10 Ngā Mea Whakakatakata e Mahihia ana e Ngā Tāne me Ngā Wahine i roto i Ngā Hononga engari Kāore e Whakaaetia

He pai ki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa te noho aroha whakahihi, engari kāore tetahi e whakaae ana. Ki te pātai mai koe ki ahau, e kore rawa ahau e whakaae ko te nuinga o aku pou pāpāho pāpori he tohu mō taku PDA ki taku hoa. Engari koia tonu. Ehara i te mea ko au anake. Ae, koinā taku whakahē nui. Ko ngā mea whakahihi e pai ana ki te mahi hei whakaatu i tō rātou aroha me te ngākau aroha, he rerekē pea i ia tāne me ia tāne, engari ko te mea e pārekareka ana ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa ki tēnei i roto i tētahi āhua me ngā taumata rerekē, he mea noa.

Ko ēnei mahi tinihanga a te tokorua i te wā e aroha ana ka meinga rāua kia "aww" tetahi ki tetahi, kia whakatoi hoki i ētahi atu. Engari he aha te tikanga o te tokorua tinihanga? Ko te tikanga o te kupu "whakatoi" i roto i te papakupu he iti te utu, he iti te kounga. Ina kī tātou he tokorua tinihanga, ko te tikanga he whanonga tinihanga, he whanonga whakakatakata, he whanonga nui rawa atu i te aroaro o te marea (i ēnei rā he maha ngā wā kei runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori) e whakaatu ana i te āhua rūpahu o tō rāua aroha tetahi ki tetahi.

Engari ko te meka tonu, ahakoa ka mutu ko ētahi ka mahi i ngā mea aroha rūpahu i te aroaro o te marea, ko ētahi i te tūmataiti, ko te nuinga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kāore e whakaae ana kua mahi rātou i tēnā.

10 Ngā Mea Whakakatakata a te Tōrua i roto i te Hononga

Ahakoa te nui o tā rātou whakakahore, ka mutu, ka mahi ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i ngā mea tinihanga i roto i te whanaungatanga, engari ehara i te mea he tinihanga ā rātou whanaungatanga. He rerekē pea ngā mahi tinihanga hei whakaatu i te aroha i roto i ia whanaungatanga. Mō ētahi tāne me ngā wāhine, he āhua pea ki te kimi i ngā mea tinihanga hei kōrero ki a rātou anō i te aroaro o te marea, mō ētahi atu, he nui rawa ngā kōrero e tukuna ana (TMI, e te iwi!) i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori.

Kāore mātou e whakahē ana i tēnei mea. Ko tā mātou noa he kī he tino ātaahua ēnei mea tekau, engari he ahua tinihanga. Nā, he aha aua mea, e pātai ana koe? Anei te whakarāpopototanga o ngā mea tinihanga tekau e mahia ana e te tokorua i roto i te whanaungatanga:

1. Ngā ingoa mōkai kuware, mārō

Mai i a Janu, Koochi-Pooh ki te honi me te pai paukena reka, te rārangi o ngā ingoa mōkai ngohengohe He mutunga kore ngā mea e hoatu ana e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e aroha ana tetahi ki tetahi. Kāore he wetereo o ēnei ingoa mōkai, ā, he mea tūpono noa iho te āhua.

Ka māwhero te ngākau o te hunga e arohaina ana ina karangatia rātou e ō rātou whanaunga ki ēnei ingoa mōkai. Tērā pea ka whakaaro koe koinei ētahi o ngā mea tino ātaahua hei mahi mā tō hoa wahine, tāne rānei, hoa rangatira rānei, engari kia tūpato kei whakapairuaki te hunga e karapoti ana i a koe i ēnei ingoa mōkai reka.

