I mua i te kōrero mō te huarahi hei kukume i te aroha o tētahi tāne ki a koe, me whakamārama atu kāore mātou e kī ana kia tinihangatia ia, kia whakarerekētia rānei tō āhua. I roto i te whakaipoipo hou, ko tāu mahi he tuku i ngā tohu tika o te hiahia, me te tirotiro mēnā ka rite tana urupare, kaua e ngana ki te […]
Kāore ngā whanaungatanga pakari e hangai ana ki ngā mahi nunui anake, engari ki ngā tikanga marino, pumau e whakanui ana i te mana o ngā hoa tokorua, e haumaru ana, e hono ana hoki i ia rā, i ia rā. I te tīmatanga, ka kī tonu te Aroha i te kaha me te hihiri, engari ko te mea e mau tonu ana i roto i te wā ko tētahi mea marino ake. Ka kitea i roto i ngā mahi iti, e whakahokia ana e tohu ana:
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Ko te "pōuri ā-ira" e pā ana ki te ahotea me te kore e makona ina kore e tutukihia ngā hiahia ā-ira o te tangata. He mea noa tēnei wheako, ā, he mea noa hoki mō ngā pakeke. I roto i ngā whanaungatanga, ka puta te pōuri ā-ira tāne i roto i ngā huarahi ngawari, kāore rānei i te tino ngawari, e pā ana ki te oranga ngākau me ngā whanaungatanga. He mea nui te mōhio ki ngā tohu o te pōuri ā-ira i roto i ngā tāne nā te mea
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Ko te wehenga o ngā mura māhanga e pā ana ki tētahi wāhanga o te haerenga mura māhanga e wehe ana ngā hoa e rua e hono pūmau ana, ahakoa te tinana, te hinengaro rānei. He rerekē ki te wehenga noa, he taumaha wairua nui tēnei wehenga; e kiia ana he hononga wairua kei waenganui i ngā mura māhanga, nō reira, ko te wehenga me te mea kei te ngaro tētahi wāhanga o kōrua. Mō te hunga whakapono,
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Ehara i te mea he rā noa iho ngā huritau hei tirotiro i te maramataka. He wā marino, he wā ataahua hoki ēnei e taea ai e koe te okioki me te titiro atu ki te tangata i tō taha, me te mihi ki ngā mea katoa i hangaia ngātahitia e kōrua. I te tīmatanga, he rite te ahua o ia marama ki te wikitoria, engari i te roanga o te wā, he hītori iti, he hītori ngātahi.
Ko te whakaatu i te aroha he whakaatu i te aroha me te manaaki i roto i ngā huarahi e whai mana ai te tangata. Ka taea te whakaatu mā te kupu, te pā tinana, ngā mahi whakaaro nui, me ētahi atu. He mea nui te whakaatu i te aroha nā te mea ka whakahōhonu ake i te hononga kare ā-roto me te whakawhirinaki i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Inaa, ko te kore aroha ka arahi ki ngā kare ā-roto o te pouri, o te mokemoke rānei,
Kei te piki haere te manakohia o te whakaipoipo i te wā e hapu ana, ā, he wheako whai hua pea ina whakatata atu me te pono, te whakaute, me te mōhio ki a koe anō. Mena kei te pātai koe "He pai te whakaipoipo i te wā e hapu ana?", ko te whakautu he āe. He maha ngā whaea e hapu ana e haere tonu ana ki te whakaipoipo i te wā e hapu ana, ā, e hanga hononga whai tikanga ana i te wā e hapu ana. Heoi anō, ko te whakaipoipo
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Ko ngā raina pai mō te kōtiro he raina kotahi e takaro ana, e māia ana, e whakaute ana hoki, ā, ka taea te whakaoho i te kukume, te menemene rānei ina whakamahia tika. Ka wehewehea e tēnei aratohu ngā raina pai rawa atu mā te kare ā-roto, te māeneene, te whakawai, te katakata, me ētahi atu, kia taea ai e koe te whiriwhiri i tētahi raina e āhua noa ana ki a koe, ā, e whai hua ana i taua wā tonu.
He maha ngā wā ka kōrerohia te whakamahere marena hei kaupapa mahi tahi, he mahi tahi harikoa i waenganui i te tokorua e whakarite ana mō te marena. Ko te mea pono, ko te mahi kare ā-roto o te whakamahere he maha ngā wā ka taka ki runga i te hoa kotahi i te hoa kē. Ka taea e tēnei taurite kore te hanga i te wheako i ngā huarahi kāore e kitea e ngā hoa tokorua tae noa ki te tīmatanga o te ahotea, te riri rānei.
