Ahakoa kei te tata tonu kōrua te tinana, kei te kite koe i tētahi āputa nui i waenganui i a kōrua ko tō hoa? Kei te āhua kore hiahia tō hoa ki te whakapau i te wā kounga? Kei te karohia e rātou te whanaungatanga piripono? Ko te nuinga o ā kōrua kōrero e aro ana ki ngā mahi ā-tinana — ngā mahi, ngā kaupapa mahi, ngā mahi o te whare? Kei te āhua kua pau katoa ngā kaupapa hei matapaki? Mena ko te whakautu […]
"Kāore e taea te akiaki i te aroha, kāore e taea te whakatenatena, te whakatoi rānei i te aroha. Nō te rangi mai, kāore i tonoa, kāore hoki i rapua," te kī a te kaituhi toa Nobel, a Pearl S. Buck. Tērā pea kua tawhito te ariā o te aroha i roto i tēnei kōrero, nā te mea e mōhio ana tātou katoa ahakoa te whanaungatanga tino aroha, me whakapau kaha pono mai i ngā hoa e rua.
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Ko te hononga hysterical e pā ana ki tētahi hononga kare ā-roto, ā-ira rānei e kaha ana, ā, he maha ngā wā ka uaua te hononga i waenganui i ngā hoa, whai muri i tētahi raruraru, i tētahi tinihanga rānei i roto i tō rāua hononga. I roto i tētahi hononga pumau, he mea nui kia panaia te hae hauora mā te whakapuaki i ō kare ā-roto me ō rohe. Ka āwhina i te pupuri i te whakawhirinaki me te whakaute i roto i tō whanaungatanga i a koe e taunekeneke ana me ētahi atu. Heoi,
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He aha te teka mā te kore e whakaurua ngā kōrero matua? He rite te kino o te kore whakauru i ngā kōrero matua mō tētahi mea ki te kōrero teka? Kimihia i roto i tēnei tuhinga.
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He wā tino nui te kitenga i ngā tohu kua mutu te mahi a te tangata whakahihi ki a koe, ā, ka taea e koe te whakahoki mai i tō mana motuhake me te mawhiti atu i ō rātou awe paitini. I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka tūhuratia e mātou ngā tohu tino nui tekau mā tahi, e whakamahi ana i ngā māramatanga mai i te tohunga hinengaro a Nandita Rambhia, hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakatere i tēnei āhuatanga uaua me te tiaki i tō oranga hinengaro.
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Mō ngā āhuatanga kino, ko te whakahawea i roto i te whanaungatanga te mea nui rawa atu. Ki te mea he nui ake āu whanonga, he whakaute rānei i tētahi atu, me aro atu ki ēnei tohu kino. Ko te whakatoi, te tawai, te whakahihi, me te hurihuri kanohi he tohu e hiahia ana kia ora tonu tō whanaungatanga. He pai te whakapau kaha? Pānuihia tonu kia mōhio ai koe…
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He āhuatanga pakihi kei roto i ngā whanaungatanga tauwhitinga, e tohuhia ana e ngā tumanakohanga me ngā utu tauutuutu, me ētahi whakaritenga watea.
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He momo piri motuhake tō ia pakeke e kitea ana i roto i ō rātou whanaungatanga. Ko tēnei momo he hua nō tō rātou tamarikitanga me te āhua o te whakatipu. Ko tētahi o aua momo ko te Āpitihanga Ārai Whakakore. Ko te hunga whai momo piri nei he āhua motuhake ā rātou ina tae mai ki ngā take e pā ana ki te hononga kare ā-roto, te whakapau kaha, me te mana whakahaere. Ka tūhuratia e tēnei tuhinga ngā huarahi hei whakarerekē i tēnei momo piri me te mahi ki ngā whanaungatanga hauora ake.
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He nui ngā pānga kino o ngā whakapae teka ki te whanaungatanga me te hunga hoki e whai pānga ana. Pānuihia kia kitea ai te whakangarotanga o ngā whanaungatanga e ngā whakapae teka, me pēhea hoki te whakahaere i aua mea kia mau tonu ai tō whanaungatanga.
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Ko te whakawhirinakitanga ki te tangata tētahi o ngā āhuatanga tino kino, tino pōrearea hoki o te whanaungatanga ka taea e koe te whakapuaki ki tētahi. Nō reira, he mea pai kia tirohia ēnei tohu o te whanaungatanga whakawhirinakitanga ki te tangata, ka mahi i ngā mahi whakatikatika.
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