Ziwerengero zikusonyeza kuti anthu 441 miliyoni padziko lonse lapansi amagwiritsa ntchito mawebusayiti a chibwenzi. Mukudziwa zomwe zikusonyeza, sichoncho? Ngati simuli pabanja ndipo mukufuna kuwonjezera mwayi wanu wopeza munthu wapadera, mungafunike kuyesa chibwenzi pa intaneti. Kuti muwoneke bwino pakati pa ogwiritsa ntchito ambiriwa ndikulumikizana ndi anthu oyenera, ndikofunikira kuphunzira momwe mungalembere mbiri yanu ya chibwenzi.
Mbiri yanu ya chibwenzi pa intaneti imasonyeza umunthu wanu m'dziko la pa intaneti. Monga momwe mumavalira ndi kudzichitira nokha m'dziko lenileni zimatengera ngati mumalandira chidwi ndi ndani, mbiri yanu ya chibwenzi imatsimikiza kuchuluka kwa chidwi chomwe mumapeza pa nsanja za chibwenzi pa intaneti komanso mtundu wa anthu omwe mumakumana nawo. Tsopano, funso ndilakuti, kupanga mbiri yabwino ya chibwenzi pa intaneti kumatanthauza chiyani? Tikukubweretserani malangizo ena othandiza pa mbiri ya chibwenzi pokambirana ndi mphunzitsi wa chibwenzi komanso katswiri wa zamaganizo Dhriti Bhavsar (M.Sc, Clinical Psychology).
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M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe muyenera kuziganizira mukayika mbiri yanu pa pulogalamu yapa chibwenzi kapena tsamba lawebusayiti. Kuyambira mbiri ya chibwenzi yomwe ikupita ku bio ndi zithunzi, muli ndi zisankho zoti mupange panjira iliyonse. Izi zingakulepheretseni kusokonezeka pang'ono pazomwe mungayike pa mbiri ya chibwenzi.
Pa izi, Dhriti akuti, "Chinsinsi chopangira ma profiles osangalatsa a chibwenzi ndikuwawona ngati chithunzithunzi cha moyo wanu. Chithunzithunzi cha kanema wa moyo wanu." Tsopano, momwe chithunzithunzichi chimawonekera chidzasiyana kuchokera kwa munthu ndi munthu, kotero palibe chitsanzo chimodzi cha mbiri ya chibwenzi chomwe chingagwire ntchito kwa aliyense.
Kwenikweni, muyenera kukhala ndi cholinga chowonetsa kuti ndinu ndani - maloto anu, zokonda zanu, zolinga zanu, zokhumba zanu ndi zomwe mukuyembekezera. Kaduka kakang'ono ka zomwe zimakupangitsani inu, ndiwe chinsinsi ngati mwakhala mukudabwa momwe mungapangire mbiri yabwino ya chibwenzi. Tsopano, mawu ngati maloto, zilakolako, zolinga, ndi zina zotero, amatha kumveka ngati osamveka. Choncho, tiyeni tipeze zenizeni za momwe tingalembe mbiri ya chibwenzi yomwe ili yovuta kuphonya. Nawa maupangiri 15 omwe adagawana ndi mphunzitsi wathu wa zibwenzi:
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1. Dziwani zolinga zanu za chibwenzi
Monga ndanenera kale, palibe template ya mbiri ya chibwenzi yomwe mungatengere kuti mupambane pakuchita zibwenzi pa intaneti. Mwinamwake mwawonapo kusiyana kwa mbiri ya zibwenzi. Anthu ena amakopa chidwi chanu ngakhale ndi mbiri yachidule yachibwenzi, pomwe ena amalemba ndime. Momwemonso, ma profiles ena amakhala ndi zithunzi zochepa koma zogwira mtima pomwe ena amasanduka carousel yosatha. Aliyense maganizo kulenga wabwino Intaneti chibwenzi mbiri angakhale osiyana.
Yanu ndi chiyani? Mutha kumveketsa bwino izi pozindikira zolinga zanu za chibwenzi.
- Kodi inu chibwenzi cha ukwati?
- Kodi mukuyang'ana china chake chosavuta?
