Me pēhea te takaro ki ngā tāne mā te karere kuputuhi? 17 Tohutohu me te 51 Tauira hei Whakatikatika i te Whakapono

Kei te mohio koe me pehea te Office I tono te kaiwhakaari a John Krasinski i te kaiwhakaari a Emily Blunt kia haere tahi? I rūrū ia i tōna ringa, ā, ka mea tika atu, "Kei te pai ahau ki a koe". I tēnei wā tonu, kua moe rāua, ā, tokorua ā rāua tamariki. Mōku ake nei, kāore i ngāwari te mahi tuatahi ki ahau. Ka huna ahau i muri i te mata, ka tatari kia tukuna mai e ia he karere whakakatakata. Kei te mārama koe? Kua tae ki te wā kia hurihia e koe te tūāpapa mā te ako me pēhea te whakakatakata ki ngā tāne mā te karere kuputuhi. Kei roto tāua i tēnei āhuatanga – ko koe me tāua. Me tīmata tāua i tēnei akoranga, kia noho hei whakamōhiotanga tino pai ki a ia.

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Kei te wehi koe ki te tono atu ki tō hoa aroha kia haere tahi? Kaua e manukanuka, ahakoa rangahau e kī ana he pai ngā karere whakakatakata māna ki a koe i ēnei huarahi e whai ake nei:

• Kei a koe te wā ki te whakaaroaro marie ki tāu e hiahia ana ki te kōrero
• He iti ake te kino ki tō whakaaro ki a koe anō mēnā ka whakakahoretia koe 

Nō reira, he nui ake te haumaru o te kōrerorero kuputuhi. Engari ehara i te mea ngāwari te kōrerorero kuputuhi me te hoa o tō moemoeā, tika? Me pēhea te ahua reka o te tangata, engari kaua e ahua whakarihariha? Mātakihia, akohia. Anei ētahi huarahi pai hei takaro i runga i te kuputuhi:  

1. Pānuihia te rūma kōrerorero

Me pēhea te takaro takaro i runga i a Tinder i runga rānei i ngā karere whaiaro? Whakarongo ki ana tohu i mua i tō whakapuakitanga. He maha ngā emoji e tukuna ana e ia ki a koe? He kata rānei ia ki āu kōrero? Ki te hiahia ia ki te kōrero ki a koe, ā, he reka tana whakautu, me whakaaro koinei hei tohu mōu. Whakamātauria ngā karere ngawari, me te tātari i ana whakautu. Kia poto. Ka taea e koe te tuku:

• "He tī, he kawhe, he wīkī rānei i te ata?"
• "Ka taea e koe te tuku karere mai, te tono rānei i ahau kia kai tahi māua. He kī noa iho tēnei"
• "He tino kino taku kōrero iti, engari he tino pai taku rārangi waiata"

2. Tīmata puhoi 

Tīmata ki tētahi kupu poto, māmā noa iho, "Āe, he tino kata rawa koe!", ki tētahi kupu rānei "Ngā mihi, e te ipo". He mea nui ēnei ngā tohutohu mō te whakaipoipo mō te hunga tīmata. Titiro, kāore he pūtaiao tere, tika? Ki te pai tana urupare ki ēnei, ka taea e koe te ruku ki ngā wai hohonu ake, ka tīmata tō mahi whakaipoipo! Hei tīmatanga āta, anei ngā karere whakaipoipo harakore māna:

• "Nā, he aha te āhua o tāu rā tino pai?"
• "Hei, he ātaahua. He aha tāu e kī mai ana kia mahia e au hei whakangahau i tēnei wiki?"
• "Mōrena tō pō e ipo. Kōrero tāua āpōpō"

3. Kia maha ngā wā e whakahuatia ana tōna ingoa 

Kei te rapu tohutohu koe mō te whakatoi i a ia? Karangatia tōna ingoa! E mōhio ana koe ka whai hua tēnei nā te mea he kotiro koe, ka taka koe ki tēnei. He mea iti noa iho, engari ki te tika te mahi, ka tere tonu te whakaohooho i a koe. Kaua e kōrerotia i roto i ngā karere katoa e tukuna ana e koe. Anei ētahi mea hei kōrero hei whakama i te tāne:

• "Āe, e Nick, me mutu tēnei!"
• "E Jeff, he tino pai tōu reka ki te ao ahua"
• "E Marcus, he mea whakakatakata tonu koe ki ahau!"

