Palibe kutsutsa mfundo yakuti kugonana kunja kwa banja kungapangitse munthu kudzimva ngati wachinyamata m'chikondi kachiwiri pamene mtima umathamanga pamene muwona Mmodzi ndiyeno pali kugwirizana kwamaganizo ndi thupi komwe kumakhazikitsidwa kunja kwa ubale womwe ulipo. Koma m’kupita kwa nthawi, kubera kumadzetsa nkhawa.
Kupsinjika maganizo kungamvedwe ndi munthu amene wadziŵa za chibwenzicho kapena kungamvedwe ndi munthu amene ayenera kulimbana ndi liwongo la chinyengo nthaŵi zonse ndi kukhala ndi moyo wabodza.
Chitetezo muubwenzi ndi kumva chitetezo cha m'maganizo, kudalirana, ndi kukhazikika komwe kumalola onse awiri kumva kuti alandiridwa, akuthandizidwa, komanso ali omasuka kukhala okha popanda mantha a kuweruzidwa, kukanidwa, kapena kusiyidwa. Mukafunsa kuti chitetezo muubwenzi ndi chiyani, mumadzifunsa ngati chikondi chimamveka chotetezeka mokwanira kukhalamo tsiku lililonse, […]
Chaka choyamba mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu atamwalira nthawi zambiri zimamveka ngati mukungochita zinthu modzidzimutsa kapena motaya mtima, osatopa tsiku ndi tsiku. M'malo mothamangira "kuiwala" kapena "kupitiriza," chaka chino ndi chokhudza kuphunzira kukhala ndi chisoni pa liwiro lanu. Ganizirani za bukuli ngati
Aliyense amene anakumanapo ndi munthu wopewa amadziwa kuti zingakhale zovuta kwambiri; makamaka ngati muli ndi chizolowezi chofuna kukondana ndi munthu wina. Kuthamanga nthawi zonse ndi kuthamangitsana kumatha kuoneka ngati kotopetsa ndipo nthawi zambiri, zinthu sizikuyenda bwino. Koma ndithudi, ngati chikondi chikanakhalapo, mukuyembekeza kuti chikanabweranso.
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N'zovuta kudziwa momwe mungasungire chikondi chanu kukhala cholimba; Mukawonjezera mazana a makilomita pakati panu, zingamveke zovuta kwambiri. Kusowa kwa kukhalapo kwa thupi kungapangitse kuti ziwoneke ngati pali chinachake chomwe chikusowa nthawi zonse. Koma musataye mtima: maubwenzi akutali angagwire ntchito. Ndipotu, kafukufuku wapeza kuti maanja akutali
Mukamva mnzanu akunong'oneza kuti akuonana ndi munthu wamkulu wazaka makumi awiri, mafunso chikwi amabuka. Mwina mumakoka maso anu pa nthabwala ya "mavuto apakati pa moyo". Mwina mumakhala ndi chidwi chifukwa nthawi zonse mumakopeka ndi anthu odziwa zambiri. Kapena mwina ndinu amene muli pachibwenzi cha zaka 20 ndipo nthawi zonse mumamva kuweruzidwa.
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Kodi munayamba mwakhumudwapo munthu amene mumamukonda akakukhumudwitsani? Mwina mnzanu, wachibale wanu, kapena mnzanu wapamtima anakukhumudwitsani mosayembekezereka. Kumva kupweteka kumeneko m'chikondi kungawononge kwambiri, kuyambitsa kusweka mtima ndi chisoni. Mu maubwenzi, kupweteka nthawi zambiri kumabwera chifukwa cha kusweka kwa ziyembekezo kapena kunyalanyazidwa ndi maganizo, ndipo kungakupangitseni kumva kusokonezeka komanso kusokonezeka maganizo.
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