Bikin da aka yi ta yadawa tsakanin Nick Jonas na fitaccen dan kasar Amurka Jonas Brothers da ’yar fim din Indiya kuma diva Priyanka Chopra ya dauki hankulan mutane a yanar gizo kuma ma’auratan ya ci gaba da tattaunawa a tsakaninsu. Me yasa? Domin shine labarin soyayyar babbar mace da saurayi, wanda bamu saba dashi ba.
Ko da yake na musamman kamar yadda zai yi kama da farko, hakika hanyar rayuwa ce ta al'ada ga yawancin ma'aurata kuma babu abin da zai gigice. Baya ga rayuwa ta gaske, muna kuma da misalan misalan rayuwa da yawa daga wasu ƙwararrun ƙwararrun 'yan mata kanin namiji na fina-finai don tabbatar da cewa haɗin gwiwa ne kamar na yau da kullun.
Waɗannan su ne wasu flicks waɗanda bai kamata ku rasa ba. Suna nuna kauna daidai gwargwado suna barin batun gibin shekarun baya. Haka ne, akasin imanin da aka sani, mace na iya zama babba a cikin dangantaka kuma babu abin da ya canza sosai. Bari mu yi magana game da dalilin da ya sa irin waɗannan dangantakar ba dole ba ne su zama abin ƙyama kuma mu jera wasu fina-finai mafi kyau na dangantaka na "tsohuwar mace" don jin daɗin kallon ku.
Taboo No More: Tsohuwar Mace Ƙarshin Mutum Dangantaka
Teburin Abubuwan Ciki
Kamar 'yan shekarun da suka gabata, dangantakar mace mai ƙanƙantar namiji da ta kasance maganar garin ko ta ina ta faru. Yana daya daga cikin abubuwan da aka dauka gaba daya a matsayin haramun da abin da ya kamata a kauce masa. Duk da haka, alhamdu lillahi, mun sami damar yin watsi da wannan layin tunani kuma mu kasance masu karɓar mutane da kuma yadda suka zaɓa su kasance cikin dangantakarsu.
Lisa Bonet da Jason Momoa, Cheryl Cole da Liam Payne, Eva Mendes da Ryan Gosling, Courteney Cox da Johnny McDaid, kowanne daga cikin waɗannan alaƙar yana nuna wata tsohuwa da saurayi, yana nuna wa duniya cewa soyayya tana zuwa ta kowace siffa da siffofi, kuma tare da dukkan gibin shekaru.
An ba da fifiko ga karɓuwa, a cikin rayuwar reel kuma. Dukanmu mun sami finafinan da muka fi so a watan Mayu-Disamba (ma'ana, fim ɗin da ke nuna ma'aurata tazarar shekaru), kawai saboda abu ne mai ban sha'awa don shaida. Yadda waɗannan ma'auratan ke magance duk wata koma-baya da suke samu, yadda suke samun soyayya da juna, da kuma yadda suke samun abubuwa iri ɗaya duk da tazarar shekaru na sa agogo mai kayatarwa.
Fina-finan dangantaka na tsohuwar mace kanin namiji da gaske suna ba da kyakkyawar ƙwarewar kallo, kuma mun zaɓi mafi kyawu a gare ku. Bari mu kalli wasu fina-finai masu kyau don ku ji daɗin su tare da abokin tarayya, na gaba fim ɗin dare ya kewaya.
10 Dole Kalli Fina-Finan Dangantakar Mata Da Kanshi Namiji
Ko da yake mun fi yarda da dangantakar da ke tsakanin samari da manyan mata, akwai wasu da har yanzu suka bambanta kuma suka cancanci a yi musu ba'a da hukunci. Abu ne da al'umma ke farkawa a kai amma har yanzu ana kallonsa da son sani. Amma wannan zargi galibi ba shi da tushe domin ba shi da wani bambanci ga dangantaka, musamman idan su biyun suna ƙaunar juna sosai. Bari waɗannan fina-finan soyayyar samari da manyan mata su ba da hujjar a madadinsu:
1. BA Pass
Dangane da ɗan gajeren labarin Mohan Sikka na shekarar 2009, The Railway Aunty , wannan fim ɗin Bollywood na shekarar 2013 wanda Ajay Bahl ya shirya a cikin wani fim mai ban sha'awa na neo-noir ya sami yabo da yabo daga masu kallo a duk faɗin duniya saboda kasancewarsa fim game da wata tsohuwa da ta kamu da soyayya da wani saurayi.
