Uthando alusoloko lumalunga nokubuyelana. Uthando olucala-nye okanye uthando olungaguqukiyo luyinyani abantu abaninzi abahlangabezana nayo okanye abantu abaninzi baye baphila ubomi babo bonke. Njengoko besitsho, kubuhlungu xa unomntu entliziyweni yakho kodwa awukwazi ukuba naye ezingalweni zakho.
Xa uwela emntwini kwaye loo mntu akaziva njalo ngawe, oko kukuqhekeza intliziyo kodwa uhlala umthanda loo mntu ngamaqhekeza entliziyo yakho. Oko kubuhlungu. Iintlungu zothando ezicalanye, zingakumosha kodwa yinto ehlala iyinto yakho.
Uzama ukufumana indlela yokufumana uthando lwakho lokuqala. Injongo ebalaseleyo. Kodwa ngoku, yonke into ikukhumbuza ngabo. Laa venkile yekofu? “Indawo” yakho. Loo ngoma? Ingoma yakho. Nokuba umntu wasemzini random enxibe icologne yabo? Ukonakaliswa ngokweemvakalelo. Uya kwazi ukuba usabambekile xa uzifumana ufunda izicatshulwa ezindala ngokungathi ziyimbali […]
Xa imiqondiso akazange akukhathalele xa ekujonga ebusweni, awunokwazi ukuzibamba malunga nokuba uyabhanxa kangangokuba uphathwe ngokweemvakalelo yindoda obuyithanda ngentliziyo yakho yonke. Ndiyazi njani le nto? Ndikhona, kalusizi. Oko kubonakala ngathi kubomi obudlulileyo, ndabanjwa
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“Andikwazi ukuyeka ukucinga ngawe” yindlela eqhelekileyo yokwala xa usaqala ukuthandana, xa uphenjelelwa ziimvakalelo ezibuhlungu. Njengoko izinto ziqhubela phambili, ukungxama kokuthatheka kuyehla kwaye kuguqukele ekubeni yimvakalelo ezinzile yothando, kwaye awusoloko utyiwa ziingcinga zomntu obethwayo.
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Ukwaliwa yenye yamava angenakuphepheka ebomini, ngakumbi xa kufikwa kwizilangazelelo zothando. Nokuba luhlaba lokuphoswa lithuba nomntu okhethekileyo okanye intlungu elandela isivumo esingaphumelelanga, ukogqitha ukwaliwa kunokuba nzima kakhulu. Kodwa ukuqonda indlela yokujongana nokugatywa kwi-crush kunokukunceda kuphela
“Heyi, ndiyaqala ukubonakalisa uthando lwam namhlanje,” ndafumana umyalezo ovela kumhlobo wam, uAmber, kunyaka ophelileyo. Ukuba ebengathethi ngokubonakaliswa kothando iinyanga, ngendicinga ukuba uyadlala. Ukufunda eso sicatshulwa, ndaqonda ukuba ekugqibeleni wayekulungele ukwakha ubomi bothando obunempilo kwaye wayefuna ukuqalisa ukubonakalisa
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Ukuba ufumana kunzima ukufumana intombazana, awuwedwa kwaye unokuzijika izinto. Eli nqaku lichaza ukuba yintoni ingxaki kwaye libonelela ngeendlela zokuyoyisa.
Enye yeengxaki ezinkulu eziqala ebutsheni kukutyumza. Kwaye ngokutyumzayo kuza imibuzo engapheliyo, eyona idumileyo: Ngaba uyandithanda emva? Ukuba uthabathekile kuye kwaye awuzange uvume, ngoko ubuya kuqala ukuzibuza ukuba uvakalelwa njani ngawe. Makhe sibeke ingqondo yakho ngokukhululeka. Ngaphandle kwe
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Ukufunda indlela yokuphelisa ukutyumza akuyona indlela elula. Ngeminye imiqobo kunye nokusilela endleleni, olu hambo luya kukugcina uxakekile kwaye ugxadazela. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi, yindlela efanelekileyo kuwe.
Ukuthandana nomntu ongathandani naye kuyakhathaza. Jonga iingcebiso eziluncedo malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukuthanda umntu ongenamdla kuwe.
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