I te kitenga ko ia te hoa noho o taku whaea kēkē, i hoatu e ahau taku nama waea pūkoro ki a ia.

Ka kōrero a Apurva rāua ko Adnyesh ki te Tīma Bono mō tā rāua tūtakitanga tūpono i te Bharat Matrimony … me te marena aroha i whai mai.

Nō hea te tīmatanga? He aha koe i whakamātau ai i tētahi paetukutuku mō te marena?

Ātihehi: I hiahia ahau ki te kimi i tētahi kōtiro māku ake. Ki te tūtaki koe ki tētahi mā roto i ngā tohutoro, ā, ki te kore e angitu, ka noho hei mea whakamā, hei mea pōrearea hoki te kī "kāo". I whakatau ahau ki te whakamātau i te Bharat Matrimony, he paetukutuku pakeke i taua wā. Waimarie, i pai te tono tuarua i kite ahau, ā, i muri tata mai ka kōrero māua i runga ipurangi. I pai te haere o ā māua kōrerorero, i hono māua, ā, i whakaaro māua me kawe tonu tēnei.

Āpurwa: He pono, i tūpato ahau ki te tūtaki ki tētahi i runga ipurangi, e mōhio ana koe ki te āhua! Engari ko te tūtaki ki tētahi i runga i tētahi paetukutuku marena he nui ake ngā tūponotanga ka hono atu ahau ki tētahi e hiahia ana ki te marena me te whakapau kaha (he rerekē ki te kimi i tētahi i runga i tētahi pae whatunga pāpori) nō reira i tangohia e au te mahi. I te tīmatanga o tā māua kōrero, i whakaaro ahau he rerekē tēnei, tera pea he heke mai i konei. Engari i tūpato ahau, ā, kāore i hoatu e au taku nama waea ki a ia. I tono ahau ki taku whaea kēkē kia kōrero tuatahi ki a ia.

I pēhea te haere o te waeatanga ki te whaea kēkē?

Ātihehi: He mea whakamiharo. He maha āna pātai mai mō tōku tamarikitanga, mō ōku mātua me te wāhi i noho ai ahau. I rongo ahau i tana menemene i te roanga o te waea. I kitea ko ia tō mātou hoa noho tata mō te nuinga o tōku tamarikitanga, i mua i te nekenga o tōku whānau ki te kāinga. I mōhio pai ia ki ahau me ōku mātua! He aha te tūponotanga ka tupu tēnā? I 'whakaae' tonu ia i ahau, ā, nā tēnā i whiwhi ahau i te nama waea a Apurva. I kōrero māua i te waea, ā, i muri tata mai, ka tūtaki māua i roto i tētahi wharekai!

I pēhea kōrua i mōhio ai tetahi ki tetahi i te wā tuatahi i tūtaki ai kōrua? I rite ō kōrua pikitia ki a kōrua?

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Āpurwa: Kāore ia i te āhua rite ki tana whakaahua, he whakaahua tawhito nō ōna rā i te kāreti ia! Nāku i tāpiri tētahi o ngā whakaahua hou.

Ātihehi: I tū ahau i waho o te wharekai e tatari ana ki a ia i taua rā, ā, i taku kitenga atu i a ia, ka mōhio tonu ahau ki a ia. He rite tonu tōna āhua ki tana whakaahua. He ātaahua ia, he tino ataahua.

I pēhea te haere o te hui tuatahi?

Ātihehi: I tino pai te haere. He ngāwari, he whakamarie hoki te kōrero tetahi ki tetahi, i rite māua ki te kōrero tetahi ki tetahi mō ō māua whānau.

Āpurwa: I tūtaki māua ki tēnei wharekai o Bandra, ā, i kōrero māua mō tētahi wā roa. I whakapuaki pono māua i ō māua tumanakohanga tetahi ki tetahi, ā, nā te mea i whakaaro rāua he tika, he pono hoki ngā tumanakohanga a tetahi, a tetahi, nā reira i whakatau māua ki te mahi i te mahi e whai ake nei – arā, te whakamōhio atu ki ō māua whānau.