Fim ɗin ya yi nazari kan dangantakar da ke tsakanin wani matashin da ba a san shi ba, Mukesh, da kuma wani matashin da ke zaune kusa da shi, Sarika. Shilpa Shukla, wacce ta shahara a Chak De India, ta gamsu da matsayinta na Sarika, yayin da Shadab Kamal, a matsayin Mukesh, ta nuna rashin taimako da raunin wani saurayi, wanda aka tilasta masa bayar da ayyukan jima'i ga maza da mata don tallafa wa 'yan'uwansa mata marayu.
An ci amanarsa a cikin wannan soyayyar kuma an yi masa fyaɗe a cikin wannan lamarin. Ya kashe Sarika, wanda yake ganin ya yaudare shi amma daga baya ya fahimci abin da ya ba shi mamaki cewa abokinsa Johnny ya tafi da kuɗinsa da Sarika ya aika masa. A ƙarshe, Mukesh ba shi da wani zaɓi illa ya kashe kansa yayin da 'yan sanda suka kama shi.
Mun sani, mun sani, ba fim ɗin da ya fi yawan mace tsofaffin saurayi ba ne, amma abin ban sha'awa na wannan fim ɗin ya sa ya yi mana wuya mu yi watsi da su. Ko da yake ba ya ƙunshi dangantaka mafi farin ciki, har yanzu yana ɗaya daga cikin mafi kyawun fina-finai na mata matasa akan Netflix cewa ba za ku iya cire idanunku ba.
2. Cheri – Kyakkyawar tsohuwar mace kanin namiji fim ɗin dangantaka
Daga daraktan Dangerous Liaisons , Stephen Frears, an bayyana wannan fim ɗin a matsayin mai nishadantarwa sosai domin yana magana ne game da wata dangantaka mai sarkakiya tsakanin wani tsohon saurayi mai matsakaicin shekaru, Lea da Cheri, ɗan matashin saurayin wani attajiri, Fred. Lea sananne ne saboda kyawunta da kuma gudanar da mu'amalar kasuwanci mai nasara, kuma ba ta taɓa yin soyayya da ɗaya daga cikin abokan cinikinta ba.
Ko da yake suna so su kiyaye al'amarin a hankali, Cheri da Lea sun ƙare suna da dangantaka na tsawon shekaru shida. Al'amarin ya kara dagulewa yayin da suke soyayya da juna kuma mahaifiyar Cheri ta shirya aurensa da wata yarinya mai shekarunsa. An zaɓi fim ɗin a cikin rukunin gasa a bikin Fim na Berlin.
3. Ae Dil Hai Mushkil
Ɗaya daga cikin shahararrun fina-finai game da dangantakar mace mai girma a kan Netflix, wannan fim din ya kasance babban nasara. Matsala, zafi, da bacin rai na makalewa cikin soyayya mai gefe guda an nuna su da kyau a cikin wannan wasan kwaikwayo na soyayya na 2016 wanda Karan Johar ya jagoranta tare da jaruman Ranbir Kapoor, Anushka Sharma, da Aishwarya Rai Bachchan a cikin manyan jaruman.
Ayan Sanger, mawaƙiya wacce ta sami shahararriya (wanda Ranbir ya fito a matsayinta) ta kamu da son Alizeh (Anushka) amma ta tura shi cikin yankin abokantaka kuma ba ta mayar masa da martani ba. Daga baya Ayan ta fara soyayya da Saba (Aishwarya Rai Bachchan), wata mace da aka sake ta wadda ta girme shi amma ta rabu da shi lokacin da ta fahimci cewa Ayan har yanzu tana son Alizeh.
Shahararriyar waƙar Ghazal mai suna " Aaj Jaane Ki Zid Na Karo " ta nuna yanayin da ke tsakanin Ranbir da Aishwarya. Wannan fim ɗin ya nuna dangantakar da ke tsakanin tsohuwar mace da saurayi. An zaɓi fim ɗin don kyaututtuka da dama kuma ya lashe kyaututtuka huɗu saboda waƙoƙin sa. A cikin jerin fina-finan soyayyar ƙaramar yarinya, wannan fitaccen jarumin Bollywood ya cancanci matsayi.
