Ko te Taatai ​​Pai rawa atu ka Kia Pai te Ira Tangata, Kore he Hara, he Whakama rānei

Kua whakama koe mō te moe tāne? I tētahi wā pea kua whakaaro koe – kua tae ki te rautau 21, kāore e taea e te wahine te moe tāne me te kore hara? Engari, i roto i te maha o ngā hapori, he mea whakahē tonu te kōrero mō te moe tāne me te orgasm. Tērā pea ka whakahengia koe mō te kōrero mō ēnei 'tapu'. Engari kua tae ki te wā kia wareware koe ki ēnei tikanga pāpori koretake, kia tūhuratia tō moe tāne me te moe tāne, kia whiwhi ai koe i te moe tāne pai rawa atu o tō ao – me te kore hara!

Āe, he YOLO. Kāore?

He aha te moe pai rawa atu? Ehara i te mea mō ngā pēpi anake!

Tērā pea he ahua tino whakarihariha, he tino pōuri, he kore e taea te kōrero atu ki a koe, nā te mea kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakapono kei te "whakamā" te moepuku a te kōtiro; ā, māku e kōrero ki a koe te take.

He tapu nui tēnei i roto i tō tātou hapori matatika. Ko te wahine me te taatai? Kāore rāua e pai te noho tahi. Āe, me pēhea rā te whānau tamariki a tātou, a ngā wāhine? Me moe tāne tātou mō tēnā, engari koinei tonu te tīmatanga o te tapu. E tumanakohia ana kia whānau ngā wāhine, engari kaua e moe tāne mō te ahuareka.

Kua roa nei ngā wāhine e whakama ana i te pārekareka ki te moe tāne nā ēnei pēhanga! Heoi, he rerekē rawa te āhua o te moe tāne i tēnei tirohanga tuku iho. Ehara i te mea he huarahi noa iho te moe tāne hei whānau tamariki. He mea anō hoki e taea ai e koe te pārekareka. He take kei reira ngā ārai hapūtanga, tika?

Kāore i tino āwhina te kura

Pērā i te nuinga o ngā tamariki, i tīmata taku mōhio ki te moepuku, arā, te "moepuku" mā roto i taku pukapuka koiora o te tau whitu. I a au e pānui matapōkere ana i ētahi upoko o te pukapuka (ko te koiora taku aroha tuatahi) ka tūpono ahau ki ētahi kupu moepuku whakamīharo.

He tini ngā okana, he tini ngā mahi hei whānau pēpi. He tino uaua te taiao. I haere ahau ki tōku pāpā ki te pātai mō tēnei mea. I taua wā ka papaki ia i ahau, me te kī kāore au e tika kia pātai atu ki a ia i ēnei momo pātai. I haere ahau ki tōku māmā. I karo ia i aku pātai katoa.

He waimarie, kāore i rite ki ētahi atu kaiako koiora, i reira taku kaiako i te wā i ruarua ai ahau. I whakamārama ia ki te pai o tōna kaha he aha te tikanga o te taatai, me te waiho i ngā wāhanga whakamā. Whai muri i taku tirotiro tere i te ipurangi, ka ako ahau mō te orgasm me te masturbation.

I kite ahau nā te ipurangi ahau i ako kia nui ake te mōhio ki te taatai ​​me te hauora taatai ​​i tētahi atu pukapuka ako, i tētahi atu pakeke rānei. Engari kāore i ranea te mōhiotanga i riro mai i ahau. Nō muri mai ka ako ahau i te tikanga o ēnei kupu i roto i te mahi tūturu.

Kāore i roto i ngā pukapuka te whakamārama mō te wāhanga whakauru (ki taku whakaaro he mea huna, me te mea ka mārama noa te tamaiti 13-tau te pakeke ki tāna i kī ai). Nō reira i mārama ahau ki tēnei, ka whakaurua e te tāne tana ure ki roto i te wahine, ka ruku ki mua, ki muri, ka whakaranua ētahi matū, ā, ka pā! E iwa marama i muri mai ka whānau mai he pēpi.

E ai ki tō tātou hapori Īnia, he rawaka noa iho tēnei akoranga mō te taatai. Arā, kia mārena rā anō ahau.

I whakaako a Paulo Coelho i ahau mō te puremu

He nui taku pānui pukapuka i mua. Kei te pena tonu ahau. Nā ngā pukapuka pakiwaitara ahau i whakaora i te maha o ngā raruraru. He nui hoki ngā mea i ako mai i ahau. Mai i ngā wāhi kāore i taea e au te moemoeā ki te toro atu ki te toro atu ki tōku ake tinana. I pānui ahau i tētahi pukapuka ko Eleven Minutes te ingoa, nā Paulo Coelho. I te tekau mā rua o ngā tau ahau i taku panuitanga. I miharo ahau ki te pukapuka. He maha ngā mea "koretake" i kōrerotia. He nui ngā mea i akohia e au.

I reira tētahi wāhanga i kitea ai e te toa te mana o tōna tinana mā te puremu. I pērā anō taku mahi ki a ia, ā, kāore au i pouri. I tae ahau ki tētahi wāhi i ahua pōuri ahau, ā, i rite ahau ki te mea kei te mānu ahau. Ko taku orgasm tuatahi. He nui ngā mea i akohia e au mō tōku tinana mai i taua wā.