He aha koe i korero ai?

Ātihehi: I pātai māua tetahi ki tetahi mō ngā āhuatanga, i kōrero mō ō māua hītori oranga, i kōrero tahi māua mō te tikanga o te 'ngahau' ki a māua. He mea nui kia pono, kia mārama hoki te kōrero mai i te tīmatanga. Hei tauira, i kī atu ahau ki a ia ehara ahau i te tangata kai reka, ā, kāore au i te tino pai ki te kai. Nō reira, kaua rawa ia e whakapau haora ki te kīhini ki te tunu kai ohorere māku, nā te mea kāore au e pai ki a rātou, ā, ka pouri ia.

Āpurwa: I kī atu ahau ki a ia he tangata kai nui ahau! Ā, ka riri ahau, ka pōrangi hoki ina hiakai. Tērā pea ka whawhai māua ki ngā mea ohorere. Nō reira ka whakarite ia kia kore rawa ahau e hiakai mō te wā roa!

He tino māmā noa iho aku tumanakohanga mō te ao, ā, i whai ahau i te huarahi kotahi mō te marena. I hiahia ahau kia tautoko māua i ngā whakatau a tetahi, a tetahi, kia whakaute i te whānau o tetahi… I te mea he tamaiti kotahi ahau, ā, kāore taku māmā i reira, kāore au i hiahia ki te haere ki tāwāhi i muri i te marena. I hiahia ahau ki te noho ki Īnia. He miihini ahau, i hiahia ahau ki te marena i tētahi miihini, he tangata e taea ai e au te hono atu ki tōna hinengaro. I taku tūtakitanga ki a Adnyesh, te āhua nei he tangata pono ia, he tangata whakaute, he tangata mātau… ā, koinā tērā.

Nonahea te aroha i tupu ai?

Āpurwa: I taua rā māua i whakaaro ai ki te hoko mowhiti marena, ā, i uru mai ō māua whānau e rua. Heoi anō, i taua rā tonu te rā i aukatia ai ngā mahi a te Rōpū Whakapaipai o Īnia. Kātahi ka mea mai tōna tuahine kei te tuwhera tetahi toa i Bandra. I tō māua taenga atu ki reira, kua tata te kati! I tono atu māua ki a rātou, ā, i kōrero atu ki a rātou mō tō māua raruraru, ā, i atawhai mai rātou ki te mārama me te tuku mai i a māua ki roto.

I puta te raruraru i te korenga o taku whiriwhiri i tētahi mowhiti. Kāore au i pai ki tētahi. I te roanga o ngā meneti ka tīmata ahau ki te pēhanga kia pai ki tētahi mowhiti i roto i ngā wā tata nei. Engari me pēhea? Ko ngā mea i pai ki ahau he tino utu nui, ko ngā mea utu nui kāore au i pai ki a rātou. Ehara ahau i te tangata whakapaipai, ko taku anake i hiahia he mowhiti taumau pai. Ka nui rawa te pēhanga, ā, ka tīmata ahau ki te tangi. I taua wā tonu ka haria e Adnyesh ō mātou whānau ki tahaki, ka tono kia tukua ahau kia whakaroa. Kāore ia i te mōhio pai ki ahau i taua wā, engari i tautoko ia i ahau i te wā e ngoikore ana ahau. He mea nui tēnā ki ahau, ā, i mōhio ahau ka noho tonu ia ki tōku taha, ā, ka mārama tonu ia. Koinei te rā i tīmata ai ahau ki te rongo i tētahi mea.

Ātihehi: Kāore he wā motuhake mōku. Ki taku whakaaro, ehara te whanaungatanga i te vodka engari he waina; he roa te wā e hiahiatia ana kia reka ai te reka. Nō reira, he pai ake kia pārekareka tātou ki ngā wā poto, kaua ki te pārekareka ki tētahi huihuinga kotahi.

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