Indlela Yokuncwasa Nabafana Ngaphezulu Kwesicatshulwa? Iingcebiso ezili-17 kunye nemizekelo engama-51 yokuyilungisa

Ngaba uyazi ukuba njani iofisi Umdlali uJohn Krasinski wabuza u-Emily Blunt ngaphandle? Wamxhawula waya ngqo kuye, “I like you”. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, batshatile yaye banabantwana ababini. Ngokomntu, ukwenza inyathelo lokuqala akuzange kube lula kum. Ndizimela emva kwesikrini kwaye ndilindele ukuba athumele iitekisi ezihlekisayo. Ngaba uyanxulumana? Lixesha lokuba ujike iitafile ngokufunda indlela yokuncwasa abafana ngaphezulu kwesicatshulwa. Sikunye kule nto – mna nawe. Masiqalise esi sifundo kwaye sibe sisaziso sakhe asithandayo.

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Ngaba uyoyika ukubuza umnqweno wakho kumntu? Ungakhathazeki, nkqu uphando uthi imiyalezo yothando kuye inokuba luncedo kuwe ngezi ndlela zilandelayo:

• Unexesha lokuyiqwalasela ngenyameko into ofuna ukuyithetha
• Umonakalo omncinci kukuzithemba kwakho xa uthe waliwa 

Ke, incoko yombhalo yindlela ekhuselekileyo. Kodwa i-banter yombhalo kunye nomfo wakho wephupha ayikho lula, akunjalo? Ingaba umntu uvakala njani eswiti ngaphandle kokuvakala ngathi ukrwada? Bukela kwaye ufunde. Nazi iindlela ezilungileyo zokudlala ngothando kwisicatshulwa:  

1. Funda igumbi lokuncokola

Udlala njani ngeTinder okanye nakwiiDMs? Thatha amanyathelo akhe phambi kokuba ningene nonke. Ngaba ukuthumelela ii-emojis ezininzi? Okanye uhleka izinto ozithethayo? Ukuba unomdla wokuthetha nawe kwaye uphendula kamnandi ngokwaneleyo, yiphathe njengophawu lwakho lokuhamba. Zama izicatshulwa ezifihlakeleyo ze-flirty kwaye uhlalutye iimpendulo zakhe. Yigcine imfutshane. Ungazama ukuthumela:

• "Iti, ikofu, okanye iwhisky kusasa?"
• Ungandithumelela umyalezo okanye undicele ukuba siye kutya.
• "Ndiyoyikeka kwintetho encinci, kodwa ndenza uluhlu lokudlala olubulalayo"

2. Qala ngokucotha 

Qala ngento elula nemfutshane, “Awu, uyahlekisa kakhulu!” okanye "Enkosi, cutie" ekuqaleni. Ezi zibalulekile iingcebiso zokuncwasa kwabaqalayo. 'Yabona, akukho nzululwazi ye-rocket, akunjalo? Ukuba uphendula kakuhle kwezi, uyazi ukuba ungantywila emanzini anzulu kwaye wenze umdlalo wakho wokudlala ngothando uqhubeke! Ukuqala kancinane, nantsi imibhalo emsulwa yakhe:

• "Ke, ingaba usuku lwakho olufanelekileyo lujongeka njani?"
• “Heyi, umhle. Ucebisa ukuba ndenze ntoni ukuze ndonwabe kule mpelaveki?”
• "Ulale kakuhle sithandwa. Thetha nawe ngomso"

3. Libize kakhulu igama lakhe 

Ngaba ujonge iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokumqhula? Bizani igama lakhe! Uyayazi le nto iyasebenza kuba uyintombazana, nawe uyawa. Yinto encinci/elula kodwa ukuba yenziwe ngokuchanekileyo, inokuba lujiko olukhawulezileyo. Ewe, ungayithethi ngokoqobo yonke imiyalezo oyithumelayo. Nazi ezinye izinto onokuzithetha ukwenza umfana abe neentloni:

• “Owu Nick, kufuneka uyiyeke!”
• “Jeff, uyayithanda ifashoni”
• “Marcus, usoloko undigxeka!”