- Kodi mumangofuna kupita ndikuyenda ndikuwona komwe zinthu zikupita?
- Kodi mukuyang'ana mgwirizano wokhazikika wachikondi?
Zolinga zomveka za chibwenzi zitha kukuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi pa intaneti chomwe chimawonekeranso mumbiri yanu.
2. Ganizirani zomwe mukufuna mwa okondedwa anu
Ndikofunikanso kudziwa zomwe mukufuna mwa mnzanu. Kudziwa bwino zomwe mukufuna mwa mnzanu kungakuthandizeni kupanga mbiri ya pulogalamu yopezera chibwenzi yomwe imakopa anthu oyenera. Dhriti akuti, "Mukayesa kuganiza za mnzanu wamtsogolo, musamangoganizira za makhalidwe akuthupi kapena zakuthupi. M'malo mwake, yang'anani pang'ono, ndipo ganizirani za makhalidwe a munthu, mfundo zazikulu , ndi malingaliro omwe mukuyembekezera kuti akhale nawo."
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3. Khalani olenga
'Woyenda', 'Wodya chakudya', 'Woseketsa' — ngati ndikanakhala ndi ndalama nthawi iliyonse ndikawona mawu awa mu pulogalamu yoyambira chibwenzi. N'zosadabwitsa kuti nthawi zambiri ma profiles awa okhala ndi mawu oyamba oterewa amanyalanyazidwa kapena kusinthidwa kumanzere. Ngati mukufuna kuti anu awonekere, nayi upangiri wa chibwenzi pa intaneti womwe simuyenera kunyalanyaza: tchulani chinthu china chofunikira komanso chomveka bwino chokhudza inuyo.
Zingakhaledi zovuta kudzifotokoza wekha pamene watsikira kwa izo koma yesetsani kutero. Kumbukirani zomwe Dhriti adanena poyambirira, zichitireni ngati moyo wanu. Izi zimafuna kudziyika nokha weniweni kunja uko. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti ndinu enieni akufotokozedwa bwino kuti, "Serial napper, wovuta pagulu, amayi agalu". Zowona ndizabwino kwambiri kuposa kuyang'ana mbiri yabwino yapaintaneti kuti mukopere ndikunama.
4. Gwiritsani ntchito zithunzi zachindunji
Zithunzi ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri pofufuza momwe mungapangire mbiri yabwino kwambiri ya chibwenzi. Ngakhale kuti mawu omwe mungasankhe, kaya ndi pamutu wa mbiri ya chibwenzi kapena mbiri ya chibwenzi, amakhudza momwe munthu amene mukufuna kukwatirana naye amakuonerani, kusankha zithunzi zomwe mukufuna pa mbiri yanu ya chibwenzi ndi komwe kumakopa chidwi cha munthu wina, poyamba.
“Ngakhale kuti mufunikira kutsogoza, zithunzi zanu ziyenera kusonyeza inuyo weniweni,” akulangiza motero Dhriti. Chifukwa chake, siyani zithunzi zojambulidwa, zosefedwa, ndi zojambulidwa mokomera zomwe zikuwonetsa zomwe muli.
- Ngati ndinu wokonda zolimbitsa thupi, tumizani zithunzi zingapo zolimbitsa thupi
- Ngati mumaphika, ikani zithunzi zingapo ndi zabwino zomwe mwapanga
- Ngati mumakonda kuthamanga kwabwino kwa adrenaline, pitirirani ndikuyika chithunzi cha inu kulumpha bungee
- Ngati muwerenga, sankhani mmodzi wa inu wopindidwa ndi buku pakona yomwe mumakonda
Zithunzi zachilengedwe komanso zowona zimakupangitsani kuti muwoneke kuti ndinu wodalirika pakhungu lanu.
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5. Succinct mbiri mbiri ya zibwenzi, koma kuchita chidwi
Kupatula zithunzi zanu, chimodzi mwazinthu zoyamba zomwe zimakopa chidwi cha machesi omwe angakhale nawo ndi mutu wanu wapa chibwenzi. Choncho, n'zomveka kuti mumapereka chidwi kwambiri pamene mukuyesera kuti mulembe mbiri ya chibwenzi yomwe imakupatsirani machesi ambiri. Dhriti akulangiza kuti, “Pitirizani kusunga mbiri yanu yachibwenzi kukhala yachidule.” Mofanana ndi malangizo ake, ndingawonjezere?
