Ndisudzule Mwamuna Wanga? Mafunso

"Ndisudzule mwamuna wanga kapena ndikungochita mopambanitsa?" ndi funso lovuta koma lodziwika bwino. Pafupifupi aliyense amene mungamufunse adzakhala ndi maganizo amphamvu pa izi. Ena angakuuzeni kuti kusudzulana sikungatheke, pomwe ena angakulimbikitseni kupeza chithandizo chamankhwala (chomwe muyenera kuchita).

Kupeza chisudzulo ndi chisankho chovuta kwambiri komanso chaumwini chifukwa pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zimaseweredwa monga thandizo la ndalama ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, ana, kusintha kwa moyo, ndi zina zotero. Ngati mulibe chisangalalo m'banja kapena mukumva kuti mulibe chitetezo pakati pa mwamuna wanu, ndizomveka kuti mungakhale mukuganiza za kusudzulana. Komabe, kusudzulana kumabwera ndi zosintha zambiri, choncho tengani nthawi yoganizira ngati mwakonzekera. Ngakhale mafunsowa atha kukuthandizani kudziwa ngati mwakonzeka kusudzulana, kumapeto kwa tsiku, ndi chisankho chanu chokha, kuti musudzule mwamuna wanu kapena ayi.

• Kudzifunsa nthawi zonse ngati muyenera kuchoka palokha ndi chizindikiro chachikulu chomwe muyenera
• Dzifunseni ngati mwadziperekadi kuti muyambitsenso ukwati wanu
• Ngati mukusunga zinsinsi kuti 'muteteze' mwamuna wanu, chikhoza kukhala chizindikiro kuti palibe 
• Ukwati ndi ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku; chizolowezi chilichonse/macheza amafunikira

Pomaliza, ngati yankho la funso la 'Kodi ndithetse mwamuna wanga' latuluka ngati 'Inde', musade nkhawa ndipo funani chithandizo mwamsanga. Kodi mungadziwe bwanji nthawi yachisudzulo? Katswiri wovomerezeka akhoza kukutsogolerani. Akhoza kukupatsani njira zochizira kuti mukonze banja lanu. Akhozanso kulangiza momwe angathanirane ndi mantha ndi manyazi osudzulidwa. 

Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.

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