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4. Whakakīia te kōrero ki ngā mihi 

Te whakanui i te tangata ehara i te mea nui te tuhinga. Kia pono noa iho. Engari hei Reddit I tohutohu te kaiwhakamahi, "Kaua e mihi tonu ki a rātou, kāore he tangata e pai ana ki tētahi tangata he tangata whakahihi pērā. Me mahi i ētahi wā ina hiahiatia, ā, kia ngawari ina pērā koe." Anei ētahi mea e pai ana ki ngā tāne te whakarongo ki roto i ngā karere kuputuhi:

• "He tino ātaahua te āhua o taua hāte ki a koe"
• "Āe! Aroha ana ahau ki tō makawe hou"
• "He tino pai ki ahau aua Air Jordans"

5. Kōrero atu ki a ia kei te whakaaro koe ki a ia

Me pēhea te whakaoho i te mataku o tētahi tāne? Ki te mea kua roa kōrua kāore anō kia kōrero, tukua atu he karere kuputuhi ki a ia i waenganui o te rā, "Kāore e taea e au te mutu te whakaaro ki a koe". Koinei tētahi o ngā mea ngā tohu whakaipoipo māramaAnei ētahi atu mea hei tuku karere ki tō hoa aroha:

• "He aha te mea nui rawa atu i pouri ai koe? Ko tāku nei kāore i kihi i a koe i te wā whakamutunga i tūtaki ai tāua"
• "He ngahau ngā mahere tina! He pai ki ahau te noho ki tō aroaro. Āhea tāua e mahi anō ai?"
• "Kei te kite koe i taku titiro ki a koe. Nō reira, āhea te rā e whai ake nei?"

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6. Tukuna ngā GIF ātaahua 

Me pēhea te takaro ki tētahi tāne mā te karere kuputuhi tawhiti? Tukuna atu he GIF aihikirīmi e kī ana, 'Mitiia ahau'. A Reddit I tuhituhi te kaiwhakamahi, "Kua ako ahau i ngā emoji, ā, he tino āwhina ngā gif. He ngahau, he wairangi hoki, ā, ka tukuna ngā tohu me te kore e ahua whakamataku." Nō reira, tukuna ngā GIF me ngā karere kuputuhi ātaahua pēnei i:

• "I tino whakamahara mai tēnei i a koe!"
• "Tirohia te ātaahua o tēnei kurī. I whakaaro ahau ki a koe i taku kitenga i a ia"
• "Kāore ianei tēnei i te mea tino kata rawa atu? I kata ahau, tata rite ki a koe"

7. Me pēhea te takaro ki ngā tāne mā te karere kuputuhi: Whakakatakata noa iho 

E mohio ana me pēhea te whakaipoipo mārire He mea nui te noho tahi me te tāne, engari he mea nui anō hoki kia hoki whakamuri i te wā tika. Whakaaturia ki a ia te mea e ngaro ana i a ia, ā, kāore e taea e ia te whai i a koe me te ngāwari e hiahia ana ia. Anei me pēhea te takaro mā te karere kuputuhi me te kore e tino kaha rawa:

• "Āe, kāo, me kaha ake tāu mahi i tērā hei tango i ahau"
• "I taua rā i whakaaro ahau me kihi noa atu koe, tera pea i tētahi rā ina tika koe"
• "Ki te pai tonu tāu mahi ki ahau, tera pea ka hiahia ahau ki te kawe i a koe ki waho"

8. Kaua e tāruarua 

Ka whai hua ngā karere kuputuhi ātaahua, engari kāore e whai hua mēnā ka nui rawa te whakamahi. Ka taea e ngā kīanga/te momo kōrero tāruarua te whakakore i te ataahua katoa i āwhina i a koe ki te hopu i tana hiahia. Me hiahia koe kia hihiri, kia whakamere hoki kia tino pai ai te tangata ki a koe. Waihoki, kāore koe e hiahia ki te maka kupu whakahi i ia hāora. Tērā pea he āhua tino matekiri koe. Kia māhorahora, kia arotahi ki ngā wāhanga kōrero kāore e pā ana ki te whakahi. te mohio ki a ia pai ake. Ki te rapu koe i ngā karere kuputuhi atamai hei tuku ki tētahi tāne, ngana ki:

• "He tino ātaahua tō ataata ki a koe, nō reira ka ataata ahau ina kite ahau i a ia"
• "I mahi koe i tētahi mea motuhake i tēnei rā, kāore rānei he ātaahua tonu tō āhua?"
• "Kei te whakakorikori tinana anō koe? Kāore he mea miharo kua nui rawa ō uaua"