Tsopano mutu wachidule wa mbiri ya chibwenzi umawoneka bwanji? Nazi zitsanzo zingapo:
- Kufunafuna bwenzi muupandu kuti *ikani ntchito*
- Kuyendayenda ndi kuseka
- Lowani nane kufunafuna chikondi
- Soulmate kwa machesi
Ngati mukufuna kudzozedwa kwambiri, onani mitu iyi yoposa 200 ya mbiri ya chibwenzi.
6. Ganizirani zomwe mukufuna kuyika pachibwenzi chanu mbiri
Mbiri yanu yachibwenzi sikuyambanso kwanu kapena LinkedIn yanu. Chifukwa chake, simuyenera kulemba zomwe mwakwaniritsa, mbiri yanu yantchito, ndi luso lanu, chimodzi ndi chimodzi. Anthu ambiri amalakwitsa izi ndipo pamapeto pake amadutsa popanda kuyang'ana kachiwiri. Kuonetsetsa kuti sizikuchitikirani, nayi momwe mungalembere mbiri ya chibwenzi 101 kwa inu: ikani malingaliro pazinthu zomwe mukufuna kuziphatikiza muzolemba zanu zachibwenzi. Kuti mupange chisankhochi, zimathandizira kukumbukira lamulo lomwe tidayamba nalo m'nkhaniyi: zomwe zimakupangitsani inu, inu.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mumaphika pizza pafupipafupi, izi zitha kukhala zosangalatsa kuwonjezera pa mbiri yanu yachibwenzi: "Itha kupezeka ku Jamie's Pizza Loweruka." Momwemonso, mutha kulumikiza zomwe mumakumana nazo paulendo, kukonda tchizi wokazinga, kapena chiwonetsero chomwe mumakonda nthawi zonse muzambiri zanu. Izi sizimangopereka mafananidwe omwe angakuwonetseni bwino kuti ndinu ndani komanso malo amodzi olumikizirana (zowona, ngati akufuna zinthu zomwezo ngati inu).
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7. Osayesa kwambiri kusewera bwino
Momwe mungalembere mbiri yanu ya chibwenzi yomwe imaonekera bwino zimadalira kwambiri kuti mawu anu akhale abwino. Dhriti akuti, "Kuyang'anira kamvekedwe kanu n'kofunika chifukwa pali njira zambiri zotanthauzira molakwika pa intaneti. Ndi bwino kuchepetsa mawu onyoza ndi onyoza kapena osakhala abwino , ndikupewa mawu otsutsana."
Kupatula apo, munthu kumbali ina samakudziwani ndipo amatanthauzira mawu anu momwe amawonera. Ngakhale palibe chibwenzi mbiri Chinsinsi mukhoza kutsatira, pali ena yotakata dos ndi musachite muyenera kukumbukira. Ndipo kuyesera molimbika kuti muwoneke ngati wabwino komanso wamba ndiye kuti ayi.
8. Pewani mawu otchuka
"Nkhani zenizeni zachikondi zilibe mathero." "Ndiwe chilichonse chomwe sindimadziwa kuti ndimafuna nthawi zonse." "Unali ndi ine moni." "Maso, Chico, samanama." Tsopano, mawu otchuka ngati awa atha kuwoneka ngati zosankha zabwino zoyambira pachibwenzi koma ndizosowa kwambiri ndikukupangitsani kuti muwoneke waulesi.
Kupatula apo, safotokoza chilichonse chokhudza inu. Chifukwa chake, ngati mwakhala mukuganiza zoti muyike pa mbiri yanu ya chibwenzi, upangiri wanga ndi wakuti musiye mawuwo, pokhapokha ngati sakumveka bwino ndipo akuwonetsa mbali ya umunthu wanu. Ndipo pankhani yofanana, mawuwo sangakhale oyamba abwino - vuto lina lofala loti mupewe.
