Mawu 10 Okongola Omwe Amatanthauza Ukwati Wachimwemwe

Ukwati ndi chinthu chimene chimakuphunzitsani za moyo. Zimakuphunzitsani momwe mungagawire moyo wanu ndi munthu yemwe angakhale wosiyana kwambiri ndi inu, momwe mungasangalalire muubwenzi, momwe mungachitire limodzi maudindo, kukonzekera ndalama ndi ana. M'banja ngati muli ndi munthu woyenera, ndi ulendo wodabwitsa njira yonse. Ubale wamphamvu wamalingaliro ndi thupi ndi mkhalidwe waukwati wabwino ndipo nthabwala ndi kuleza mtima ndizo maziko a banja lopambana. Mawu a m'maukwatiwa akufotokoza bwino kwambiri zenizeni ndi nzeru za banja losangalala

Banja lacimwemwe limakumana ndi mavuto, koma mavuto amalimbitsa cikwati. Alakatuli, ojambula ndi oganiza amatanthauzira bwino maubwenzi okhalitsa ngati ukwati.

Tikukubweretserani mawu 10 okoma kwambiri aukwati omwe amafotokozera zabwino kwambiri m'banja 

1. Pakhale danga

"Lolani kuti pakhale mipata mu mgwirizano wanu. Ndipo mphepo zakumwamba zivine pakati panu. Kondanani wina ndi mzake, koma musamangire chikondi: koma ikhale nyanja yoyenda pakati pa magombe a moyo wanu. Dzadzani chikho cha wina ndi mzake, koma osati chikho chimodzi. Patsani wina ndi mzake mkate wanu, koma musadye mkate womwewo. Imbani ndi kuvina pamodzi ndi kusangalala, koma aliyense wa inu akhale yekha. Ngakhale zingwe za lute zili zokha ngakhale zimanjenjemera ndi nyimbo zomwezo. Perekani mitima yanu, koma osati kusungana wina ndi mzake. Pakuti dzanja lokha la Moyo lingathe kukhala ndi mitima yanu. + Imani pamodzi, koma osati pafupi kwambiri: + pakuti mizati ya kachisi yaima paokha, ndipo mtengo wa thundu ndi mkungudza sizimera mumthunzi wa wina ndi mnzake.
- Khalil Gibran, Mtumiki

2. Kuphatikizidwa kwa moyo wonse

"Chinthu chachikulu ndi chiyani chomwe chilipo kwa miyoyo iwiri yaumunthu, kuposa kumva kuti iwo akugwirizana ndi moyo - kulimbikitsana wina ndi mzake mu ntchito zonse, kupumula wina ndi mzake m'chisoni chonse, kutumikirana wina ndi mzake m'makumbukiro osaneneka panthawi yomaliza?"
- George Eliot

3. Ukwati uli mu mtima

“Mchitidwe weniweni waukwati umachitika mu mtima, osati m’bwalo la mpira kapena ku tchalitchi kapena sunagoge, ndi kusankha komwe mumapanga – osati pa inu nokha. tsiku laukwati, koma mobwerezabwereza—ndipo chosankha chimenecho chimaonekera m’njira imene mumachitira ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu.”
- Barbara de Angelis

4. Inu mudzakhala mboni

“Tikufuna umboni wa moyo wathu, pali anthu mabiliyoni ambiri padziko lapansi…

Zinthu zabwino, zoyipa, zoyipa, zinthu zatsiku… zonsezo, nthawi zonse, tsiku lililonse.

Mukunena kuti, 'Moyo wanu sudzadziwika chifukwa ndikuwona. Moyo wako sudzakhala wopanda umboni chifukwa ine ndidzakhala mboni yako.’”
- Kodi Tivine? Kanema

5. Mlendo wopanda inu

“Ngati zina zonse zitawonongeka, ndipo iye anakhalabe, ine ndikadapitirizabe kukhalapo; ndipo ngati zina zonse zikatsalira, ndipo iye akanathetsedwa, chilengedwe chonse chidzasanduka mlendo wamphamvu.”
- Emily Bronte, Wuthering Heights

6. Ndi chozizwa

"Kuti muwonekere bwino ndi wina, ndikukondedwa mulimonse - iyi ndi chopereka chamunthu chomwe chingathe kupitilira mozizwitsa."
- Elizabeth Gilbert, Kudzipereka: Wokayika Amapanga Mtendere ndi Ukwati

7. Ukakhala wokongola osati wotentha

“Ukapeza munthu amene amakutcha kuti wokongola m’malo motentha, amene amakubwezerani pomupachika, amene adzaimirira pamaso pako pamene ena akuponya miyala, kapena adzakhala maso kuti akuoneni mukugona, amene akufuna kukuwonetsani dziko pamene muli ndi thukuta, amene adzakugwirani dzanja mukamadwala, amene amadziona kuti ndinu wokongola popanda zodzoladzola, amene amatembenukira kwa abwenzi ake chifukwa amalankhula ndi anzake. kukutayani kumatanthauza kutaya chifuno chake chokhala ndi moyo, amene akupsopsonani mukamasokoneza, mumayang'ana nyenyezi ndikukutchulirani imodzi ndipo amamugwira ndikugwedeza mwanayo kwa maola ambiri kuti mugone. Umukwatirenso.”
― Shannon Alder, mafunso 300 Amuna a LDS Ayenera Kufunsa Ukwati Wamphamvu

 8. Kuona mtima ndi chizindikiro cha ukwati wokhalitsa

“Chothetsera mavuto ambiri a m’banja si chisudzulo, koma ndi kulapa ndi kukhululuka, m’mawu achifundo achikondi ndi utumiki.

Sili mu kulekana. Ndi mu umphumphu wamba umene umatsogolera mwamuna ndi mkazi kukweza mapewa awo ndi kukwaniritsa udindo wawo.

Limapezeka m’Lamulo la Chikhalidwe, lomwe ndi mfundo yachikale imene iyenera kuonekera kwambiri m’banja.”

― Gordon B. Hinckley, Kuyimira Chinachake: Makhalidwe 10 Onyalanyazidwa Amene Adzachiritsa Mitima Yathu ndi Nyumba Zathu

 9. Musamadzudzule kapena kuweruza

“M’dziko lapansi, khalani pamodzi m’kukhululukidwa kwa machimo anu, pakuti popanda icho palibe chiyanjano cha munthu, ngakhale banja lonse, lingathe kukhala ndi moyo. khululukirani wina ndi mzake tsiku lililonse kuchokera pansi pamtima. ”…
― Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Makalata ndi Mapepala ochokera kundende

10. Zolakwa zimakuphunzitsani kuleza mtima

“Kuleza mtima kumapereka chilolezo kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wako kukhala munthu. Kumamvetsetsa kuti aliyense amalephera. Pamene cholakwa chachitika, chimasankha kuwapatsa nthaŵi yokwanira yoti akonze. Kumakupatsa mphamvu yopirira panthaŵi zovuta m’chibwenzi chanu m’malo molimbana ndi vutolo chifukwa cha chitsenderezo.”
― Stephen Kendrick, The Love Dare

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