4. Mai karatu – fim ne akan wata tsohuwa mace tana soyayya da saurayi
Wannan wasan kwaikwayo na soyayya na 2008 an yi shi da kyau tare da saƙa mai sarƙaƙƙiya tare da tsararriyar labarun labari da wasan kwaikwayo mai kayatarwa, wanda aka saita a zamanin bayan kisan kiyashi a Berlin, wani lokaci mai duhu wanda ya mamaye dukkan Jamus. Kate Winslet ta samu nadi da yawa na nadi, da kyautuka, da kuma yabo saboda hoton wata mata da ba ta iya karatu ba, Hannah, wacce ta mika kanta ga kisan wasu Yahudawa mata 300 a wata majami'a da ke cin wuta, sannan aka kwashe wani sansanin na Nazi.
Labarin soyayya wanda ya koma kan soyayyar Hannah mai shekaru 36 da Michael mai shekaru 15 (wanda yanzu lauya ne da ya sake aure da 'ya mace) ba a taɓa rufe shi da jigon fim ɗin "Mayu-Disamba" mai cike da rudani ba, wanda daraktan fim ɗin, Stephen Daldry, ya yi magana a kai cikin nutsuwa. Su biyun suna soyayya sosai , kuma a lokaci guda, suna mu'amala da wasu batutuwa masu sarkakiya. Babu shakka, ɗaya daga cikin fina-finan da suka fi jawo ce-ce-ku-ce game da wata tsohuwa da ta kamu da son wani saurayi.
5. Tashi Sid
Eh, Ranbir Kapoor ne a cikin wani fim ɗin wata tsohuwa matashiya. "Wake Up Sid " fim ne mai daɗi wanda ya shafi nau'ikan barkwanci da soyayya, wanda Ayan Mukherji ya ba da umarni, wanda abokin Ranbir ne na kud da kud. An fitar da shi a hukumance a shekarar 2009, kafin fim ɗin " Ae Dil Hai Mushkil " (2016).
An fito a cikin shirin Ranbir tare da Konkona Sen Sharma a cikin shirin Wake Up Sid , wacce take da burin zama marubuciya kuma ta koma Mumbai don samun cikakken aiki a wani shiri na yau da kullun, wanda daga ƙarshe ta yi nasara a kai. Ta ɗan girmi Ranbir kuma tabbas ta fi shi iyawa.
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Kamar yadda sunan fim ɗin ya nuna, Ranbir ya fito a matsayin Siddharth wanda aka fi sani da Sid, wanda ɗan wani attajiri ne, bai yi karatun jarabawarsa ba kuma ya faɗi sakamakon haka. Wake Up Sid yana magana ne game da Sid da ya sami hanyar fansa ta hanyar bin sha'awarsa ga daukar hoto da kuma samun ƙwarewa wajen ɗaukar nauyin ayyuka. Abin da ya fi muhimmanci shi ne, fim ɗin yana da kyakkyawan ƙarshe!
Wannan fim din babbar mace kanin namiji yana da mahimmanci domin yana magana ne kan yadda Konkona Sen Sharma ya nuna halin girma a cikin Ranbir kasancewar ita ce balagagge. Ranbir ya taka rawar gani na farin ciki da ya kammala karatun jami'a wanda ba shi da manufa a rayuwa kuma baya sha'awar yin yawa. Amma kallon Konkana ya sa ya gane girman girma da ya kamata ya yi.
Wasu ma za su yi gardama cewa fim ɗin ya gaya mana dalilin da ya sa samarin samari suna saduwa da mace mai girma, kuma ya nuna mana wasu fa'idodin dangantaka tsakanin shekaru. Tun da daya abokin tarayya ya koya wa ɗayan ya zama mafi girma kuma Sid ya kawo farin ciki na Konkana, sha'awar juna da farin cikin su duka sun kasance abin farin ciki a kallo. Shi ya sa wannan fim din ya fito a jerin manyan fina-finan mu na soyayya da babbar mace da saurayi.
