Zinthu Zomwe Anyamata Amachita Pamapulogalamu Ochezera omwe Amatulutsa Akazi Nthawi yomweyo

Kale kwambiri mliri wa COVID usanakhale ndi dziko lapansi, panali mliri wina wowopsa, womwe sukuwonetsa kuchedwetsa: mliri wa amuna owopsa pazibwenzi. Ngakhale sangazindikire, nthawi zina anyamata amathanso kukhala ochepa ... wachangu.

Nthawi zina mukhoza kununkhiza tingachipeze powerenga creepy munthu khalidwe pamene iye ayamba tsiku ndi "Sindinadziwe inu mukanakhala wandiweyani!" Nthawi zina, mtima wa Mr. Nice Guy umatha msanga mukapanda kuyankha tsiku limodzi pa pulogalamu yapa chibwenzi. 

Ngati ndinu mnyamata ndipo mukuyesera kuchita zina recon pa zimene mungakhale mukuchita kuti kusiya inu mizukwa, tiyeni tione creepy Intaneti chibwenzi zinthu muyenera kusiya kuchita yomweyo.

Zinthu Zowopsa Anyamata Amachita Pamapulogalamu Ochezera 

Chifukwa chomwe anyamata nthawi zina samamvetsetsa akakhala otopa ndikuti samaganiza kuti akazi ndi owopsa. Pokhapokha atafunsa momveka bwino kuti "Ndiye, impso zanu zili ndi thanzi labwino bwanji, ndipo mukukhala nokha?", mwina sangayambe. 

Koma nthawi ina mudapanga zachiwerewere za dzina lake ngati chingwe chanu chanzeru, adatumizira abwenzi ake chithunzi chake. Izi zikutifikitsa pamfundo yoyamba pamndandanda wathu wazinthu zoyipa zomwe anyamata amachita malonda apakati: 

1. Akapanda kupeza zibwenzi ≠ kugonana nthawi yomweyo 

Mukudziwa mtundu womwe tikunena. Omwe amayamba kucheza ndi mawu ogonana mopitilira muyeso pa chimodzi mwazithunzi zomwe zili patsamba lanu. Choyipa kwambiri chomwe anyamata angachite pa pulogalamu ya zibwenzi ndikuyamba kucheza ndi "Kodi mwavala chiyani?" kapena "DTF?" 

Zonse zomwe amachita ndikusiya azimayi akugwedeza mitu yawo mosakhulupirira, kuganiza, "Mukuganiza kuti izi zitha bwanji?!" Kwa amuna omwe amachita izi: kodi mukuganiza kuti kutumiza DTF kungamupangitse kupita, "O, mwana, momwe mumalembera zilembo zitatu mutagwirizana nane pa pulogalamu ya zibwenzi ndizotentha kwambiri. Bwerani pompano!"? 

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2. Anyamata akamafuna kudziwa kwambiri 

Ndiye, kodi umakhala kuti ndipo nthawi yanji masana umatuluka kunja kwa malo ako, makamaka uli wekha? Chabwino, chabwino, mafunso sangakhale achindunji chonchi, koma mumamva mfundo. 

Mukufuna kumufunsa ngati amakhala yekha kapena ayi? Simudzataya chizindikiro cha "serial killer". Mukufuna kufunsa nambala yake ya foni pambuyo pa mauthenga angapo? Zomwe akukupatsani ndi ulendo wopita ku unmatch-ville. M’malo momufunsa zimene amakonda kuchita ali pabedi, yesani kum’funsa kaye kuti ayisikilimu amakoma bwanji. Zochepa "funsani mafunso ake" zingathandize.

3. "Ndikuganiza kuti ndimakukondani"

Ayi bwana, simukutero. Muli mu "chikondi" ndi zithunzi zochepa kuti iye anaika pa chibwenzi mbiri. Uli m'chikondi ndi bio yomwe mnzakeyo adalemba chifukwa adatopa kuganiza mopambanitsa. Muli m'chikondi ndi dzina, malongosoledwe ang'onoang'ono, ndi zithunzi zochepa. Ili ndi tsamba laling'ono la Wikipedia. 

Ngakhale atapanda kunena mosapita m’mbali kuti “Ndimakukonda,” angayesenso kukhala wachikondi kwambiri. Zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi za "Hi Sugarplum" pambuyo pake, mudzakhala mukunong'oneza bondo kuti mudamuwombera. 

4. Mnyamata wotsatira-kulikonse 

"Hei, munasiya kuyankha pa Tinder, ndiye ndangoganiza kuti ndikutsatireni pa Instagram ndi Facebook. Ndinalemba pa Google dzina lanu ndikupezanso Snapchat yanu, kuti tithe kujambula tsopano!" Imbani alamu ya "anthu owopsa"; mwangodzipeza nokha wamkulu. 

Kodi mukuganiza, "Zowona IZO sizichitika, sichoncho?" Pitani patsogolo ndikufunseni zenizeni aliyense mkazi kuzungulira iwe. Tili otsimikiza kuti onse adakumana ndi zofanana. Mukalandira kutsatiridwa ndi munthu pama TV anu onse osamupatsa, ndiye kuti akugogoda pawindo lanu usiku popanda kumuuza komwe mukukhala. 

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5. The awiri, katatu, kulemberana mameseji kosalekeza 

Bwino kwambiri Tinder openers ndi amene amabwera mwachibadwa. Koma mauthenga ngati "Hei, zili bwanji?" amatsatiridwa mwachangu ndi "Muli kuti? Mukuwoneka kuti muli otanganidwa, haha" mumpata wa mphindi khumi, sichinthu chokongola kwambiri. Ndipo akayankha, akhoza kugundidwa ndi mawu akuti, “Ndiyetu!

Zomwe zimapangitsa akazi kufuna kuchita ndikuchotsa pulogalamu yapa chibwenzi nthawi yomweyo, osakuuzani chifukwa chake sanayankhe. Zili ngati YouTube imakufunsani mosalekeza kuti mugule mapulani awo oyambira. Kukakamira kwawo kosalekeza kumangokwiyitsa kwambiri, sichoncho? Osati njira yabwino kwambiri yokopana.

6. Kukhala wodzichepetsa 

Chabwino, zowona, simungatchule izi ngati "zowopsa", koma kuchuluka kwa amuna omwe ali pazibwenzi omwe amatsitsa / osasintha / onyoza amuna ndi akazi. Pamene sikuli kuukira mowonekera kwa "feminist" yemwe adalemba mu mbiri yake, amatha kunena momveka bwino popanda kuzindikira.

Mnzanga wina anandiuza za nthawi yomwe mnyamata wina amamufotokozera za msonkho wamakampani komanso momwe samawupeza. Iye ndi wowerengera, mwa njira. Chifukwa chiyani amalankhula za msonkho pa pulogalamu yapa chibwenzi… Ndikuganiza kuti ndi momwe akauntanti amakopana? Komabe, mfundo ndi yakuti, musamachite mwano. Ndi a lamulo lofunikira la netiquette, ndipo kuchita mwano sikukuchitirani zabwino ayi.

Kulankhula pa zibwenzi sikovuta monga momwe anthu amapangira. Mfundo yakuti munthuyu wabisidwa kuseri kwa mbiri yake ndipo chinsalu chikhoza kupangitsa kuti chiwoneke ngati chopanda umunthu, koma sizikutanthauza kuti ndibwino kumufunsa zomwe wavala pambuyo pa mauthenga angapo oyambirira. Tangoganizani ngati kukambirana pafupipafupi, osagwiritsa ntchito mafoni.

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