(Monga adauza Joie Bose)
Ndizolakwika kwambiri! Ndi uchimo. Koma ndi zokongola. Mukudziwa, ndili ndi zongopeka. Ndi kukhala mbeta kachiwiri. Ndizoipa, popeza ndili ndi banja losangalala. Ndili ndi atsikana atatu okongola omwe ali pafupi kugunda achinyamata awo. Ndili ndi mwamuna wamkulu yemwe mutu wake woyera Richard Gere ngati tsitsi loyera limamupangitsa kukhala wofunika kwambiri kwa ambiri. Komabe, ndimadziimba mlandu, chifukwa ngakhale kuti ndinali ndi kekeyo, inenso ndikufuna kuidya. Ndimadziimba mlandu, chifukwa ndili ndi zaka za m'ma 40 ndipo ndikudabwa, sichoncho? Kodi ndi bwino kulota kukhalanso wosakwatiwa?
Zosangalatsa zokhala wachichepere komanso wosakwatiwa
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Ndimayendetsa cafe ndipo ndiyotchuka kwambiri. Timadziwika chifukwa cha makeke athu oundana komanso chokoleti chotentha. Makumi asanu ndi anayi mwa anthu 100 aliwonse omwe amakasitomala anga ndi osakwatiwa. Ndimawawona atakhala ndi kulira, ndikungolankhula. Amayenda ndi fungo laufulu. M’menemo ndimaona mbalame. Mwa iwo ndimapeza kuthekera koyembekezera. Ndimasilira iwo. Samadetsa nkhawa ndi mayeso a ana awo akusukulu, sadera nkhawa za mabilu ndipo sadera nkhawa za ndalama. Ngati akanatero, akanaganiza kaŵirikaŵiri asanatiodere makeke athu ndi ma Rs 100 chidutswa chilichonse.
Zosangalatsa zopanda vuto?
Mtsikana amalowa ndi chibwenzi chake ndikuyitanitsa makeke owoneka ngati mtima. Nthawi zambiri okwatirana amachita zimenezo. Ndiye pamene wina apita kukatulutsa madzi, wina amayang'ana pozungulira. Ndawaona akumwetulira kapenanso nthawi zina akupatsana manambala a foni ndi munthu wina amene wakhala pano. Ndiye pamene mnzawoyo abwerako, amanamizira ngati palibe chimene chachitika. Zonse ndi zopanda vuto. Mwina amapita kukatumiza uthenga kwa winayo. Mwina amaganiza za winayo usiku. Sindikudziwa.
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Panali mnyamata uyu
Ine kamodzi ndinalowa mu malo ogulitsa mabuku ndipo ndinali kuyenda pansi mu kanjira, pamene ine ndinakumana ndi mnyamata. Anali wamng'ono kwa ine. Anandiyang'ana ndikumwetulira. Mwina ankaganiza kuti ndine wosakwatiwa. Ndinamwetuliranso, kudzinamiza kukhala wosakwatiwa. Ndiye sindikudziwa chomwe chinandichitikira, koma ndinatuluka mwamsanga. Ndinadziimba mlandu kwambiri. Koma nkhope ya mnyamatayo inakhalabe m’mutu mwanga. Ndikudabwa kuti dzina lake linali ndani. Kodi anali wokwatira?
“Nthawi zina, zimakhala bwino kuganiza mmene moyo ukanakhalira ndikanakhalanso wosakwatiwa.”
Kungoganiza zokhala single
Kukakhala usiku ndipo magetsi azimitsidwa, ndimakhala ngati ndine wosakwatiwa. Mwamuna wanga atandikumbatira mwakachetechete ndimamufunsa kuti, “Ndiwe yani?”
Nthawi zina amandiuza dzina lina mwamasewera. Ndimanong'oneza dzina lina. Timanamizira kuti ndife osakwatiwa.
Ndakhala m'banja kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo ndikuyiwala kusakwatiwa, koma ndikhulupirireni, mwamuna kapena mkazi aliyense wokwatiwa, panthawi ina m'moyo wake, malingaliro za kukhala mbeta.
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Ibibazo
1. Kodi n’kwachibadwa kuganiza zokhala mbeta uli m’banja?
Inde, n’kwachibadwa kukhala ndi maloto a apo ndi apo ponena za moyo wosiyana.
“Emily, mkazi wokwatiwa, ali ndi chibwenzi chongoyerekezera m’maganizo mwake.
2. Kodi kulota uli maso uli maso n'kovulaza?
Malingana ngati sizikusokoneza ubale wanu kapena kukukhumudwitsani, kulota zakukhala osakwatiwa kungakhale kopanda vuto.
3. Kodi ndingapewe bwanji maganizo amenewa kusokoneza ukwati wanga?
- Lankhulani momasuka ndi wokondedwa wanu za malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu.
- Khazikitsani malire ndikuchepetsa kulota kwanu muli ndi thanzi labwino.
- Ganizirani zabwino za ubale wanu.
Maganizo Final
Kulingalira za kukhala mbeta uli m’banja n’kofala. Malingana ngati zongopekazi zimayang'aniridwa ndipo sizikusokoneza ubale wanu, zitha kukhala njira yopanda vuto yofufuza zinthu zosiyanasiyana za inu nokha.
Ngati mukulimbana ndi maganizo amenewa kapena mukuona ngati akusokoneza banja lanu, ganizirani kupeza thandizo la akatswiri. Katswiri wathu akhoza kupereka malangizo ndi kuthandizira pakuwongolera malingaliro awa ndikusunga ubale wabwino.
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Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Wolemba uyu joie Bose ndiwoyipa kwambiri akupeka nthano zambiri zabodza kuti alimbikitse chiwerewere, mutha kuwona munkhani zake zomwe adapeka, apa m'nkhaniyi chifukwa chomwe wina akufuna kukhalanso wosakwatiwa kuti achitenso ubale wina ngakhale atakhala osangalala, akufuna zambiri ngakhale zimatengera ndalama zina.