mai i te piringa o te aroha ki te atamira
Te Pēhanga ki te Mahi, Ina Ka Huri te Hononga ki te Mahi Pānuihia atu »
E kui, i hiahia ahau ki te whakamātau i ngā taonga takaro ira tangata. Tekau tau ahau e moe ana, ā, he pai tō māua oranga ira tangata. Nō nā tata nei kua whakaaro ahau ki te whakamātau i ngā taonga takaro ira tangata, pērā tonu. I ētahi wā ka whakaharikoa te tāne a taku hoa i a ia mā te whakamahi i aua taonga. I whakaaro ahau ka taea e māua te whakamātau i te mea kotahi. Engari ko taku
(E ai ki a Joie Bose) Kāore au i te mōhio ki taku tāne hou, i mataku ahau mō te pō marena, nā te mea koinā te wā e ngaro ai te wahinetanga o te nuinga o ngā wāhine ki tētahi tāne tauhou, ā, me whakamātau e rātou tōna hiahia moepuku tae noa ki tōna rā mate. I mua i taku marena, e rua aku tūtakitanga ki a Jatin. I roto ia i te Kaihokohoko.
E rua tau ahau e moe wahine ana, engari kei te noho wahine tonu ahau Pānuihia atu »
He wahine ahau e 40 tau te pakeke, kua 16 tau te pakeke o taku marena, ā, kua mau ki roto i te raruraru o te marena kore-ira me ngā mahi moepuku. E rima tau ahau e tinihanga ana i taku tāne (me tētahi tāne kua marenatia, he taitamariki ake i ahau). Ahakoa te āhua 30 noa iho ōku tau, kāore taku tāne e aro mai ana ki ahau. Kāore rawa ia i aro mai.
