Akukho ukukhanyela ukuba ukuthandana ngaphandle komtshato kunokwenza umntu azive ngathi ukwishumi elivisayo eluthandweni kwakhona njengoko intliziyo ibaleka xa ubona Lowo kwaye kukho unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo nomzimba olusekwe ngaphandle kobudlelwane obukhoyo. Kodwa njengoko iintsuku zihamba ukukopela kunyanzelekile ukuba kudala uxinzelelo lweemvakalelo.
Uxinezeleko lunokuviwa ngumntu ozaziyo ngalo mcimbi okanye lusenokuviwa ngumntu omele ajamelane netyala lokukopela rhoqo aze aphile ubomi bobuxoki.
Ukhuseleko kubudlelwane luvakalelo lokhuseleko lweemvakalelo, ukuthembana, kunye nokuzinza okuvumela omabini amaqabane ukuba azive amkelekile, exhaswa, kwaye ekhululekile ukuba abe ngawo ngaphandle koloyiko lokugwetywa, ukwaliwa, okanye ukulahlwa. Xa ubuza ukuba yintoni ukhuseleko kubudlelwane, ubuza ngokwenene ukuba uthando luziva lukhuselekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba luhlale kulo yonke imihla, […]
Unyaka wokuqala emva kokufelwa liqabane udla ngokuziva ngathi uqhubeka nje usenza izinto ngokothuka okanye ukuphelelwa lithemba, ungasakwazi ukuqhubeka imihla ngemihla. Endaweni yokungxama “ukuyiphelisa” okanye “ukuqhubeka,” lo nyaka ungowokufunda ukuphila nokulahlekelwa ngesantya sakho. Cinga ngesi sikhokelo njenge
Nabani na owakha wadibana nomntu obalekayo uyazi ukuba kunokuba nzima kakhulu; ingakumbi, ukuba unendlela yokunamathela exhalabileyo. Ukubaleka nokuleqa rhoqo kunokuziva kudinisa kwaye ekugqibeleni, amaxesha amaninzi, izinto azihambi kakuhle. Kodwa ke, ukuba bekukho uthando, unethemba lokuba beluya kubuya.
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Kunzima ngokwaneleyo ukufumanisa indlela yokugcina intlantsi iphila kulwalamano; Ukuba udibanisa amakhulu eekhilomitha phakathi kwenu, kunokuvakala ngathi kuyoyikisa kakhulu. Ukungabikho kobukho bomzimba kunokukwenza kubonakale ngathi kukho into esoloko ingekho. Kodwa ungaphelelwa lithemba: ubudlelwane obude bungasebenza. Enyanisweni, uphando lufumanise ukuba izibini ezikude
Xa usiva umhlobo wakho ehlebela ukuba ubona umntu omdala kunaye ngeminyaka engamashumi amabini, imibuzo emininzi iyaphakama. Mhlawumbi ujika amehlo akho ujonge ihlaya elithi “ingxaki yobomi obuphakathi”. Mhlawumbi unomdla kuba ubusoloko utsaleleka kumaqabane anamava. Okanye mhlawumbi nguwe okubudlelwane obuphakathi kweminyaka engama-20 kwaye uziva ugwetyiwe ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ngaba wakha wadana xa umntu omthandayo ekuvisa ubuhlungu? Mhlawumbi iqabane, ilungu losapho, okanye umhlobo osenyongweni ukudanisile ngokungalindelekanga. Loo mvakalelo yobuhlungu othandweni inokubangela intlungu enzulu, ebangela usizi. Kubudlelwane, intlungu idla ngokuvela kukungalindelwa okuphuliweyo okanye ukungahoywa ngokweemvakalelo, kwaye inokukushiya udidekile kwaye
Ukuba ukhe waziva ngathi uthandana nomntwana oyindoda, uyazi ukuba kuyakhathaza kwaye kudinise kangakanani amava. Mhlawumbi uzifumana uthatha iikawusi zakhe ezimdaka kwakhona ngelixa encanyathiselwe kumdlalo wevidiyo, okanye usoloko ucela uxolo egameni lakhe xa ephosa i-mini tantrum. Ngokuqinisekileyo awuwedwa
Ubudlelwane bunokuba nzima, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, ukubuyela umva kuba yimfuneko ukuze kucace. Eli nqaku liphonononga ukuba yintoni ikhefu kubudlelwane ngokuphonononga inkcazo yayo, iinzuzo, kunye nemingeni. Izibini ezininzi ziba namaxesha okungaqiniseki xa ungquzulwano rhoqo kunye nokudinwa ngokweemvakalelo kugquma unxibelelwano lwazo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukuthatha ikhefu kunika ithuba lokucamngca
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Ukuhlala esingqengqelweni sakho, kude kube sebusuku, uwedwa ngelixa iqabane lakho lisegumbini lokulala, ulele yoyi, ungabuhoyanga ubuthukuthuku osilwa nabo. Unqwenela ukuba ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye nonxibelelwano obunethemba lokuba umtshato uya kuzisa indlela yakho. Kodwa kwanengcamango yokwenza nawuphi na umgudu wokwenene kwelo cala yenza
Iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba intombi yakho ayitsalelekanga ngokwesondo kuwe inokuba yingozi, kungekuphela nje ngenxa yokuba ukungabikho kobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunokubangela ukuba umgama ungene kodwa ngenxa yokuba unokubonisa ukuba uyaqala ukuphulukana nomdla kubudlelwane. Kubafazi, imiba yeemvakalelo kunye neyomzimba yonxibelelwano lothando isondele
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