I karanga tetahi tokorua hou i a rāua ko Gapshi-Gapshi, kāore mātou i te mōhio he aha, engari i whakaaro rāua he tino ātaahua. Ā, i whakamahia e te tokorua tēnei īngoa whakakatakata i mua i te katoa. Whakaarohia te wā i noho puku ai ō rāua whanaunga i te tēpu kai i te wā e toro atu ana, ā, i karanga rāua tetahi i tetahi ko Gapshi-Gapshi. I kata rāua i muri i ō rāua tuara, he pono.

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2. Mahanga

Mai i ngā tīhāte e ōrite ana ki ngā uhi waea pūkoro, ngā mata papamahi me ngā mata waea pūkoro e ōrite ana – he maha ngā huarahi e kitea ana e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine o te ao hou e aroha ana ki te whakaatu i te pai o te reka ōrite ki te ao.

He maha ngā tae e mau ana rātou i ētahi wā. Hei tauira, mēnā he kakahu whero te wahine, ka mau anō hoki ia i tētahi hāte whero. Ko te whakataurite i ngā tae ki ō rātou kākahu me ngā whakapaipai tētahi o ngā mahi a ngā tāne me ngā wāhine anake, āe, he tino whakakatakata.

He tino pai te whakahaere a ētahi, ā, he ātaahua te āhua, engari e kore e taea te whakakorekore he mahi tinihanga tēnei.

3. PDA pāpāho pāpori

Mai i te tuku i ngā pou aroha ki te maha o ngā whakahōutanga whakaahua-ā-ringa, he maha ngā huarahi e uru atu ai ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te ao pāpāho pāpori o te PDA. Ka whakatapua e rātou ngā whakahōutanga pāpāho pāpori ki a rātou anō, ka tohatoha i ngā kīwaha aroha me ngā rotarota ki ngā pakitara o tētahi ki tētahi. Ko te PDA pāpāho pāpori tētahi o ngā mahi rongonui a te tokorua i ēnei wā.

Ko te mea tino whakakatakata ko te tuhi i ngā mihi huritau, ngā mihi huritau rānei, me te kohikohi whakaahua me ngā kupu whakakatakata. Kei reira rātou e moe ana i tō taha, e whakaara ana i a rātou, e mihi ana ki a rātou, tērā pea kei te whakaaro koe. Engari kāo, he mea whakakatakata ake ki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te kōrero tetahi ki tetahi i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori, kāore?

4. Ka karanga 'pō mārie' i mua i te moe i ia pō

Mō ngā mahi whakakatakata a te tokorua, kaua e whakaroa, he tino whai hua tēnei. Ka nui atu ngā waea pō i te mahi aroha whakakatakata, ā, ka huri hei kawenga nui i roto i te maha o ngā whanaungatanga. Ahakoa kei waho koe i te pō roa i te pō o ngā wāhine, o ngā tāne rānei, ā, ka hoki haurangi mai koe, kaua rawa e wareware ki te waea atu ki tō hoa rangatira i mua i te moe.

He maha ngā mahi tinihanga a te tokorua i roto i te whanaungatanga, ā, koinei pea te mea tino tinihanga rawa atu.

Kua kite katoa tātou i tētahi hoa e noho ara ana mō te pō roa e tatari ana mō te waea "pō pai" a tana hoa, ā, ka waiho tātou kia whakaaro "Moe noa, e hoa".

5. Me te kī atu 'Aroha ana ahau ki a koe' i mua i te whakatārewatanga o te waea

Āe, ka kiia e tātou te "aroha ana ahau ki a koe" hei tetahi o ngā kupu whakakatakata hei kī atu nā te nui o te whakamahi a ētahi tāne me ngā wāhine i te kupu "aroha ana ahau ki a koe" i roto i te... te wāhanga honi o te whanaungatangaHe mea nui tēnei mā ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e aroha ana i aua tau tuatahi, ki te kore rātou e whawhai. Ā, kāo, ahakoa te tangata pukuriri, e kore e taea te wareware i tēnei tikanga aroha i roto i te whanaungatanga.