I ētahi marama i muri mai i te kāreti, ka kōrerohia taua mea e ngā kōtiro, ā, i whakaaro rātou he tino "kino" te whakauru atu ki roto i a koe anō me te mea kāore he mea pai ake mā mātou. I meinga e rātou kia rite ki te hara, ā, ka tīmata ahau ki te whakama me te hara.

Pānui e Pā Ana: He aha te Hiranga o te Mirimiri?

I pā mai tēnei ki ahau i tētahi ara rerekē. Kāore au i te mōhio he maha ngā tāngata e mirimiri ana, engari e whakakahore tonu ana i te aroaro o te marea kia kore ai rātou e whakama. Mai i taua wā tonu, i ngā wā katoa e mirimiri ana ahau, ka mahia e au me te nui o te whakama me te hara.

Kātahi ka tūtaki ahau ki a Andre

I te tau tuawhā o te kāreti hauora, ka tūtaki ahau ki a Andre. He tauira mahi ia. I rapu tohutohu ahau mō te mahi tauira i te tau e tū mai nei. He nui āna mōhiotanga, ā, i kōrero mai ia ki ahau mō ngā tūmanakohanga, ehara i te mea he tākuta noa iho. He tangata atawhai ia. I tino ōrite māua. Nō reira, i tono mai ia kia haere māua ki te whakatau. I tino pai ahau ki a ia.

I tīmata māua te aroha tetahi ki tetahi, ā, kāore māua i pai ki ngā tapanga. I te taha hangarau he hoa tāne tāku, engari kāore au i pai ki te kī i tēnā. Heoi, i harikoa ahau ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi. He tangata i mōhio ahau kāore e whati i tōku ngākau.

Nō reira, i kōrero mātou ko aku hoa mō ngā tama, te waipiro me ngā tarukino. I te tīmatanga o tā mātou kōrero mō te taatai, me ngā tūranga taatai , ka whakama te katoa. Kāore tetahi i pai ki te kōrero mōna. I titiro tonu rātou ki te taatai ​​hei tukanga e whakanoho ana i a koe ki te ara o te mātua, ehara i te taputapu mō te ahuareka. He hē.

I mau tonu te whakama i ahau, engari i pā mai tetahi mea ki ahau. I pā mai te harikoa i a au e tūhura ana i a au anō. Ehara i te mea ngaro pērā i te unikōne. He mea tūturu. I mārama ahau mēnā kei te noho tonu, ā, mēnā i tino makona ahau, kāore he hē o te hiahia nui atu. He rite ki te tiakarete; ina kai koe, ina reka, ka hiahia nui anō hoki koe.

Kāore he pānga o te moepuku ki te marena, ki ngā pēpi rānei

I auau māua ko Andre ki te kōrero tahi, engari koinā tonu. Kāore māua i haere tonu. I tētahi wā i a māua e mahi ana, ka ata tirotirohia e ia tōku tinana – koinei te moepuku pai rawa atu o tōku ao. I meinga ahau e ia kia noho humarie. Kātahi ka pā mai te whakaaro – kāore he pānga o te moepuku ki te marena, ki ngā pēpi rānei.

A, mehemea kāore taku hoa tāne o muri mai e mārama ki tōku tinana pērā i a Andre? Me pēhea e taea ai e au te tuku i te whai wāhi ki te ahuareka? Ko te moe pai rawa atu ka taea i taua wā tonu, me te tangata e hiahia ana koe ki te mahi tahi - he mea kukume, he mea here. Kāore he he o te hiahia ki tētahi mea pono. Nō reira i moe tahi māua ko Andre. Ko te moe pai rawa atu o tōku ao, me tāpiri atu.

Mai i taua rā, he maha ngā mea i akohia e au. I ako au ko te tirohanga a ngā tākuta wahine ki te kiore he mea noa iho he kohao kiri (he mea whakakatakata!), ko te whakaaro o te hapori kāore e tika kia whakaaetia ngā wāhine kia moe i mua i te marena, he mea hē, ka hanga ture te tangata kia taea ai e ā rātou tamariki te whai i ō rātou "tikanga matatika" rerekē, ko te whakaaro he hiahia mō te moe he rite ki te kohukohu.

He haerenga roa, he haerenga uaua; he haerenga tūhuratanga whaiaro, ā, i ako ahau i te hiranga o te hototahitanga ā-ira tangata. He maha ngā mea i akohia e te taatai ​​mō tōku ake tinana. I kite ahau ehara i te mea whakama te whai hiahia me te hiahia ā-ira tangata – ki te mea he mea, ka hanga noa ahau hei tangata.

Nō reira i ako ai ahau ki te moe tāne me te wahine, me te kore hara. He tika tonu te āhua, he pai te āhua. He aha ahau ka whakama ai i taku whakaae ki te ahuareka me te harikoa hei mea tūturu, nā te mea noa e whakaaro ana ētahi he pakiwaitara te 'moe tāne pai rawa atu'?

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