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4. Pepper incoko kunye nokuncoma 

Ukuncoma indoda kwisicatshulwa ngokwenene akukho biggie. Nyaniseka nje. Kodwa njengoko a Reddit umsebenzisi ucetyisiwe, "Musa ukubancoma ngalo lonke ixesha, akukho mntu uthanda umntu oncamisayo ngolo hlobo. Yenze ngamaxesha ngamaxesha xa kufuneka oko, kwaye uthantamise xa usenza." Nazi izinto abafana abathanda ukuziva kwimiyalezo ebhaliweyo:

• “La shirt ikhangeleka ishushu kakhulu kuwe”
• "Omg! Ndiyazithanda iinwele zakho ezintsha"
• "Zithande ezo Air Jordans"

5. Mxelele ukuba ubucinga ngaye

Njani ukwenza umfana flustered? Ukuba anithethanga ixesha elide, mthumelele umyalezo ngemiyalezo emini, “Andikwazi ukuyeka ukucinga ngawe”. Le yenye ye iimpawu ezicacileyo zokuncwasa. Nazi ezinye izinto onokuzibhalela isithandwa sakho:

• “Yintoni enkulu ozisola ngayo?
• "Izicwangciso zesidlo sasemini ziyonwabile! Ndiyathanda ukuhlala ngaphaya kwakho. Siyenza nini kwakhona?"
• “Uyayibona indlela endikujonga ngayo, lunini usuku olulandelayo?”

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6. Thumela ii-GIFs ezintle 

Indlela yokuncwasa nomfana kumgama omde wombhalo? Mthumelele i-ayisikrimu ye-GIF ethi, 'Ndikhothe'. A Reddit Umsebenzisi ubhale, "Ndifunde i-emojis kwaye ngoku ii-gifs ziyanceda ngokwenene. Ziyonwabisa kwaye ziyabhanxa kwaye zifumana amanqaku ngaphandle kokubonakala ngathi ziyahamba." Ke, thumela ii-GIFs ezinemiyalezo emnandi efana nale:

• “Oku kundikhumbuze ngokupheleleyo ngawe!”
• “Jonga indlela ethandeka ngayo le nja.
• “Asiyonto ihlekisayo na le?

7. Indlela yokuncwasa abafana kwisicatshulwa: Mhlekise kancinci 

ukwazi indlela echuliweyo yokuncwasa nomfana kubalulekile kodwa kubalulekile ngokulinganayo ukutsala umva ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Mbonise into ayiphosayo kwaye akanakukufumana ngokulula njengoko ebengathanda. Nantsi indlela onokuthi udlale ngayo ngetekisi ngaphandle kokuza ngamandla kakhulu:

• “Owu hayi, kuza kufuneka usebenze kancinci kunoko ukuze undikhuphe”
• “Ngaloo mini ndandicinga ukuba ndingamane ndikuncamise kancinci, mhlawumbi ngenye imini xa kufanelekile”
• “Ukuba uqhubeka undiphatha kakuhle ngolu hlobo, ndingafuna nje ukukukhupha”

8. Musa ukuphindaphinda 

Imiyalezo emnandi yothando iyasebenza kodwa hayi ukuba isetyenziswe kakhulu. Amabinzana afanayo / isimbo esiphindaphindayo sokuthetha sinokucima wonke umtsalane wokuqala oncede ukuba ubambe inkanuko yakhe. Ufuna ukuba namandla kwaye unomdla ukwenza umfana akuthande ngokwenene. Kwakhona, akukho mfuneko yokuba uphose i-punchline rhoqo ngeyure. Oko kunokukhangeleka ngathi uphelelwe lithemba. Yigcine ilula kwaye ugxininise kwiindawo ezingeyo-flirty zencoko nge ukumazi ngcono. Ukuba ujonge imibhalo ekrelekrele onokuthi uyithumele kumfo, zama:

• “Uncumo lwakho lubonakala lulungile kuwe, akumangalisi ukuba ndincume xa ndilubona”
• "Ingaba wenze into ekhethekileyo namhlanje okanye uhlala umhle ngolu hlobo?"
• Akumangalisi ukuba unaso sonke eso sihlunu”

9. Yigcine ikumgangatho ophezulu 

Abaninzi kakhulu imibhalo emdaka bangqongqo hayi-hayi. Ukuthumela amagama ahendayo ukuba amvule kulungile. Kodwa ukugqithela phezulu ngeentetho zesini akukho mntu uliphupha lokukhunga. Ikwenza ubonakale njengomntu onengqondo enye. Ngaba uyazibuza ukuba ungadlala njani ngothando nomfana? Zama oku:

• “Ubumhle kakhulu kula ntetho ngenye imini, akumangalisi ukuba ukrelekrele”
• "Ndiyayithanda indlela ozigcina ngayo ucocekile, kufuneka ndikuxabise ukuzikhathalela"
• “Kudala ndirhalela ukuya kule ndawo yokutyela edolophini, undikhuphe ngenye imini?”