9. Yang'anirani typos ndi zolakwika
Limodzi mwa malangizo othandiza kwambiri okhudza mbiri ya chibwenzi lomwe ndingakugawireni ndi kuwerenga, kuwerenga, ndi kuwerenga. Ndipo ayi, izi si nkhani ya wolemba yolankhula momasuka. Mbiri ya chibwenzi yokhala ndi zolakwika za kalembedwe si kungoyimitsa chabe komanso imapangitsa kuti ziwoneke ngati simunachite khama kwambiri. Ndipo palibe amene amakopa munthu amene amachita zinthu mopanda mtima.
10. Sankhani mafunso oyenera kuyankha
Kudziwa momwe mungalembere mbiri ya chibwenzi yomwe imaonekera bwino kumakhala kosavuta mukaphunzira kugwira ntchito mwanzeru ndikugwiritsa ntchito magwiridwe antchito omwe mwasankha kuti akuthandizeni. Mwachitsanzo, mukamalemba mbiri yanu ya chibwenzi, mupeza mafunso osiyanasiyana omwe amagwira ntchito ngati zizindikiro kuti akuthandizeni kufotokoza bwino kuti ndinu ndani kwenikweni - mwachitsanzo, funso lodziwika bwino lakuti ' Kundikonda' ndi lofanana ndi lakuti. Umu ndi momwe mafunso awa amawonekera,
- Nchiyani chimakupangitsa iwe kukhala wamatsenga weniweni?
- Kodi aphunzitsi anu mu giredi 3 angakufotokozeni bwanji?
- Ndi chiyani chomwe simungakambirane kwa inu?'
Ngakhale kuti malangizowo ndi osatha, udindo uli pa inu kuti musankhe zomwe zimabweretsa zabwino mwa inu. Osangosankha zomwe zikuwoneka zosangalatsa koma zomwe zingakupangitseni kuwoneka osangalatsa.
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11. Lankhulani momveka bwino za omwe akuphwanya malonda anu
Cholinga chopanga mbiri yabwino yopezera chibwenzi pa intaneti ndikukopa anthu oyenera omwe mungayembekezere kumanga ubale wolimba nawo. Izi zitha kuchitika pokhapokha ngati, kuwonjezera pa kudziwa zomwe mukufuna mwa mnzanu, mukudziwanso zomwe zimapangitsa kuti musamagwirizane . Tsopano, anthu omwe amasokoneza mgwirizano wa munthu aliyense akhoza kukhala osiyana - kuyambira kusuta fodya mpaka kudana ndi akazi, pali zinthu zambiri zomwe munthu sangafune mwa mnzanu amene angakhale naye. Komabe, Dhriti akupereka mfundo zingapo zomwe simuyenera kuvomereza:
- Zolinga zaubwenzi zosiyanasiyana
- Zosafananiza zofunika patsogolo
- Khalidwe lopanda ulemu
- Kusadalirika kwachuma
Chifukwa chake, ganizirani za ophwanya malonda anu ndikuyika pa mbiri yanu ya pulogalamu yapa chibwenzi.
12. Osazengereza kulankhula za zomwe mumakonda komanso zomwe mukufuna
Yankho la momwe mungapangire mbiri yabwino yazibwenzi ndikuyikonza m'njira yoti mukope anthu amalingaliro ofanana. Mmodzi wa zabwino chibwenzi mbiri nsonga tili kwa inu musazengereze kuika zofuna zanu ndi zokhumba kunja uko. Mwina, ndinu okonda zolimbitsa thupi kapena mumakonda kucheza panja. Kapena mwinamwake mumalakalaka kuchoka pa ntchito ya 9-to-5 kuti muyendetse B&B yodziwika bwino m'mapiri kwinakwake.
Tchulani zinthu izi, kapena chilichonse chomwe mukumva nacho chidwi, kuti mukope anthu omwe ali ndi masomphenya ofanana. Dhriti akuti, "Ngati cholinga cha chibwenzi ndi ubale wa nthawi yayitali , izi zimakhala zofunika kwambiri. Kuyenda ndi kusintha kwa moyo kumakhala kosavuta ngati mnzanu akumvetsa ndipo makamaka akugawana masomphenya anu."
