Kei te whakaaro koe me aha koe mēnā kei te tinihanga tō hoa tāne i a koe? Kāore he whakautu ngāwari ki tēnei pātai. I pā mai tēnei ki ahau i a au e ngana ana ki te āwhina i taku hoa pai, a Sarah, kia pa ki te mamae o te kore whakapono. E toru tau a Sarah e noho tahi ana me tana hoa tāne, a Alex. I whakaaro ia kua […]
Ehara te wairua whakahihi i te kupu, i te momo tukino rānei e rangona pinepinetia ana e tātou. Ko te tikanga o te wairua whakahihi ko te tangata e aroha nui ana ki a ia anō. Whakaarohia he tangata e hiahia tonu ana kia arohia ia, ā, kāore e aro ki ō kare ā-roto — he tangata whakahihi tēnā. Ko te wairua whakahihi ko te wā e mutu ohorere ai te kōrero a tetahi ki a koe, e ngaro atu rānei me te kore whakatūpato. Te whakatau i
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Ahakoa kei te tata tonu kōrua te tinana, kei te kite koe i tētahi āputa nui i waenganui i a kōrua ko tō hoa? Kei te āhua kore hiahia tō hoa ki te whakapau i te wā kounga? Kei te karohia e rātou te whanaungatanga piripono? Ko te nuinga o ā kōrua kōrero e aro ana ki ngā mea mahi - ngā mahi, ngā kaupapa mahi, ngā mahi o te whare? Kei te āhua kua pau katoa ngā kaupapa hei matapaki? Mena ko te whakautu
Whakarongo ki tō pūmanawa - he mana nui tēnei. Ahakoa he whakaaro noa iho kei te tinihanga ia, ahakoa kāore he taunakitanga, kaua e whakakorekore. Ae, ehara i te mea ngāwari te mahi ki te whakaae kei te tutuki pea ō mataku kino rawa atu. Engari ko te huarahi kē ko te noho tonu i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga e kī ana i ngā take whakawhirinaki me te tinihanga pea.
Anei ngā tohutohu 11 e tautokona ana e ngā tohunga hei whakamutu i te whakaaro ki tō hoa o mua.
Pānuihia kia mōhio ai koe ki ngā take tekau e matenui ai koe ki tētahi tangata kāore koe i te tino mōhio.
He pono te mate aroha? He aha ōna tohu? Ka taea te rongoā i te mate aroha? I kōrero mātou ki te tohunga hinengaro a Anita Eliza mō ētahi atu māramatanga.
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Ki te mea kei te mokemoke koe i roto i te marena, tera pea nā te kore o te whanaungatanga piripono me te kore aro ki ō hiahia. Tērā pea ētahi atu take, mai i ngā kawenga ki ngā tumanakohanga koretake me te kore o te ngoikore.
He aha ahau i tino pouri ai, i tino mokemoke ai hoki i roto i taku marena? Pānuihia atu »
He rerekē ngā tikanga o te marena mō ngā wāhine, i runga i ā rātou kaupapa matua o te ao. I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka tūhuratia te tikanga o te marena ki te wahine, tōna hiranga (te kore rānei) i roto i ō rātou oranga.
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He take whakararuraru te puremu mō te tini o te tangata i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Heoi, he maha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e kaha ana ki te neke atu i te whanaungatanga tawhito, ka tīmata anō. Engari me pēhea? Ka taea e te whanaungatanga te ora i te tinihanga?