10. Thetha naye ngeemeko

Ngaba uyazibuza ukuba ungadlala njani nomfana kumgama omde wombhalo? “Ndicinga ukuba singakonwabela ukutyibiliza emkhenkceni” okanye “Kufuneka uzame la bhega kunye nam!” zezinye iindlela zokumenza ancume ngosuku olunoxinzelelo. Ngale ndlela, uya kwazi ukuba ngokwenene unomdla wokuchitha ixesha. Ukuba ubhideke kakhulu malunga nezinto ezigudileyo onokuzithetha kumfana, zama:

• "Ukuba sikhe saya kwi-bowling, ungandifundisa indlela yokungabi mbi kuyo?"
• “Ndiqinisekile ukuba ndingayisebenzisa ngokupheleleyo kwimini yegalufa kunye nawe. Ucinga ntoni?”
• “Ukuba sikhe sahamba kunye, ngubani oza kuba ngowokuqala ukuhamba?”

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11. Uyazibuza ukuba ungadlala njani nabafana kwisicatshulwa? Sebenzisa ezo emojis!

Ukuba ucinga ngokwaneleyo, ngamanye amaxesha i-emoji echanekileyo kwindawo elungileyo inokumenza ancume imini yonke. Ukongeza, i I-emojis esetyenziswa ngabafana angakuxelela okuninzi malunga nento ayicingayo ngawe. Sikwacebisa ukuba utshintshe indlela yesiqhelo kancinci, kwaye endaweni yesiqhelo yokusa okanye imiyalezo elungileyo ebusuku, uze nemiyalezo emnandi emva kwemini, ene-emojis. Yiya phambili kwaye usebenzise into efana nale:

• “Kubanda kakhulu namhlanje! Ndiyazibuza ukuba singenza ntoni ukuze sifudumale ;)”
• "Ndiyathemba ukuba ube nosuku oluhle namhlanje <3"
• "Kwenzeke ntoni, mhle? ;)"

12. Crack iziqhulo 

Ukuba wenza inyathelo lokuqala, qiniseka ukuba umenza ahleke. Kukwakho ezininzi imibuzo funny online ukuthandana ukuba ungazama. Oku akuthethi ukuthumela iimemes imini yonke. Yiza ne-A-Game yakho kwaye umxelele amabali ahlekisayo ngokwakho. Ukuba nonke niphumile kwiziqhulo, sikufumene. Nazi iitekisi ezihlekisayo zokumenza ahleke:

• "Iyakuthatha ntoni ukuze undinxilise?"
• “Zingaphi iikhalaza ezifunekayo ukwenza ingwane?
• “Ufuna ukwazi ukuba mna nebhere sifana ngantoni? Silala ebusika bonke”

13. Sebenzisa ubusuku ngobulumko

Indlela yokukhwela inkwenkwe? Ekubeni ishedyuli yakhe yokulala ifana ne-wack njengeyakho, yisebenzise ukuze uzuze. Ukuthumela imiyalezo yasebusuku kunye nomfo wakho wephupha hits eyahlukileyo. Ukugqibela kwam ukuthumela umyalezo wam, ndiye ndasebenzisa izicatshulwa ezicebisayo ezinje ngo "Ndinqwenela ukuba singalala ngobu busuku" okanye "Ingubo yam ivakala ingenanto ngaphandle kwakho", kwaye isebenze ngokupheleleyo ekufudumeni izinto. Nantsi enye inkuthazo kwi indlela yokugezela abafana nezicatshulwa ezicebisayo:

