Kei te whakaaro koe, "he aha ahau i pōuri ai i roto i taku whanaungatanga"? Kei te karapotihia e ngā manukanuka ngā mahi a tō hoa, te heke mai rānei o tō whanaungatanga? Mena kei te mataku koe mō tō whanaungatanga, me te pātai i tō haumaru kare ā-roto, kei konei tēnei pātaitai manukanuka whanaungatanga hei whakamarie i tō hinengaro.
I whakawhanakehia e a kaitohutohu whanaungatanga He tohu Paerua mō te hinengaro, ā, kua oti tēnei whakamātautau mō te manukanuka te whakakotahi i ngā wheako me te pūtaiao. Kāore tēnei whakamātautau i hangaia hei tātaritanga i tētahi mate, engari hei āwhina i a koe kia mārama ake ki a koe anō.
Ka taea e ia te whakamārama mēnā kei a koe te manukanuka kāhua āpitihanga he uaua rānei ki te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pai, ā, ka arahi pea ēnei ki ngā manukanuka me ngā āwangawanga i roto i ō hoa mahi. Mā te wikitoria i ngā kare ā-roto o te ruarua me te mārama ki ō hiahia kare ā-roto, ka taea e koe te whakatere i ō whanaungatanga me te māia me te mārama. Nō reira, whakaotia tēnei pātaitai ka tīmata i tētahi haerenga o te kimi i a koe anō, e whakamana ana i a koe ki te hanga hononga hauora ake, whai hua ake hoki.
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pātai
Q1. Kua whakapuakina e tētahi o ō hoa rangatira/hoa o mua ō āwangawanga mō ō āwangawanga mō ngā whanaungatanga?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q2. Kei te wehi koe kāore koe e arohaina?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q3. E whakamā ana rānei te whakaaro ki te kōrero mō ngā raruraru e pā ana ki a koe?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q4. Kua kite, kua pāngia rānei koe e ngā whanaungatanga kino?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q5. Kei te ruarua koe i ngā kare ā-roto o tō hoa ki a koe?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q6. He mataku koe i roto i ngā whanaungatanga?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q7. Kei te whakaaro koe mō te whakarērea, te mahue rānei i muri i te hunga e arohaina ana e koe?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q8. He pai ake ki a koe te whakangā i a koe anō kia kore ai e puta he pakanga?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q9. He nui rawa ō whakaaro ki ngā mea?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q10. Kei te mataku koe i te matapae i ngā kare ā-roto o tō hoa?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q11. Kei te āwangawanga koe ina kore tō hoa e tuku karere tere mai?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Q12. Ka nui rawa atu rānei tō tātari i ngā kōrero a te tangata, me ā rātou mahi?
- He maha nga wa
- He rarerau
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
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