Mkazi wanga akunyenga? Mafunso

Kufalitsa chikondi

Kukayikitsa kosalekeza. Lemba la usiku kwambiri. Ulendo wantchito womwe umamveka…osiyana. Ngati maganizo a chigololo akuyenda m’maganizo mwanu, simuli nokha. Amuna ambiri amavutika ndi funso lakuti: Kodi Mkazi Wanga Akubera?

Mafunso awa apangidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo komanso mlangizi wa ubale yemwe amagwiritsa ntchito zomwe adakumana nazo, kuti njira iyi ikhale yosavuta momwe angathere. Kudzera mu mafunso 8 osankha mayankho, mudzatha kufufuza zizindikiro ndi machitidwe a khalidwe lachinyengo. Tonsefe timadziwa kuti kukayikirana kumachepa, koma kuzindikira chomwe chimayambitsa vutoli kungakhale kovuta. Kodi ndi nkhawa yeniyeni, kapena mantha omwe amayambitsidwa ndi zomwe zidachitika kale?

Mafunso Ofanana: Kodi Mnzanga Akundinyenga? Mafunso

Iyi si " mayeso osakhulupirika " omwe amapereka yankho lomveka bwino. Ndi sitepe yoyamba yodziwira ngati muyenera kufunafuna thandizo. Kaya kukayikira kwanu sikuli kolondola kapena pali china chake chachikulu chomwe chikuchitika, funso ili lidzakhala gawo loyamba lofunika kwambiri. Gwiritsani ntchito izi kukambirana ndi mkazi wanu za momwe mwamvera. Ngati inu ndi mkazi wanu muli odzipereka kukhala limodzi ndipo muli okonzeka kuchitapo kanthu, mudzamvetsa. Chifukwa chake, kumbukirani kuti chidziwitso ndi mphamvu. Yesani mayesowo ndikupeza kumveka bwino komwe mukufuna.

mafunso

1. Kodi ndi kangati mumaona kusintha kosadziwika bwino kwa khalidwe la mkazi wanu kapena chizolowezi chake?

kawirikawiri
Nthawi zina
Kawirikawiri

2. Kodi mwaonapo kukaikira kapena kukayikitsa kapena mwachinsinsi kulankhulana pakati pa mkazi wanu ndi munthu wina?

Inde, kangapo
Nthawi zina, koma palibe chofunika
Ayi, sichoncho

3. Kodi mukuona ngati mkazi wanu ali kutali ndi inu posachedwapa?

Inde, nthawi zonse
Nthawi zina, koma si nkhawa yaikulu
Ayi, timagwirizanabe m'maganizo

Mafunso Ofanana: Kudzimva ngati akunyenga, palibe umboni Mafunso

4. Kodi pakhala pali kusadziŵika kulikonse kapena kusagwirizana m’ndandanda wa mkazi wanu?

Inde, kawirikawiri
Nthawi zina
Ayi, ndandanda yake imagwirizana

5. Kodi mukuona kusintha kulikonse m’maonekedwe kapena kudzikongoletsa kwa mkazi wanu komwe kumaoneka kwachilendo?

Inde, pakhala kusintha kwakukulu
Nthawi zina, koma akhoza kukhala osagwirizana
Ayi, maonekedwe ake ndi ofanana

6. Kodi mwapezapo zinthu zokayikitsa kapena umboni wosonyeza kusakhulupirika, monga malisiti kapena katundu wosafotokozedwa?

Inde, kangapo
Nthawi zina, koma palibe chomaliza
Ayi, sindinapeze kalikonse kokayikitsa

7. Mumaona ngati mkazi wanu amatchinjiriza kapena amazemba mukamufunsa komwe ali kapena zochita zake?

Inde, nthawi zonse
Nthawi zina, koma osati nthawi zonse
Ayi, iye amamasuka ndi ine moona mtima

8. Kodi mwaona kusintha kwakukulu mu kawonedwe ka mkazi wanu pa nkhani ya chikondi kapena chikondi?

Inde, pakhala kuchepa kwakukulu
Nthawi zina, koma zikhoza kukhala chifukwa cha zifukwa zina
Ayi, milingo yathu yapamtima ndiyokhazikika

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