• Ezi ncoko zasebusuku azifani nomntu ofanelekileyo.
• “Ndiziva ndililolo kakhulu ndindedwa ebhedini yam ngoku. Ndinqwenela ukuba ungayitshintsha loo nto”
• “Ndiyavuya ukuba ndithethe nawe ngaphambi kokuba ndilale, iza kwenza ukuba ingomso ibe yinto ekhethekileyo kakhulu”

14 Hlanganisani imibuliso yenu 

Indlela yokuncwasa abafana kwisicatshulwa? Ithoni ehlekisayo okanye epholileyo "Heyi, kunjani?" akayi kufumana kiss yakho yokuqala. Uya kuphelelwa ngumdla ngolo hlobo. Ukusebenzisa "Hey nkosi" okanye "Heyi izinto ezintle" kunokusebenza ixesha elide. Kwaye akunyanzelekanga ukuba uqhubeke usebenzisa imigca yokuvula i-run-of-the-mill xa zininzi izicatshulwa ezimnandi zokuthumela kwindoda yakho. Endaweni yoko, sebenzisa amabinzana amnandi kuye afana nala:

• “Andikwazi ukuyeka ukujonga umfanekiso wakho weprofayile namhlanje”
• “Ucinga ukuba ndingaodola ntoni ngesidlo sangokuhlwa namhlanje?”
• "Heyi mhle, ukhe uzibuze ukuba wenze ntoni ukuze ube noncumo lombulali?"

15. Slayida kwii-Insta DMs zakhe

Ukutyibilika kwii-DMs - abantu bayayenza ngalo lonke ixesha. Ngesizathu esivakalayo. Iyasebenza ngokwenene! Phendula kumabali akhe kwaye wenze inyathelo lokuqala. Kuya kufuneka uthethe into efanelekileyo kunye nenomtsalane ukwenza isaziso sakho seDM sigqame ngokwenene. Nazi izinto ezithandekayo onokuzithetha kumfana:

• "Ndilambe kakhulu. Kwaye kubonakala kukudelela, ndiza kuthatha iingcebiso zokutya kuwe ngoku"
• “Kudala ndifuna ukuya kulaa ndawo yokutyela! Bekunjani?”
• "Ukhangeleka umhle kakhulu, njengoko uhlala usenza"

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16. Thumela ii-snaps ezimnandi 

Ngaba ungumdlali we-Snapchat? Yenye yeendlela ezintle zokuxelela umntu omthandayo ngetekisi. Ukuyigcina ibonwa kubenza banqwenele ukubamba umzimba. Imiyalezo emnandi kuye ziyonwabisa kabini xa uneziqwengana, izihluzi, kunye nezitikha ezihlekisayo onokusebenza nazo. Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungamncoma njani umfana ngombhalo, zama:

• “Qaphela ukuba andincumanga, ingalungiseka ukuba ubulapha nam”
• “Bendifuna ukubona ubuso bakho obuhle okokugqibela namhlanje, ndithumele ngokukhawuleza!”
• Uyabona ukuba igumbi lam alinamntu, kungenxa yokuba ungekho apha!

17. Qonda indlela yokuziphatha yokuthumela imiyalezo 

Ukuthumela imiyalezo kabini iwela phantsi kwale ambrela. Kuya kufuneka uthathe iingcebiso kwaye wazi ukuba kufuneka utyalomali kangakanani kwincoko. Musa ukuvumela incoko ukuba iphele kodwa yazi ixesha lokuchaza iimpendulo zakho. Yiba nesibindi kwaye ube nesibindi, kodwa ungabambeleli. Ukuba umfunela imiyalezo ekhohlakeleyo, nantsi into onokuthi uyizame:

• "Iseva yekhompyuter yam ayibi phantsi, kodwa ndiyayenza"
• "Ingaba ezi bhulukhwe yasemajukujukwini? Kuba laaesile alikho kulomhlaba"
• “Masiyitsibe le ntetho incinci siqale sidlale ngothando”

Indlela yokuncwasa abafana phezu kwesicatshulwa kunokuba mnandi ngakumbi kunokoyikisa, ngakumbi ukuba utyala amandla akho kunye nomgudu kumntu ofanelekileyo. Khumbula, ezinye zeetekisi ezilungileyo kakhulu ze-sassy flirty ayizizo ozicwangcisayo, kodwa ezo uziva.

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