He mahi tēnei mā ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa. Mō tētahi wā i roto i te whanaungatanga, he pono. I te haere o te wā, ka tīmata te noho mārire o te hiahia ki te kī "Kei te aroha ahau ki a koe". Kāore e whakaaetia ana te kī "Kei te aroha ahau ki a koe", ā, kāore e whakahuatia pinepinetia.

6. Te kōrero pēnei i ngā pēpi

Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe he aha ētahi mahi whakakatakata hei mahi e tino whakarihariha ai, ko tēnei te mea e tika ana. Koinei te mahi whakakatakata tino whakapouri i te puku o te nuinga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e aroha ana! 'Ale mele baby ko kya hua?' 'Ko koe taku ipo tino ataahua.' Ā, pērā tonu.

Ahakoa te āhua marino o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, tera pea kei te hara rātou i tēnei āhuatanga nā te mea kua uru rātou ki tēnei āhua tinihanga. Ahakoa he mea whakarihariha ki a koe hei tangata takakau, ka pērā anō hoki koe ina aroha koe!

7. Ngā whakanui huritau matapōkere

Mai i te aroha-tau, te marama-tau, te kihi-tau, te awhi-tau, kei te haere tonu te rārangi whakanui huritau matapōkere a ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i ngā tau tuatahi o tō rāua hononga. He maha tonu ngā wā ka haere tahi ēnei me ngā pou pāpāho pāpori me ngā kōrero mō tō rāua rā motuhake.

Ko tēnei tetahi o ngā mea e mahia ana, e māramahia ana e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine anake. Ki te ao whānui, he mahi taikaha noa iho ēnei.

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8. Te waiata aroha tetahi ki tetahi

I ngā pāti, i runga i a Pukamata me a Whatsapp, i ngā huihuinga, i roto i ngā kōrero hāhā, ka waiatatia e te hunga e aroha ana ngā waiata aroha tetahi ki tetahi. Ina koa ka tupu tēnei i te wā e haurangi ana rātou, ā, kāore he āwangawanga mēnā he kaiwaiata pōuri rātou.

Koinei tētahi o ngā mea aroha tītaha onge, e tino ātaahua ana, e ataahua ana hoki, i raro i ngā āhuatanga tika.

9. Te tiaki i ngā maharatanga matapōkere

Mai i ngā tīkiti ki te kiriata tuatahi i mātaki tahi ai rāua, ki ngā pepa koha, ki ngā taonga maumahara tuatahi, ki ngā reta aroha rānei o mua – he mea tika kia tiakina ngā mea katoa e kakara ana i te aroha mō te hunga e aroha ana.

He mahi tinihanga tēnei e mahia ana e te nuinga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, ā, ka puta katoa te "tīhi" i te kāpata i a rātou e whakawātea ana i ngā mea. He pono, koinei tētahi o ngā mahi tinihanga kāore e whakarihariha ana te mahi a te tāne me te wāhine i roto i te whanaungatanga, nā te mea kei waenganui i ngā hoa te nuinga o te wā, ā, kāore e hiahiatia kia mōhiotia e te ao whānui.

10. Whakahīhī tetahi ki tetahi

Ina aroha koe, ka hiahia koe ki te hamama i runga i ngā tuanui mō taua mea. Ko ētahi o ngā mea whakakatakata hei kōrero tetahi ki tetahi, mō tetahi rānei i ahu mai i tēnei kare ā-roto. Koia te take e pai ai ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te kōrero whakahīhī mō tā rātou hoa rangatira i mua i te ao. Ahakoa he mea pai ki te tokorua, he mea whakarihariha pea ki ētahi atu. Engari ka meinga te tangata e whakamanamana ana rātou kia tino ataahua, kia maioha hoki.

He aha ngā mahi whakakatakata a kōrua ko tō hoa e meinga ai ētahi atu kia miharo? Kaua e whakamā, kōrero mai ki a mātou i roto i ngā kōrero i raro nei!

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