Uqhawulo-mtshato luza nemvakalelo yokulahlekelwa. Kunjengokuba elinye inqaku likubeka oku, “Ukuba umthanda ngokunzulu omnye umntu intlungu yokwahlukana iqatha njengokufelwa ngumntu.” Ukuqhawula kunye nelahleko ihamba kunye.
Ukuba ubuhlobo okanye umtshato uyaphela imvakalelo yokulahlekelwa ihlala ixesha elide. Eli lixesha apho abantu bafuna inkxaso emandla kubahlobo, kusapho kwaye abanye bade bakhethe ukucetyiswa.
Umthumelela umyalezo wokuba alale kakuhle kwakhona, uzibuza ukuba oku kuyaphi kanye kanye. Ngaphakathi entliziyweni, uqala ukubona iimpawu zokuba akasafuni ubudlelwane nawe. Mhlawumbi uyamangalisa xa nithandana kodwa akathethi ngokuzibophelela. Mhlawumbi uthe akakakulungeli ubudlelwane kodwa unethemba lokuba uza kutshintsha […]
Iimpawu ezi-6 ezivuthayo zokuba akafuni ulwalamano nawe Funda Okungakumbi »
Ukuphelisa ubudlelwane ngesicatshulwa kunokuba nzima. Isiqhelo esamkelweyo sesokuba incoko yoqhawulo-mtshato kufuneka ibekho emntwini, nangona kunjalo, ukohlukana ngokubhaliweyo akuyonto ikhohlakeleyo okanye engenaluvelwano. Nokuba ungaluphelisa na ubudlelwane ngomyalezo obhaliweyo kuxhomekeke kwimeko. Kwezinye iimeko, njengolwalamano olutsha kakhulu
Isigaba sasemva kokwahlukana siphakathi kwawona maxesha anzima ebomini bomntu. Uzilile ngenxa yokuphulukana nonxibelelwano olusondeleyo, uzama ukujongana nesithuba, ngelixa ingqondo yakho izaliswe ziimvakalelo eziphikisanayo-usizi, ulangazelelo, umsindo, kunye namaxesha athile okukhululeka. Ukuhamba ngayo yonke into kunokuba nzima ngakumbi ukuba uqala ukuzisola
Ngaba Uza Kubuya? Iimpawu Ezili-15 Zokuba Uza Kubuyelana Funda Okungakumbi »
“Ukuziyeka kuthetha ukufumanisa ukuba abanye abantu bayinxalenye yembali yakho, kodwa abayonxalenye yekamva lakho,” utshilo uSteve Maraboli oyintshatsheli yembaleki nombhali othengisa kakhulu. Kwaye wayenyanisile. Kodwa uyeka njani ukuthanda umntu ngesiquphe? Ewe, nangona sithetha ngokuqhawula ngokweemvakalelo rhoqo, kunjalo
Indlela Yokuyeka Ngothando Umntu Omthandayo: Ingcali Yezonyango Icebisa Funda Okungakumbi »
Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje lokuthandana, amava ambalwa adidayo kwaye atyhafisa njengokubethwa ngumoya emva komhla othembisayo wokuqala. Ukonwabela unxibelelwano olubonakala luyimpumelelo lunokutshintsha ngokukhawuleza lube yintsizi kunye nokuphoxeka xa unxibelelwano luphela ngesiquphe. Kwawam amava, ndikhumbula ngokucacileyo ukuhlaba kwesiporho emva komhla wokuqala. I
UneGhost Emva koMhla Wokuqala? Kutheni Oku Kwenzeka Kwaye Ungajongana Njani Funda Okungakumbi »
Ukwahlukana nomnye umntu kunokuba ngamava anzima kwaye ahlaselwe ngokweemvakalelo, kodwa kuthekani nge-rollercoaster yeemvakalelo ehlala ingahoywa ngulowo uqalisa ukwahlukana? I-Dumpers remorse, igama elifumana ukuqondwa kwindawo yengqondo yobudlelwane, iphonononga kwiimvakalelo ezintsonkothileyo kunye nokuzisola okuviwa ngabo bathatha isigqibo sokuphelisa uthando.
Ukuzisola kweDumpers: Intsingiselo, Iimpawu, kunye neZigaba Funda Okungakumbi »
Fumanisa ubugcisa bokuzulazula kuqhekeko oluthambileyo ngobabalo kwinqaku lethu lamva nje. Funda indlela yokwahlula iindlela ngobumnene kwaye ugcine intlonipho kunye nobubele kubudlelwane. Jonga indlela eya kwisiqalo esitsha ngovelwano njengesikhokelo sakho.
Indlela Yokwahlukana Nomntu Ngaphandle Kokumlimaza: Imithetho Eli-10 Funda Okungakumbi »
Nazi iingcebiso ezili-11 ezixhaswa yingcali malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukucinga nge-ex yakho.
Ukuphela kobudlelwane yenye yezona lahleko zikhubazayo esinokuzifumana ebomini. Nokuba uzama ukuqhubela phambili okanye usafuna i-ex yakho, amandla okuthula emva kokwahlukana anokuba sisixhobo sakho esinamandla. Ewe, sinokuyibona indlela oku kunokuvela ngayo njengento edidayo.
Indlela Echanekileyo Yokusebenzisa Amandla Okuthula Emva Kokwahlukana Funda Okungakumbi »
Njengoko ugqiba ekubeni uqhubele phambili ngentliziyo ebuhlungu, uphawula ukuba i-ex yakho ibonakala ingenamdla. Xa ekugqibeleni wenze inkqubela ethile, kulapho ebonisa iimpawu zokuwohloka. Mhlawumbi uyazibuza, "Kutheni ukuhlukana kubetha abafana kamva? Kutheni kuthatha ixesha elide ukuba amanye amadoda azi oko alahlekileyo?
