E kui,
I hiahia ahau ki te whakamātau i ngā taonga takaro ira tangata. Tekau tau māua e marena ana, ā, he hauora tō māua oranga ira tangata.
Nō nā tata nei kua whakaaro ahau ki te whakamātau i ngā taonga takaro ira tangata, pērā tonu. I ētahi wā ka whakaharikoa te tāne a taku hoa i a ia mā te whakamahi i aua taonga. I whakaaro ahau ka taea e tāua te whakamātau i te taua mea anō. Engari e kī ana taku tāne kaua e pērā, nā te mea ina taunga ahau ki te mīhini, kāore au e pai ki te moepuku maori anō, nā te mea kāore he tāne e taea te whakataetae ki te mīhini. He pono tēnei?
Ko tāku mahi e whai ake nei ko te whakarongo atu ki a koe.
Mihi i mua!
E kī ana a Tākuta Sharmila Majumdar:
hi,
E mōhiotia ana te whakamahi a ngā tāne takatāpui i ngā wiriwiri, i ngā taonga takaro ira tangata rānei me ā rātou hoa nā te mea i tūtohutia e tā rātou hoa, nā te mea rānei i whakaaro noa rātou ka taea e tēnei te whakapai ake i te pai o tā rātou hoa ki te moe. Engari i whakaaro ētahi o rātou he kino te pānga o te whakamahi i te wiriwiri ki ō rātou ake kaha moepuku. Mena koinei te āhua, he tika tonu te iti o te pai o te moepuku. Kāore he tangata e pai ki te whakaaro kāore rātou i te pai i te moenga. Tērā pea ka mataku tō hoa kei whakakapia rātou e te whakamahinga a te hoa i tētahi taonga takaro ira tangata, kei whakawhirinaki nui rānei rātou ki a rātou mō te whakaohooho me/te orgasm rānei.
Ko te āhua o te tuwhera me te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i waenga i ngā hoa te mea ka whakarei ake i te whanaungatanga, ka arahi rānei ki te pakanga, te mea pea ka whakawhirinaki ki te āhua o te tuwhera me te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i waenga i ngā hoa. I roto i te horopaki o ngā taonga takaro ira tangata, ko te tikanga o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pai (ko te mea pai) ko:
Ngā hoa e mataku ana ka taea te whakapuaki i ō rātou āwangawanga, te rongo kua rangona, kua whakamanahia, ā, ka whakamanahia mai e ō rātou hoa kāore te hiahia ki te whakamahi i tētahi taonga takaro ira tangata e pā ana ki tō rātou kaha ki te moe tāne, ki te hiahia, ki te āheinga moe tāne rānei.
He hoa e hiahia ana ki te whakamahi i ngā taonga takaro ira tangata ko te mea pai, me taea te whakapuaki i taua hiahia me te kore e whakahengia, e whakama, e kumea atu rānei.
Kōrerohia mā te tuwhera ki tō hoa rangatira, tirohia. Ki te kore ia e pai ki te noho, kaua e akiaki. Ka taea e kōrua te tīmata mā te kaukau tahi, te mirimiri tetahi i tetahi, me ētahi atu.
te papai katoa,
Sharmila
Ngā mea iti ka taea e koe te mahi hei whakarite i te rūma moe mō te mahi aroha nui
Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
Ngā
He aha ahau e kore ai e mutu te whakaaro ki a ia?
Me pēhea te whakamutu i tētahi hononga aroha, ā, ka noho tonu hei hoa?
He aha te take e kino ai taku hoa wahine ki ahau?
He aha ahau i tino piri ai ki te tangata i whara i ahau?
Kei te aroha ahau ki taku hoa pai rawa atu? Me aha ahau?
Me murua e au taku tāne mō tana tinihanga?
I tinihanga ahau i taku hoa tāne. Me pēhea taku whakatika?
I tinihanga taku tāne, ā, i whānau he pēpi mā te wahine kē
I tinihanga taku tāne i ahau me tētahi tāne
I tinihanga taku hoa tāne i ahau, engari kei te hiahia tonu ahau kia noho tahi māua. Me aha ahau?
Ko taku tane he riri me te kino ki ahau i nga wa katoa
He aha ahau i whakaaro tonu ai kei te tinihanga taku hoa wahine
I hiahia ahau ki te whakarere. He aha ahau i pouri ai?
Kei te kōrero tonu taku tāne ki te wahine i tinihangatia ai ahau e ia
I teka taku tāne ki ahau. Me pēhea taku whakawhirinaki anō ki a ia?
I tinihanga taku tāne ki ahau, me aha ahau?
I tinihanga ahau engari e hiahia ana ahau ki te whakaora i taku whanaungatanga
He aha ahau i riri ai ki taku tāne mō te kore mahi. Me aha ahau?
Kei te tinihanga taku tāne i ahau me taku hoa pai rawa atu
E kino ana taku wahine ki taku hoa wahine pai rawa atu. Me aha ahau?