Mata suna samun maza masu girki da zafi sosai. Babu wanda ke kalubalantar hakan. Idan mutumin ku ya dafa muku a farkon kwanan ku, ya riga ya wuce rabin lokaci don lashe ku. Bincika a cikin fina-finan mu na Bollywood, kuma mun gano da yawa daga cikin jaruman mata suna soyayya da maza masu ba da hular dafa abinci. Amitabh Bachchan ya lashe zuciyar Tabu a Cheeni Kum tare da Hyderabadi Zafrani Pulao, Aditya Roy Kapur ya lashe Parineeti Chopra a cikin Daawat-e-Ishq, sannan Priety Zinta ta yi wa Saif Ali Khan a cikin Salaam Namaste.
Sau da yawa muna jin mata suna cewa suna son maza masu iya girki kuma dalilin da yasa suke bayarwa shine - idan mutum ya san hanyarsa ta hanyar dafa abinci, akwai yiwuwar ya san irin wannan game da matar sa. Amma shin yana jin daɗin ƙalubalen yin sata da abinci mai kyau yana sa mutum ya kammala dabarun dangantakarsa? Mai ba da gudummawar Bonobology Komal yana jin sau da yawa. "Amma iya girki mai kyau na mutum yana nuna cewa ya kware wajen yaba abokin tarayya? Ko kuwa wani ba shi da wani tasiri a kan ɗayan?" Komal mamaki.
Archana Sharma ta ce "Dafa abinci galibi fasaha ce." Dafa abinci yana buƙatar lokaci mai yawa da ƙoƙari don ƙwarewar fasaha. Mutumin da ke da wannan fasaha ta fannoni daban-daban ba kawai yana amfani da ita don dafa abinci kawai ba. Idan zai iya ƙware fasaharsa a cikin dafa abinci, da alama zai fi gamsuwa fiye da zama mai cin abinci kawai a cikin dangantakar.
Dafa abinci kusan kamar yin zane-zane ne ko yin jima'i. Idan ka yi don kanka kawai, kuna yin ba daidai ba ne. Idan kana da hali na rashin son kai don yin girki don faranta wa wasu rai, to hakan zai canza maka zuwa wanda koyaushe zai tabbatar da cewa matarka ta sami kyakyawar dangantaka.
"Ina son dafa abinci - ya kasance ga abokin tarayya ko iyali, kasada ce ta yau da kullun a gare ni in gwada abinci. Ina tabbatar da duk abin da na dafa an shirya shi tare da ƙauna mai yawa. Wasu lokuta mafi kyau suna faruwa a cikin ɗakin dafa abinci inda ni da abokina muke tunawa da dariya, farin ciki, gardama da ƙari. Dakin shine wurin da abinci ya kasance farkon wajen kiyaye sadarwa da soyayya da ke gudana a tsakaninmu, Ina son hanyar haɗin gwiwa ta 110% kawai don saka hannun jari a tsakaninmu. na girki,” in ji NaufalKhan, wanda ke da sha’awar girki.
Karatu mai alaƙa: Maza masu dafa abinci
Naufal ya kara da cewa "Kallolin merlot din da aka kashe da suka raka ni da abokin aikina a lokacin dafa abinci na hauka ya haifar da lokacin farin ciki da zan so, kowace rana sabon abu ne don ka koyi yadda ake shirya abinci ba tare da lalata shi ba kuma haka ya shafi al'amuran soyayya, kula da shi kuma zai kula da kai," Naufal ya kara da cewa yana daɗaɗawa a cikin soyayya.
Menene yake jan hankalin mace ga mai girki? Mata suna ganin maza a kicin a matsayin masu hankali da tausayi. Duk namijin da ya yi daidai da bangarensa na mata, mata ne ke samun sha'awa. "Zan yarda a nan," in ji TapanMozumdar, wanda ke jin bai yi kasa a gwiwa ba wajen dafa abinci da dangantaka, duka. "Dole ne an sami dangantaka mai ƙarfi," in ji shi.
Idan maza sun san yadda ake dafa abinci (ko da lafiya mai kyau), duniyar da ke kewaye da su ta sa su yarda cewa suna da amfani ga mace.
Dua yana ganin bai kamata ace namiji ya iya girki ba, kamar yadda mutum baya yin wani abu mai girma game da mace mai girki.
Komal ya yarda da Dua amma ba zai iya nanata a kan gaskiyar cewa mazan da ke dafa wa abokan zamansu sukan ƙara zuga a cikin dangantakar su ba.
Bugu da ƙari, wa ba zai so ya sami mutumin da zai iya dafa muku karin kumallo da safe? Me kuma kuke bukata?
Ba ka ganin dole ne mu karkatar da wannan tsohuwar maganar ‘hanyar zuciyar mutum ta cikinsa’ zuwa ‘hanyar zuciyar mace ta cikinta ne?
Gudummawar da kuka bayar ba ta nufin bayar da gudummawa ta sadaka ba . Zai ba Bonobology damar ci gaba da kawo muku sabbin bayanai da sabbin bayanai a kokarinmu na taimaka wa kowa a duniya ya koyi yadda ake yin komai.
Idan ya san hanyarsa ta zagaya kicin, to akwai babban damar ya san daidai da ɗakin kwana da matar sa!