6. Dil Chahta Hai
Wannan fim ɗin na Hindi yana magana da kyau game da ƙaƙƙarfan dangantakar mace kanin saurayi. Dangane da soyayyar da suka yi na fasaha, Akshaye Khanna, wanda ke wasa saurayi, ya haɗu da Dimple Kapadia, babbar mace. Matar aure ce kuma mai sanin yakamata, kuma yana son yin fenti. Wannan shine ɗayan fina-finai game da tsofaffin mata da ƙanƙantar namiji akan Netflix wanda ake kallo kuma ana jin daɗinsa.
Dangantakar tana da kyau sosai a cikin fim ɗin ta yadda ba za ku iya yin kyau ba lokacin da ta kamu da cutar kansa kuma yana kula da ita har zuwa ƙarshe. Kawayensa na gungun abokansa sun kasa fahimtar soyayyar da yake yi mata sai hatsaniya ta biyo baya inda Akshaye ya kai ga mari wani abokinsa, lamarin da ya sa kungiyarsu ta wargaje. Amma bayan rasuwar uwargidansa soyayya, duk sun gane kuskuren da suka yi, suka binne hat din.
7. Malena – shahararriyar tsohuwa mace ƙarami dangantaka movie
Wannan fim ɗin na shekarar 2000 ya fito a cikin jaruman Monica Belucci a matsayin Malena da Guiseppe Sulfaro a matsayin Renato, matashin ya yi sha'awar wata kyakkyawar tsohuwa. An fara shi ne a lokacin Yaƙin Duniya na Biyu, yana nuna gwagwarmayar Malena lokacin da mijinta ya je yaƙi a yaƙin kuma aka bar ta a gida a wani gari cike da mazan da ke sha'awarta. Renato ta kamu da sha'awarta kuma ta fara bin ta a zahiri.
Lokacin da mijinta ya mutu a cikin yaƙi, ta shiga cikin gwaji da ƙunci ta zama karuwa don tsira. Duk cikin Renato yana kiyaye mata kallo, yana sonta da hauka kowace rana. Sa'an nan da aka tabbatar da cewa labarin mutuwar mijinta ba daidai ba ne kuma ya dawo, Renato ita ce ta gaya masa inda take kuma sun haɗu.
Yana daya daga cikin fitattun fina-finan da aka yi akan wata tsohuwa mace saurayi saurayi labarin soyayya. Ko da yake mai gefe ɗaya ne, ya kasance misali mai haske na ƙauna ta gaskiya. Halin ban sha'awa na fim din shine dalilin da ya sa ya fito cikin jerin manyan fina-finan mu na soyayya da babbar mace da saurayi.
8. Lalata Mai Kisa
A cikin wannan jerin fina-finan soyayyar 'yar shekara 10, wannan zai iya zama wanda za ku fi tunawa. Wannan labari ne na ƙarshe amma duk da haka yana da ban sha'awa. Carissa (Dina Meyer) bazawara ce wadda ta yaudari wani matashin saurayi mai zuwa jami'a Mark (Caleb Ruminer). Suna yin jima'i a cikin shawa, kuma tare da jituwarsu ta jima'i , soyayya mai zafi ta biyo baya. Amma a hankali an bayyana cewa Carissa tana da sha'awar jima'i kuma tana yin duk abin da za ta iya don nisantar da Mark daga mahaifiyarta.
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Labarin soyayya ya ƙare a cikin baho lokacin da Carissa ta daure Mark kuma ta azabtar da shi saboda rashin ruwa amma mahaifiyarsa ta zo don ceto shi. Wannan babbar mace matashin fim ɗin ba shi da ƙarshen tatsuniya amma fim ne mai ban sha'awa duk da haka.
9. Gigolo na Amurka
Fim ne na 1980 wanda tauraro Richard Gere (Julian) a matsayin gigolo Ba'amurke wanda abokan cinikinsa ya ƙunshi manyan mata. Amma ya fadi ga Michelle (Lauren Hutton) wacce ta girme shi da kuma matar dan siyasa. Ƙaunar su ta yi girma amma ba da daɗewa ba, an yi kisan kai kuma Julian ya sami kansa wanda ake zargi. Michelle ta fahimci cewa an tsara shi kuma tana ƙoƙarin yin komai don ceto shi.
