Mosiyana ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amaponderezedwa, omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza zakugonana kapena anthu olumala pamasewera kapena kugonana, koma ndi anthu wamba omwe sakopeka kwenikweni ndi anthu ena. Iwo alinso mbali ya kugonana sipekitiramu, ngakhale izo zimachitika kuti osayankhulidwa pang'ono. Komabe, izi siziwapatula kuti asamvetsetsedwe komanso kukhala chete pankhaniyi sikuthandiza kusokoneza zomwe dziko limawakhulupirira. Nazi zina mwa nthano zofala zowazungulira:
Kodi Asexality N'chiyani?
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Kugonana ndi chilakolako cha kugonana komwe munthu amakhala nako pang'ono kapena osakopeka ndi ena. Anthu osagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha angakhalebe ndi ubale wachikondi kapena wamaganizo, koma samakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana monga momwe ena angachitire. Ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti kusakhala ndi chilakolako cha kugonana kulipo pamlingo winawake, ndipo anthu ena osagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatha kugonana pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, monga kulumikizana ndi malingaliro kapena kukhutiritsa wokondedwa wawo, ngakhale atakhala kuti sakukonda kugonana okha.
- Anthu Asexual Atha Kukhala Ndi Ubale Wokwaniritsa: Anthu ambiri omwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala ndi maubwenzi achikondi, apamtima, komanso osangalatsa popanda kukopeka ndi kugonana.
- Kudzutsidwa Kwathupi vs. Kukopa Kugonana: Anthu ena osagonana ndi amuna amatha kukhala ndi chilakolako chakuthupi koma osachiphatikiza ndi kukopa ena.
- Anthu Achiwerewere Atha Kuyamikirabe Ubwenzi: Ubwenzi mu maubwenzi ukhoza kukhala wofunikira kwa anthu osagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, omwe nthawi zambiri amawonetsedwa kudzera m'malingaliro, kuyanjana, kapena chikondi chosagonana.
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Si kanthu koma kusankha!
Kwa nthawi yachisanu, Asexuality (ASE) SI chisankho. Monga momwe kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikuli chisankho, kusagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chinthu chomwe munthu amabadwa nacho kapena kumva mkati mwake ngati gawo lofunika kwambiri la iwo eni.
Sizingasankhidwe kapena kusinthidwa.
“Kukhala wosagonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi sikutanthauza kusweka—ndi njira ina yopezera moyo ndi chikondi.”
Sadziwa chilichonse chokhudza chikondi. Sangathe kuchita zimenezo
Ndiponso cholakwika! Ali ndi mphamvu zambiri. Pali anthu ambiri osagonana omwe angasangalale ndi kugonana kapena kugonana. Kupatulapo pamenepo, chilichonse chokhudza miyoyo yawo ndi chachibadwa monga cha wina aliyense. Chikondi ndi gawo lalikulu la moyo wopanda kugonana. Ndi gawo lokhalo la kugonana lomwe sadzipereka.
Ndiye kodi ndi kusakwatira?
Gawo lofunika kwambiri la kukhala wosakwatira ndi kudziletsa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti pali chinthu 'chosankha' chomwe chimakhudzidwa. Anthu osakwatira nawonso ndi mtundu wa anthu omwe ali ndi kuthekera kogonana, kapena mwina akumva ngati akufuna kugonana. Koma chifukwa cha zifukwa zachipembedzo, kapena kunena zofuna zina zamaganizo, angasankhe kusachita. Koma ndi anthu osagonana, sizili choncho. Samva ngati akufuna kugonana. Ndizo zonse.
Ena amati, ndiwo mantha ambiri a Milandu ya Closet
Chabwino, akadakhalabe m'chipindacho, sakadatuluka ngati 'asexuals'. Sachita mantha kuvomereza malingaliro awo ngati asexuals. Monga ngati ma gay, ma lesbians, bisexuals, transgenders alipo, azigonana nawonso ndi enieni. Palibe malingaliro achiwiri pa izi.
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Ndiye, angakhale mikhole ya kugwiriridwa?
Ena amaganiza kuti anthu okonda kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha angakhale ozunzidwa chifukwa chogwiriridwa, chifukwa amaganiza kuti amadana ndi kugonana kapena amadana nako konse. Koma sizili choncho. Anthu okonda kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sadana ndi kugonana, kapena mwanjira ina iliyonse amanyansidwa nako, koma safuna kuchita zimenezo, chifukwa sangamve choncho. Ngakhale aliyense angakhale wozunzidwa chifukwa chogwiriridwa , kuganiza kuti anthu okonda kugonana ndi osakonda kugonana chifukwa chogwiriridwa ndi kugonana ndi lingaliro lolakwika.
Ndi gawo lomwe lidzachoka, kapena likhoza kukonzedwa
Makolo a anthu otere, monga makolo a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, akazi okhaokha komanso anthu osintha chikhalidwe cha anthu, angakonde kuganiza kuti mwina ndi nthawi yopita. Pakhoza kukhala chifukwa china chomwe chimapangitsa kuti kusafuna kugonana kukhalepo - mwakuthupi kapena m'maganizo. Ngati sikutha, ndiye kuti kungathetsedwe ngati matenda ena aliwonse kwa dokotala. Koma mwatsoka sichoncho chomwe kusagonana kwenikweni kuli. Ndi khalidwe losatha la munthu komanso chilakolako chake chogonana.
Sizizimiririka kapena kusintha. Pakuti palibe chimene chingafooke kapena kusintha.
Zimakhala momwe zilili, ndipo sizifuna kukonza!