9. Kia ātaahua 

He maha rawa ngā tuhinga paru he tino ārai. He pai te tuku kupu whakawai hei whakaoho i a ia. Engari ko te nui rawa o ngā kupu whakaipoipo, ehara i te moemoeā kia arohaina. Ka puta koe he tangata whai whakaaro kotahi. Kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te takaro mārire ki tētahi tāne? Whakamātauria tēnei:

• "He tino pai koe i taua whakaaturanga i tētahi atu rā, nō reira he tangata mohio koe"
• "He pai ki ahau te āhua o tō tiaki i a koe anō, me mihi ki te tiaki i a koe anō"
• "Kua roa ahau e hiahia ana ki te haere ki tēnei wharekai i waenganui o te tāone. Me kawe ahau ki waho i tētahi rā?"

10. Kōrerohia ngā āhuatanga ki a ia

Kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te takaro ki tētahi tāne mā te karere kuputuhi tawhiti? "Ki taku whakaaro ka nui te ngahau o tā tāua reti retihuka" me "Me whakamātau tāua i taua pēkana!" ētahi huarahi hei whakakatakata i a ia i tētahi rā taumaha. Mā tēnei, ka mōhio ia kei te hiahia koe ki te whakapau wā. Ki te tino pōhēhē koe ki ngā kupu ngāwari hei kōrero ki tētahi tāne, ngana:

• "Mehemea ka haere tāua ki te pōro, ka taea e koe te ako i ahau me pēhea te kore e tino kino ki te pōro?"
• "E tino mōhio ana ahau ka taea e au te wikitoria i te korowha iti me koe. He aha tō whakaaro?"
• "Ki te haere tahi tāua ki te hikoi, ko wai ka tuatahi ka hinga?"

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11. Kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te takaro ki ngā tāne mā te karere kuputuhi? Whakamahia aua emoji!

Ki te whakaaro nui koe, i ētahi wā ka taea e te emoji tika i te wāhi tika te mea kia menemene ia i te rā katoa. Tāpiri atu ki tēnā, ko te ngā emoji e whakamahia ana e ngā tāne Ka taea e ia te kōrero nui ki a koe mō ōna whakaaro mōu. Ka tūtohu anō mātou kia whakarerekētia te mahinga o ia rā, ā, kaua e waiho noa ngā karere pai o te ata, o te pō rānei, engari me whakatakoto ētahi karere pai mōna, me ngā emoji. Whakamahia tētahi mea pēnei i:

• "He tino makariri i tēnei rā! Kei te whakaaro ahau me aha tātou hei whakamahana ;)"
• "Ko te tumanako kia pai tō rā i tēnei rā <3"
• "Kei te pēhea, e te ataahua?" ;)

12. Ngā katakata whakakatakata 

Ki te mea ko koe te mahi tuatahi, kia tino kata ia. He maha anō hoki ngā pātai whakaipoipo ipurangi rorirori ka taea e koe te whakamātau. Ehara tēnei i te tikanga me tuku meme i te rā roa. Kawea mai tō kēmu A-Game ka kōrerotia ngā pūrākau rorirori ki a ia. Ki te kore he kata māu, kua oti i a mātou te āwhina i a koe. Anei ētahi karere whakakatakata hei mea i a ia kia kata:

• "He aha te mea e hiahiatia ana e koe kia waea mai ai koe ki ahau?"
• "E hia ngā kikiki hei kata i te wheke? Tekau ngā kikiki!"
• "Kei te hiahia koe ki te mōhio he aha ngā āhuatanga ōrite o māua ko te pea? Ka moe māua i te takurua."

13. Whakamahia te pō me te whakaaro nui

Me pēhea te whakaoho i te tamaiti? Nā te mea he rite tonu te pōrearea o tana wā moe ki tāu, whakamahia hei painga mōu. He rerekē te pānga o te tuku karere kuputuhi i te pō ki te hoa o tō moemoeā. I taku tuku karere kuputuhi whakamutunga ki taku i aroha ai, i whakamahia e au ngā karere kuputuhi pēnei i te "Me i taea e tāua te moe tahi i tēnei pō" me te "He takoto kau taku paraikete i te kore koe", ā, i tino pai te mahi ki te whakamahana i ngā mea. Anei ētahi atu whakaaro whakahihiko mō me pēhea te whakahihiri i ngā tāne me ngā tuhinga whakaaro nui:

• "He rerekē te pānga o ēnei kōrerorero o te pō ki te tangata tika. Kāore koe i te whakaaro?"
• "Kei te tino mokemoke ahau i roto i tōku moenga i tēnei wā tonu. Āe, me i taea e koe te whakarerekē i tēnā"
• "E harikoa ana ahau kei te kōrero ahau ki a koe i mua i taku moe, ka tino motuhake te ata āpōpō"

14. Whakaranua ō mihi 

Me pēhea te takaro ki ngā tāne mā te karere kuputuhi? E kore e whiwhi koe i tō kihi tuatahi mā te reo hoha, mā te "Hei, kei te aha koe?". Ka ngaro tōna hiahia i taua ara. He poto noa iho te wā e whakamahia ai te "Hei, e te rangatira" me te "Hei, he mea ātaahua". Ā, kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakamahi tonu i ngā kupu tīmatanga noa iho ina he maha ngā kupu. ngā karere kuputuhi ātaahua hei tuku ki tāu tāneEngari, whakamahia ngā kīanga whakawai ki a ia pēnei i:

• "Kāore e taea e au te mutu te titiro atu ki tō pikitia kōtaha i tēnei rā"
• "Ki tō whakaaro he aha te kai me tono e au mō te tina i tēnei pō?"
• "E te ataahua, kei te whakaaro koe he aha tāu i mahi ai kia mau tonu tō ataata whakamataku?"

15. Whakawhiti atu ki ana karere whaiaro i runga i te Insta

Te neke ki ngā DM – he mahi tonu tā te tangata. He take pai. He tino whai hua! Whakautua āna kōrero, ā, ko koe te tuatahi ki te mahi. Me kōrero koe i tētahi mea e tika ana, e hopu ana i te hinengaro kia tino kitea ai tō whakamōhiotanga DM. Anei ētahi kupu whakakatakata hei kōrero ki tētahi tāne:

• "E hiakai rawa ana ahau. Ā, he reka te āhua, ka whakarongo ahau ki āu tohutohu kai inaianei"
• "Kua roa ahau e hiahia ana ki te haere ki taua wharekai! Kei te pēhea koe?"
• "He tino ātaahua tō āhua, pērā i tō āhua i ngā wā katoa"

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16. Tukuna ngā whakaahua ātaahua 

He tangata aroha koe ki a Snapchat? Ko tētahi o ngā huarahi tino ātaahua ki te kī atu e pai ana koe ki tētahi mā te karere kuputuhi. Mā te pupuri i te āhua e kitea ana ka hiahia rātou ki te pā atu ki te tinana. Ngā karere whakakatakata māna He rua ngā mea ngahau ina he whakaahua, he tātari, he whakapiripiri rorirori hei whakamahi. Ki te hiahia koe ki te mihi ki tētahi tāne mā te tuhinga, ngana ki te:

• "Kia kite koe kāore au e menemene ana, ka taea te whakatika mēnā i konei koe i ahau"
• "I hiahia ahau ki te kite i tō mata ātaahua mō te wā whakamutunga i tēnei rā, tukuna mai he whakaahua!"
• "Tirohia te takoto kau o tōku rūma? Nā te mea kāore koe i konei!"

17. Kia mārama ki ngā tikanga tuku karere kuputuhi 

Tuku karere takirua kei raro i tēnei maru. Me mārama koe ki ngā tohutohu me te mōhio ki te nui o te moni hei whakapau ki tētahi kōrero. Kaua e tukua kia pakaru te kōrero engari kia mōhio ki te wā e tika ana kia whakawātea i ō whakautu. Kia maia, kia maia, engari kaua e piri. Ki te hiahia koe ki ngā karere kuputuhi whakawaiwai māna, anei ngā mea ka taea e koe te whakamātau:

• "Kāore taku tūmau rorohiko e hinga, engari ka hinga ahau"
• "He tarau ātea aua? Nā te mea kua ngaro taua kaihe i tēnei ao"
• "Me karo tātou i ngā kōrero pakupaku, me haere tika tātou ki te takaro noa"

He nui ake te ngahau o te whakaipoipo i ngā tāne mā te karere kuputuhi, kaua e whakamataku, inā koa mēnā kei te whakapau kaha koe ki te tangata tika. Kia maumahara, ko ētahi o ngā karere kuputuhi whakaipoipo pai rawa atu ehara i te mea e whakamaheretia ana e koe, engari ko ngā mea e pā ana ki tō ngākau.

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