Tare da nuna tsiraicin namiji na gaba a karon farko a cikin fim, da kuma yawan lambobin yabo da aka ba shi, ya sa wannan fim ɗin ya zama sananne kuma abin tunawa. Mai ban sha'awa mai ban sha'awa tare da tsohuwar mace saurayi saurayi a cibiyar, zaku so wannan gaba ɗaya! Musamman idan kun kasance babban mai son Richard Gere.
10. Wajen Yabon Manyan Mata
Wannan babbar mace ƙaramar namiji fim ɗin dangantaka ce ta al'ada! Tom Berenger (Andras) ya sadu da wata mace mai girma Maya (Karen Black) wadda ta yi aure kuma a cikin shekarunta 30 kuma ta koya masa komai game da soyayya da jima'i. Wannan fim ɗin yana nuna kyakkyawar dangantaka tsakanin namiji da mace. Kamar yadda taken fim ɗin ya ba da kyauta, Andras ya ci gaba da faɗuwa ga manyan mata da yawa a lokacin ƙuruciyarsa da ƙuruciyarsa kuma wannan fim ɗin yana game da duk abubuwan da ya samu tare da su.
Karatu Mai Alaƙa: Ikirarin Mace Mai Aure Tana Soyayya Da Saurayi
Wannan fim ɗin Sipaniya da ya fara girma da alama yana ƙalubalantar yanayi da dama na zamantakewa da siyasa a lokacin da aka fitar da shi. Wannan fim ɗin yana daidaita al'amura daban-daban , kuma yana iya ɗan yi zafi. Amma kuma, wannan shine ainihin dalilin da ya sa ya fito a jerin fina-finan soyayyar ƙarami da yarinya.
Da wannan, mun kawo karshen wannan mafi kyaun mazan mace matashi namiji jerin fina-finai dangantaka! Idan manufar ta burge ku, kuna cikin irin wannan alaƙa da kanku ko kuma kawai kuna son bincika nau'ikan soyayya a can, muna fatan za ku iya samun ƴan fina-finai da suka cancanci ƙarawa cikin jerin kallon ku.
Da fatan, tare da waɗannan fina-finai, za ku sami damar amsa tambayoyi kamar, "Me ya sa samarin matasa suke saduwa da babbar mace?" da duk wani abu da kuke da shi a zuciyarsa lokacin da ake batun dangantakar Mayu-Disamba. Waɗannan wasu fitattun fina-finai ne waɗanda suka karya ra'ayinsu kuma suka sa dangantakar saurayi ta zama abin ƙauna da ƙauna kuma tabbas sun cancanci yabo da suka samu a duk duniya.
Final Zamantakewa
Waɗannan duwatsu masu daraja na cinematic da ke binciko dangantakar samari da mazan mata suna ba da sabon salo kan soyayya da soyayya, suna ƙin ƙa'idodin al'umma da ra'ayi. Ta hanyar zurfafa tunani da kyau na waɗannan haɗin gwiwar, waɗannan fina-finai suna nuna cewa shekaru ba su da wani tasiri a fuskar haɗin kai da ƙauna. Yayin da masu sauraro ke ƙara samun karɓuwa ga labarun soyayya iri-iri, waɗannan fina-finai suna ba da gudummawa sosai don faɗaɗa fahimtarmu da fahimtar alaƙar da ke karya tsarin al'ada. Ko kuna cikin irin wannan alaƙa, kuna sha'awar ra'ayi, ko kawai kuna jin daɗin labarun soyayya na musamman, waɗannan fina-finai suna da mahimmanci don kallo. Rungumar waɗannan labarun da ke nuna ƙauna ta kowane nau'i daban-daban.
Idan kana son karanta labarin a wasu harsuna, danna nan don bincika labaran da ake bayarwa a cikin harshen Turanci.
Gudummawar da kuka bayar ba ta nufin bayar da gudummawa ta sadaka ba . Zai ba Bonobology damar ci gaba da kawo muku sabbin bayanai da sabbin bayanai a kokarinmu na taimaka wa kowa a duniya ya koyi yadda ake yin komai.

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