Osakopeka ndi chibwenzi potengera mbiri yamunthu

Ankawoneka ngati munthu wangwiro pa Facebook

Zeba Nazmi wazaka 25 anakumana ndi Raghib Shahid pa Facebook. Macheza ausiku adatsatiridwa ndi kugawana manambala ndi macheza osatha pafoni. Shahid, wokhala ku Kolkata, adadzidziwitsa kuti ndi mbadwa ya m'modzi mwa makadim (osamalira) a Ajmer Sharif dargah kwa Zeba, wokhala ku Ranchi.

Kucheza pafupipafupi komanso kugawana zambiri posakhalitsa kunasanduka chikondi chakutali, komwe onse awiri ankaoneka kuti akukondana. Pokumbukira nthawi imeneyo, Zeba anati, "Ndinamukonda kwambiri. Choyamba, chifukwa anati ndi m'modzi mwa anthu a ku Ajmer Dargah ndipo chachiwiri chifukwa cha maonekedwe ake abwino komanso umunthu wake wodekha."

Patapita pafupifupi miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, awiriwa anayamba kukumana. Zikuoneka kuti Zeba anali ndi achibale ake ku Kolkata, choncho nthawi iliyonse akapita ku Kolkata, ankakumana ndi Shahid. Panali pa ulendo wina wotero pamene anaganiza zokwatirana. Awiriwo ataganiza zopititsa patsogolo ubale wawo, adadziwitsa makolo awo ndi voila, pasanathe mwezi umodzi, awiriwa adakhazikitsa Nikah yawo ku Kolkata komwe. Komabe, sinali nthano mathero osangalatsa kwa iwo; pakuti kuyambira pano moyo wa Zeba unasandulika kukhala gehena wamoyo.

Pambuyo pa ukwati, makhalidwe ake enieni anaonekera

Iye anati: “Pamene tinali pachibwenzi, iye anali munthu wolankhula mofatsa.” Koma pambuyo pa ukwati ndinazindikira kuti sanali wokoma mtima choncho. Komabe, chisokonezo chake sichinathe ndi izi. Posakhalitsa, apongozi ake anayamba kumukakamiza kuti amupatse ndalama kapena zinthu zina. Nthawi zambiri ankangotsekeredwa m’chipinda chake atagwiriridwa. “Nanenso ndinkalekerera kumenyedwako, koma mwamuna wanga atayamba kupeŵa kubwera kunyumba kwa masiku ambiri, ndinamva fungo loipa.” Ndinauza apongozi anga aakazi, amene m’malo modzudzula mwana wawo, anali wofunitsitsa kum’limbikitsa kuchita naye chibwenzi kunja kwa banja.

Zeba si mtsikana yekhayo amene adakopeka ndi chibwenzi chifukwa cha mbiri yabwino yapa social media. Malinga ndi katswiri wodziwa za cybersecurity ku Jaipur, Mukesh Choudhary, pali kukwera kwakukulu kwamilandu yotere. “Popeza achinyamata amathera nthawi yawo yambiri pa Intaneti, n’zodziwikiratu kuti akuyamba chibwenzi kudzera pa Facebook, mafomu ofunsira zibwenzi pa Intaneti kapenanso kudzera m’maukwati.” Koma ayenera kusamala posankha anthu okwatirana nawo pa Intaneti, chifukwa anthu ambiri sauza ena zenizeni zenizeni ndipo nthawi zina amapanga zithunzi zochititsa chidwi kwambiri n’cholinga choti akope atsikana opupuluma,” iye anatero.

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Mawebusayiti okwatirana amatha kukhala owopsa ngati simusamala

Malinga ndi Choudhary, malo okwatirana asanduka chiwopsezo chachikulu, chifukwa ogwiritsa ntchito nthawi zambiri amawagwiritsa ntchito kunyengerera atsikana. Adagawana, "Posachedwapa wina wamakasitomala anga adandiyimbira foni kufuna thandizo langa. Pankhaniyi, mnyamata woyenera, yemwe kasitomala wanga ali naye pachibwenzi tsopano, adamulowetsa paubwenzi wapaintaneti. Choyamba, adayamba ndi zotsekemera ndipo kenako adamaliza maphunziro achikulire kenako adabwera bomba. Adamupempha kuti akhazikitse macheza a pa intaneti, omwe adawajambulitsa ndipo akugwiritsa ntchito kumusokoneza. kwa ena kapena kugulitsa zithunzi ndi mavidiyo anu kumalo olaula.”

Malinga ndi akatswiri ambiri, munthu sangaimbe mlandu malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ngati chikondi chikuipiraipira m’zaka zachikondi zapa social media. "Ubwenzi ukhoza kulephera, kaya ndi weniweni kapena woona komanso ndi momwe zimakhalira kwa wina amene akukunyengererani. Monga munthu payekha, muyenera kukhala tcheru ndi kusakhulupirira zonse zomwe zimagawidwa. Kukayika kumathandiza pazochitika zotere," anatero Paromita Mitra Bhaumik, mlangizi wa moyo komanso katswiri wa zamaganizo ku Kolkata. Amapereka malamulo ena amthupi omwe munthu amayenera kutsatira akakhala pachibwenzi ndi munthu yemwe amakumana naye pazama media.

Malamulo oti muwatsatire musanayambe kucheza ndi anthu

• Pangani mabwenzi ndi odziwika; osachepera kungovomereza zopempha kuchokera kwa anthu omwe ali pamndandanda wa abwenzi a bwenzi lanu, kuti mutha kufunsa kwa iwo, ngati pakufunika.
• Nthawi zonse vomerezani zopempha zochokera kwa anthu okhawo omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zenizeni monga chithunzi chawo.
• Kufunika kotsimikizira ntchito yomwe akugwira. Mbiri zabodza zilibe zambiri monga zochitika zapagulu kapena zithunzi zomwe zili pandandanda yawo. Nthawi zambiri amamatira ku selfies ndi zolemba.
• Ndipo musanatengere ubale wanu pamlingo wina, khalani ndi zambiri monga adilesi ndi manambala afoni otsimikiziridwa ndi pulogalamu ngati Truecaller kapena anzanu wamba.
• Funsani mafunso, ofunsa nthawi zonse amawapewa

Ndiye, kodi zikutanthauza kuti munthu atha kulemba ntchito wapolisi wofufuza milandu kuti atsimikizire zambiri? Choudhary samapatula njira imeneyo. Iye anati, "Sizololedwa kulemba ofufuza, chifukwa amasokoneza zinsinsi za munthu ndipo zimakhala ngati kazitape. Ndingalimbikitse anthu kuti akhale tcheru, anzeru komanso osungika pang'ono. Musakhulupirire kuti zambiri zomwe mwagawana ndi inu kwathunthu. Musalole kugawana zithunzi. Ngati mukukayikira chinachake, perekani chiyanjano. Sichidzapweteka kuposa kukhala wozunzidwa. "

Chifukwa chake, ngati ndinu m'modzi mwa omwe amakonda kuchita zachikondi pa intaneti, kumbukirani lamulo lofunika kwambiri - khalani tcheru nthawi zonse ndipo musagawane zambiri ndi tsiku lanu la intaneti. Chifukwa zimatenga nthawi kuti munthu awonetse mitundu yake yeniyeni.

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