Chinachake chimayambitsa izo
Ngakhale anthu ku dipatimenti ya zaumoyo angayese kufotokoza kuti kugonana kungayambitsidwe ndi chinthu china. Sangathe kuzitenga poyang'ana, kuti zikhalepo ngati gawo lachilengedwe la kugonana. Koma nthawi yakwana yoti akatswiri azilemekeza zisankho zotere ndipo asafufuzenso zakusintha anthuwa kukhala anthu achidwi. Palibe koma kuphwanya kotheratu zosankha za moyo wawo.
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Pamapeto pake ndi za "Sangagonane"
Monga anthu ena onse, ma maliseche nawonso ali ndi ziwalo zogwira ntchito mokwanira. Physiology ndi anatomy awo sali bwino. Chifukwa chake amatha kupeza orgasm ndipo amatha kukhala okondana pakama. Chilichonse chili mwadongosolo kwa iwo ndipo amatha kugonana bwino kwambiri. Ndipotu ena amayesa. Ndikoyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti kukhala osagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndiko kusowa kwa chidwi chogonana ndipo sikukhudzana ndi kuthekera kwawo pakugonana.
Nawa maulalo ndi zothandizira za LGBTQ+ anthu aku India:
1. Sahodari Foundation
- Ganizirani izi: Imathandiza anthu transgender omwe ali ndi thanzi lamaganizidwe, chithandizo chazamalamulo, komanso chithandizo chamalingaliro.
- Website: sahodari.org
2. Nazariya: A Queer Feminist Resource Group
- Ganizirani izi: Amapereka chithandizo ndi upangiri kwa LGBTQ+ pawokha, makamaka kwa amayi omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi anthu omwe ali ndi kachilomboka.
- Email: [imelo ndiotetezedwa]
- Website: nazariyaqfrg.org
3. Queer Helpline India
- Ganizirani izi: Amapereka chithandizo chamankhwala amisala kwa anthu a LGBTQ+ kudzera mwa anthu odzipereka ophunzitsidwa uphungu.
- Phone: + 91 8100990000
- Email: [imelo ndiotetezedwa]
4. Humsafar Trust
- Ganizirani izi: Amapereka chithandizo cha LGBTQ+, kuphatikizapo thanzi la maganizo, chidziwitso cha zaumoyo, ndi chithandizo chazamalamulo.
- Phone: + 91 22 26673800 / + 91 22 26650547
- Website: humsafar.org
5. Sangat
- Ganizirani izi: Amapereka chithandizo chaumoyo wamaganizidwe ndi mapulogalamu apadera a LGBTQ+ ndi ntchito.
- Phone: +91 832 2459227 / +91 9420684319
- Website: sangath.in
Ibibazo
1. Kodi anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala ndi maubwenzi?
Inde, anthu ambiri osagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali mu maubwenzi osangalala, okhutiritsa. Kugonana sikulepheretsa munthu kukhala ndi zibwenzi, ndipo anthu ena osagonana ndi amuna amafunafuna ubwezi kudzera m'mabwenzi achikondi kapena mabwenzi.
"Ravi anali atatopa kumva kuti kugonana ndi "gawo chabe." Pamene adatsegula kwa abwenzi ake, nthawi zambiri ankamuuza kuti "adzasintha maganizo ake" pamene Ravi adalowa m'gulu la anthu osagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, adaphunzira kuti kugonana sikunali "koyenera" ndipo anayamba kuvomereza kuti iye ndi ndani, atazunguliridwa ndi ena omwe amagawana nawo zomwe anakumana nazo.
2. Kodi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha angathe kugonana?
Inde, anthu ena osagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amachita zogonana, mwina pofuna kukhutiritsa mnzawo kapena pazifukwa zina. Komabe, nthawi zambiri sakopeka ndi kugonana. Asexuality ndi kusowa kwa chilakolako chogonana, osati kudziletsa kugonana.
3. Kodi kugonana ndi gawo kapena kusankha?
Ayi, kugonana ndi kugonana kovomerezeka komanso kovomerezeka, osati gawo kapena chinachake chimene munthu amasankha. Anthu ambiri osagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amamva chonchi m'miyoyo yawo yonse, monga momwe zikhumbo zina zogonana zimakhalira moyo wawo wonse.
Maganizo Final
Asexuality ndi imodzi mwazinthu zovomerezeka komanso zosiyanasiyana zogonana zomwe zimapanga zochitika zambiri zamunthu. Tsoka ilo, nthano ndi malingaliro olakwika okhudzana ndi kugonana akupitilira, zomwe zimadzetsa kusamvana ndi kusalidwa. Ndikofunikira kuzindikira kuti anthu osagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatha kukhala ndi maubwenzi osangalatsa, okondana popanda kukopeka ndi kugonana kukhala chinthu. Ayenera kulemekezedwa ndi kuvomerezedwa mofanana ndi wina aliyense.
Mwa kutsutsa malingaliro olakwika ndi kuphunzitsa ena za kugonana kosagonana, titha kulimbikitsa kumvetsetsa kophatikiza mitundu yonse ya malingaliro ogonana ndi achikondi. Kaya muubwenzi kapena maubwenzi achikondi, chofunika kwambiri ndi kulumikizana kwamalingaliro, ulemu, ndi kumvetsetsana. Alangizi athu ali pano kuti akuthandizeni kufufuza umunthu wanu, kumvetsetsa maubwenzi anu, ndikugonjetsa zovuta za anthu. Kaya mukufuna kumveka bwino, chithandizo, kapena munthu woti mulankhule naye, funsani lero kuti akupatseni malangizo achifundo komanso kumvetsetsa.
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