I mua, kāore kōrua ko tō hoa i wehea, i kata tahi, i moemoeā, i mahara hoki ki ngā maharatanga maha. Heoi, i ēnei rā, te āhua nei kua pakaru te turanga pakari o tō kōrua whanaungatanga. Tērā pea kei roto kōrua i ngā tautohetohe werawera, kei te raru koe i te momotu kare ā-roto, kei te anga atu rānei ki ngā wero e pā ana ki te whanaungatanga piripono me te whakawhirinaki. Ki te pā tēnei āhuatanga ki a koe, kua tae pea te wā ki te whakaaroaro ki te āhua o tō kōrua marena.
Hei āwhina i a koe i tēnei haerenga whakaaroaro, ka whiwhi koe i tētahi kaitohutohu whanaungatanga rongonui Dhriti Bhavsar kua tito i te pātaitai "Me whai tohutohu marena ahau". Nā tana tohu paerua i roto i te hinengaro me ngā tau maha o te wheako ki te āwhina i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te whakatere i ngā uauatanga o ō rātou whanaungatanga, e mārama ana a Dhriti ki ngā āhuatanga rerekē o te marena.
He tukanga te tohutohu marena e taea ai te whakaputa huringa pai mā te āwhina i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te tūhura me te aro atu ki ngā pūtake o ō rātou wero. Ehara i te mea mā ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e tata ana ki te wehe anake te rapu āwhina ngaio; he taputapu matatau, he taputapu whakamana hoki mō te hunga e hiahia ana ki te whakapai ake i tō rātou whanaungatanga. Ka taea e ia te whakatika i ngā take maha, pērā i te pakaru o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, ngā āwangawanga whakawhirinaki, ngā take whanaungatanga, me te whakatere i muri i te kore whakapono. Mā roto i ngā rautaki whaiaro me te mahi tahi, ko te whāinga o te whakaora tāne me ngā wāhine he whakaoho anō i te mura, he hanga anō i te whakawhirinaki, me te whakatū i tētahi turanga pakari ake mō tētahi hononga pumau me te whai hua.
Tangohia tenei pātaitai whakaora mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, kaua e roa ake i te 10-15 meneti o tō wā, ā, kimihia mēnā koinei te huarahi hei whakaora anō i tō hononga ki tō hoa.
Pātaitai e pā ana: He tangata whakahihi taku tāne?
Pātaitai e pā ana: Ka taea te whakaora i taku marena? (pātai pātai)
- He rite tonu te āhua o kōrua ko tō hoa ki tētahi rōpū kotahi ina tae ki te whakaoti rapanga?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- Kei te māharahara koe kei tawhiti koe i tō hoa rangatira?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- Kei te totohe tonu kōrua ahakoa kāore kōrua i hiahia ki te whawhai?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- Kei te kite koe kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakapau i te wā me tō hoa?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- Kua roa kē kōrua ko tō hoa e tautohetohe ana mō ngā take kotahi?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- Kei te rongo koe i te tautoko a tō hoa rangatira ki a koe?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- Kei te whakapae koe i te pono o tō hoa rangatira ki a koe?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- E tautohe ana kōrua tokorua neke atu i te kotahi i te wiki?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- Kei te harikoa koe ki te taatai pērā i tā kōrua e whakapuaki ana ki tō hoa?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- Ka taea e kōrua te whakatau i ō kōrua raruraru i te mutunga?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- Kei te whawhai kōrua nā te rerekētanga taketake o ō kōrua uara?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
- Kei te huna e koe ngā mea ngaro mai i tō hoa rangatira?
- Ko te nuinga o te waa
- He rarerau
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
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Me Wehe Tāua? Pātaitai
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He tangata whakahihi ahau, he tangata pāngia rānei? Pātaitai
Kua moe ahau ki te tangata tika? Pātaitai
He tangata tinihanga taku hoa tāne? Pātaitai
Kua rite ahau ki te taumau? Pātaitai
Kei te whakahaere taku tāne i a ia anō? Pātaitai
Me whakarērea e au taku tāne? Pātaitai
Me Mārena ahau ki a ia? Pātaitai
He tangata emo ana ahau? Pātaitai
Kei te pakaru taku marena? Pātaitai
Kei te tinihanga taku wahine? Pātaitai
Me Whakamutu Ahau i Tāku Hononga? Pātaitai
Me murua e au tana tinihanga? Pātaitai
He tangata pāpori-ā-iwi taku tāne? Pātaitai
Me whakaipoipo ahau i a ia? Pātaitai
He aha te momo tāne e kukume ana i ahau? Pātaitai
Ko au te mea kino i roto i te whanaungatanga? Pātaitai