13. Sakatulani mbiri zina kuti mulimbikitse
Tsopano, kuyang'ana zabwino Intaneti chibwenzi mbiri kukopera ndi muiike si abwino chifukwa izi akutanthauza kuti ogwirizana aliyense payekha payekha kutenga pa moyo komanso chibwenzi zolinga. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti simungatenge kudzoza kuchokera ku mbiri zomwe zimagwirizana ndi inu. Ngati mukuyang'ana template ya mbiri ya zibwenzi kuti ikuthandizireni kuti muyambe, pitilizani kuyang'ana mbiri yanu yomwe imalankhula nanu, ndikusankha ndikusankha zinthu zomwe mungafune kutengeranso zanu.
14. Funsani anzanu kuti akuthandizeni
Ah, chipika cha wolemba chomwe chimakukhudzani mutangofika ku gawo lachibwenzi la ine ndikuyenera kulemba zamoyo kapena kubwera ndi mutu wosangalatsa. Chabwino, bwanji osasintha kukhala ntchito yosangalatsa yochita ndi anzanu kumapeto kwa sabata? Dhriti anati: “Nthawi zina anzathu amatidziwa bwino kuposa mmene timadziwira, choncho n’zosawawa kufunsa maganizo awo pa zimene tingachite pa chibwenzi.
Ngati anzanu ali kale ndi chidziwitso pa nkhani ya chibwenzi pa intaneti , akhoza kukupatsani nzeru zanzeru pa zomwe muyenera kuchita ndi zomwe simuyenera kuchita. Chifukwa chake, pitirizani, itanani anzanu, onjezani zokhwasula-khwasula, konzani zakumwa, ndikusintha momwe mungalembere mbiri yanu ya chibwenzi kukhala phwando.
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15. Pitirizani kusintha mbiri yanu miyezi ingapo iliyonse
Kodi munali paulendo wonyamula chikwama kuyambira pamene mudapanga chibwenzi chanu mbiri? Wasamukira ku nyumba yatsopano? Kodi mwayamba ntchito yatsopano? Kodi mwalembetsa kalasi yosangalatsa? Tchulani pa mbiri yanu. Pitilizani kuyang'ananso mbiri yanu ya pulogalamu ya zibwenzi pakapita miyezi ingapo kuti muwone zomwe mungawonjezere kapena kuchotsa kutengera kukula kwanu.
Mwachiwonekere, tsopano mukhoza kuwona kuti momwe mungalembere mbiri ya chibwenzi sichinthu choti muchite mantha kapena nkhawa. Ingosankhani malo abwino kwambiri ochezera abwenzi ndikuzindikira magawo omwe mukufuna kudziwonetsa nokha ndi magawo omwe mukuganiza kuti adzayitanira munthu wina. Tengani nthawi mukuyang'ana mbiri zina, kumvetsetsa zochitika zina, kenako ndikupanga chakudya chanu.
Ibibazo
Osagwiritsa ntchito mawu achidule pambiri yanu. Adzakupangitsani kuwoneka osasangalatsa. Mawu amodzimodzi akale osafunikira samatulutsa chirichonse chosangalatsa pa umunthu wanu. Komanso, musalembe zinthu zodzitamandira kapena zodzionetsera.
Yesani kuoneka wanzeru komanso wosangalatsa ndi zomwe mukunena. Mutha kutsegula ndi funso losangalatsa kapena njira yoseketsa yodzizindikiritsa. Mukhoza kutsegula ndi lingaliro la tsiku kotero kuti tsiku lanu likhoza kukhala ndi lingaliro la mtundu wanji wa zinthu zomwe mungakhale nazo chidwi.
Pachibwenzi chanu mbiri, muyenera kulankhula za zinthu zabwino za inu kwambiri mwachidule. Yesetsani kukhala chachifupi kuti winayo asatope koma kuyeneranso kuwonetsa zinthu zazikulu za umunthu wanu.
Zokonda zanu, zokhumba zanu, ndi zomwe mumachita zimatha kukhala zinthu zokopa zomwe munganene. Mutha kutchulanso zina zosangalatsa komanso zakunja kwa bokosi zomwe muyenera kuziganizira.
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