Kei tua atu i ngā Putiputi me te Kai: 5 Ngā Huarahi Ngākau nui hei Whakanui i tō Huritau

Ehara i te mea he rā noa iho ngā huritau hei tirotiro i te maramataka. He wā marino, he wā ataahua hoki ēnei e taea ai e koe te okioki me te titiro atu ki te tangata i tō taha, me te mihi ki ngā mea katoa i hangaia ngātahitia e kōrua. I te tīmatanga, he rite te ahua o ia marama ki te wikitoria, engari i te roanga o te wā, ko te hītori iti, i tohaina ngātahi, te mea tino nui.

Ahakoa he tohu ataahua tonu te tina reka, te hoatu rānei i tētahi putiputi rōhi, he mea anō hei kōrero mō tētahi koha e rite ana ki te mea i hangaia mō rātou anake. Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakarērea ngā kōrero tawhito i tēnei tau, anei ētahi huarahi whai whakaaro nui e rima hei whakanui i tō hononga.

1. Te Makutu o te Pukapuka Whakaahua ā-tinana

He mano tini ngā whakaahua kei roto i te rokiroki kapua o tātou katoa, engari he momo makutu motuhake kei roto i te pupuri i tētahi maharatanga ki ō ringaringa. Ehara i te mea he pukaemi noa iho te pukapuka whakaahua tūturu, engari he kōrero tūturu mō tā kōrua haerenga tahi.

He rerekē te taumaha o te kare ā-roto o te huri haere i ngā whārangi ki te panuku i runga i te mata karāhe. 

• Ngāna ki te whakarite i te pukapuka kia rite ki tētahi pūrākau
• Mai i taua whakaahua-ātaahua tuatahi ki tō hararei hou rawa atu
• Ko te tāpiri i ngā tuhipoka iti i tuhia ā-ringa mō ō whakaaro i aua wā ka waiho hei whakamaharatanga ka pai haere ake i te pakeketanga.

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2. He Rā i Whakatapua mō "Tō" Kōrero

I ētahi wā, ko te mea pai rawa atu ka taea e koe te hoatu ehara i te mea, engari he wheako tahi. Engari i te tono noa i te wharekai tino utu nui o te tāone, ngana ki te whakarite i tētahi "rā maumaharatanga".

• Hoki atu ki te whare kawhe i tūtaki tuatahi ai kōrua
• Ki te pāka rānei i mōhio ai koe kei reira koe hinga i roto i te aroha

He mea tino aroha te hoki whakamuri ki ō hikoinga me te kite i te nui o ngā huringa mai i taua "rā tuatahi." Mena kei te pirangi koe ki te mahi mōrearea, 

• Ngāna ki te ako tahi i tētahi mea hou
• Pērā i te akomanga hanga uku, i te wā tunu kai rānei
• Kei roto i te ngoikore o te tīmatanga anō te ngahau

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3. He Hurihanga Hou mō te Reta Aroha

Mena kua hiahia koe ki te tuhituhi i tētahi kōrero ngākau nui reta aroha engari i whakaaro he tino ngāwari rawa te ngaro o te pepa, a reta aroha matihiko He huarahi kē atu ataahua. Ka hono i te āputa i waenganui i te aroha tawhito me ō tātou oranga hou.

Ma te whakamahi i te papaaho penei2Luv, 

• Ka taea e koe te waihanga i tētahi karere tūmataiti, ataahua hoki ka taea e tō hoa te uru atu mā te waehere QR ahurei. 
• Ko te tino a paetukutuku reta aroha i whakaritea mō te ao matihiko
• Ka taea e koe te ringihia ōu ngākau ki tētahi wāhi nāu ake, ka taea e rātou te pupuri i tēnei mea ki tā rātou waea pūkoro, ka tirohia i ngā wā katoa e hiahia ana rātou ki te whakamahara he aha rātou i arohaina ai.

He huarahi marino, he huarahi whaiaro hoki tēnei hei pupuri i ō kare ā-roto, ahakoa kei hea koe.

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4. Te Ipu Take

• He whakaaro ngāwari tēnei, he mahi-ā-ringa, he tino pārekareka ki te ngākau. Kimihia he ipu karāhe ka whakakīia ki ngā pepa iti, kanapa. Ki runga i ia ipu, tuhia: Kotahi te take e arohaina ai e koe. 
• Te āhua e whakamoemititia ana e koe
• He maharatanga iti rānei e menemene ai koe

E whai hua ana nā te mea e arotahi ana ki ngā "mea iti", pēnei i:

Te āhua o tā rātou hanga kawhe

Tā rātou kata motuhake

Me pēhea rānei tā rātou tautoko i a koe i roto i tētahi wiki uaua 

Koinei te koha e tuku tonu ana, e tuku ana i tō hoa ki te whakaputa i tētahi tuhipoka aroha i tētahi ata ahotea, ā, ka rongo tonu koe i te hononga ki a koe. E whakaatu ana tēnei kei te aro nui koe.

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5. He Mahere o ngā Whetu i Runga Ake i a Koe

He hohonu te whakaaro rotarota i roto i te whakaaro i tuhia tō hui ki ngā whetū. Mā te mahere whetū ritenga ka taea e koe te whakatio i te wā, e whakaatu ana i te āhua o ngā whetū i runga i tētahi wāhi motuhake i te pō i tūtaki ai koe, i kī ai rānei ""Aroha ana ahau ki a koe" mō te wā tuatahi.

Ka hurihia he wā poto hei mahi toi mō tō kāinga. Ehara i te mea he whakapaipai noa iho, engari he whakamaumahara tirohanga o ia rā mō te pō i huri ai ōu ao. He mea whakahirahira, he mea whakaaro nui, ā, e tohu ana kei te whakanuia e koe te tīmatanga o tō kōrero, pērā i te whakanui i te wā o nāianei.

Thoughts Final

I te mutunga o te rā, ko ngā koha tino maumahara ehara i te mea mō te utu, engari mō te mea "Kei te kite ahau i a koe". Ahakoa mā te hangarau matatau reta matihiko he ipu tuhipoka ā-ringa rānei, ko te whāinga he whakaatu ki tō hoa rangatira e mōhiotia ana, e arohaina ana hoki rātou. Ina arotahi koe ki te tikanga o te tohu, ehara i te mea he koha noa iho tāu e hoatu ana, engari kei te whakapakari koe i te hononga i hono ai kōrua i te tuatahi.

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