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Porohia te aroha

Ki te ao o ngā moemoeā moepuku

Ripanga o Ihirangi

He moemoeā ā-ira tangata, ā-tangata takirua, ā-takatāpui rānei, he moemoeā ā-ira tangata tō ia tangata. Ahakoa he tino pai ētahi o aua moemoeā ki te mahi i runga i te moenga, ko ētahi ka tino whakararuraru i tō hoa. Me noho ā-tinana, ā-wairua hoki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ina tae ki te moe, engari kia pēhea te tawhiti ka taea e koe te whakatutuki i ō moemoeā?

Ngā mea e 'āe' ana

1. Te ngote u

E ngā kōtiro, kia pono rawa atu ahau, he pai ki ngā tāne te mimi. Ā, ki te puritia kia ma, kāore i te kino rawa. He pai ki ngā tāne te whakanuia o ō rātou rawa e te wahine. Ahakoa te ahua whakarihariha, ki te mahia me te whakaae tahi me te whai wāhi katoa o te tokorua, ko te mimi te mea tino ātaahua hei whakahihiko i tō tāne. Heoi, ki ētahi wāhine, he mahi noa te mimi. Ko te mirimiri ake, ko te mirimiri iho, me te whakakī i te waha i ētahi wā ka ahua kore whakamarie, engari he tohu anō tēnei hei whakaatu ki tō tāne kei te tuku katoa koe i a koe ki tōna aroha ki a koe.

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2. He tūranga matarohia te mihinare

Me mōhio ngā tāne katoa e aroha ana ngā wāhine ki te tūranga mihinare. Ahakoa te pai o ngā tāne ki te momo kuri, he pai ake ki ngā wāhine te mihinare, nā te mea ka taea e rātou te pupuri i tā rātou tāne, te titiro ki ōna kanohi, me te kihi i a ia i a rātou e moe tahi ana. He tino harikoa te wahine ina titiro te tāne ki a ia, ā, ka tukua ia kia pupuri i a ia i a rātou e mahi ana. He pai hoki ki ngā wāhine te rongo i te taumaha o te tāne i runga i a rātou, ka hoatu ki a rātou te ahua o te haumaru me te noho pūmau. Ka taea e ngā wāhine te mōhio ki te kaha o tā rātou tāne i a rātou e moe tahi ana i roto i te tūranga mihinare.

3. Te tākaro mana

Ko te tuku me te tango rānei i te mana whakahaere, ko tēnei momo tākaro mana i te wā o te moepuku he tino pai mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. Ahakoa e hiahia ana te nuinga o ngā wāhine kia whakahaerehia rātou, kāore ngā tāne e māharahara ki te tuku i te mana whakahaere ki tā rātou wahine i ētahi wā. Ko te 69 (e ai ki te reo Hindi " ulta-pulta ") te wā kua tukua e rāua tetahi ki tetahi, nō reira he tūranga moepuku rongonui. Ko te whakahaere i ngā wāhine i runga i te moenga ehara i te mea he tutu, engari he mea noa kia nekehia ia ki ō mahi. Ko te whiu, te whakamahi i ngā kupu kino, te papaki, te tuwha, me ētahi atu, kāore e kiia he mea ātaahua i roto i te whanaungatanga aroha, ahakoa i roto i te moe kotahi. He "pai" nui hoki te tākaro tūranga ina whakamahia tēnei momo mana whakahaere, ngohengohe rānei i roto i te moe tahi.

4. Te wetewete i ngā kākahu o tetahi ki tetahi

Kia pēhea te hoha o te tango kākahu? Hei whakahihiri, hei mea whakangahau hoki, he mea ātaahua, he mea wera hoki te tango kākahu tetahi i tetahi, he mea "kātahi" hoki mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. E pai ana ia kia wetekina e koe tōna pōtae, ā, e pai ana hoki ia kia herea e koe tōna remu. I a kōrua e tango ana i ngā kākahu o tetahi i tetahi, ka taea e kōrua te rongo i te tinana o tetahi, ā, he mea nui tēnā hei whakaohooho i te tokorua.

5. Te tākaro tinana

Ehara i te mea ko te whakaurunga i ngā wā katoa. Ki ngā wāhine, he "āe" nui te takaro tinana. I ētahi wā, ki ngā tāne, he werawera, he werawera te wahine e pā ana ki ōna uaua, ki tōna uma, ki te āwhina rānei i a ia ki te whakakorikori. Kāore te moepuku e whakamāramahia ana e te kupu moe tāne. He whānuitanga whānui tēnei, ko te takaro tinana, te takoto tahanga tetahi ki tetahi, te pā atu me te whāwhā tetahi ki tetahi, te kihi Wīwī, te āwhina tetahi ki tetahi ki te mirimiri he wāhanga katoa o te mahi nui.

Ngā mea 'kāo'

1. Kihi, engari kaua e ngau

Ahakoa e tino maiohahia ana te whakamahinga o te arero i te wā e ngote ana, kāore ngā tāne e pai ki ngā wāhine e whakamahi ana i ō rātou niho ki ā rātou taputapu. Ahakoa te kaha o tō tāne, ki te ngau koe i te arero, kua pakaru noa iho te wā. Ā, mō ngā wāhine, he mea whakarihariha te whakamākūkū i ō rātou waha mā te whakamahi nui i te arero, te ngau rānei i ō rātou ngutu. Me ata noho te kihi me te ngote.

2. Kāore he takaro i mua i te moe

Ahakoa te hiahia kia tika te mahi, i runga i te moenga, kāore e mahi. He rite te moe tāne me te kore he takaro i mua i te moe ki te horomi kai me te kore e reka. Ehara te moe tāne i te whāinga matua o te aroha. Me pā atu kōrua ki ngā tinana o tētahi ki tētahi, me takaro tetahi ki tētahi, me kihi, me mirimiri tetahi ki tētahi. He "kāo" te haere tika ki te mahi me te kore he aroha mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine.

3. Ngā ure kore kakara

Ki te hiahia koe ki te mahi i te moe ā-waha haumaru, tēnā hokona he ure kakara mā tō hoa wahine. He rite te ure kakara kore ki te rongoā, ā, he kino te reka. He "kāo" mō te mea e pāngia ana.

E rima ngā tohu e whakamānawa ana koe i tāu wahine i runga i te moenga

Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.