Ngaba ukhe wadibana nengxelo ekrwada ye-Instagram phantsi komfanekiso owuthumeleyo? Umntu othetha ngolo hlobo ebengayi kuthetha into elolo hlobo kuwe ebomini, akunjalo? Ayimangalisi into yokuba abantu baphele bengahloniphi ngakumbi kwi-Intanethi, yiyo loo nto wonke umntu kufuneka afunde kancinci malunga ne-netiquette.
Nokuba kubudlelwane nesithandwa, umntu osebenza naye, okanye ilungu losapho, imithetho ye-netiquette inokukunceda ugcine ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nabo kwi-Intanethi, ukuze bangapheleli ekukuxeleleni kwiqonga ochitha usuku lwakho oluninzi kulo.
Kodwa lithetha ukuthini kanye kanye eli gama? Yeyiphi imigaqo eyi-10 esisiseko ye-netiquette? Ngaba ziyimfuneko? Ngoncedo lwengcali yokhuseleko lwe-intanethi Amitabh Kumar, umseki we-Social Media Matters kunye nengcaphephe yangaphambili kunye nokhuseleko lwe-Google, Facebook, kunye ne-Amazon, makhe sijonge ukuba kutheni kufuneka ulandele i-netiquette esisiseko kunye nendlela umntu osebenza ngayo kwi-intanethi angakuxelela ngohlobo lomntu alulo.
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Ngaphambi kokuba singene kwimithetho ye-10 ye-netiquette, makhe siqale sijonge ukuba ithetha ukuthini, ukuze abantu abangaziwayo bangapheli ukuguqula iithebhu kweli nqaku. I-Netiquette ibhekisa kwiindlela ezamkelekileyo zokuziphatha kwi-intanethi. Ngokusisiseko, i-etiquette kwi-net.
Indlela oziphatha ngayo ebharini okanye kwivenkile yekofu ichaza uhlobo lwamandla olutsalayo. La mandla angamapolisa, isimo sengqondo somthengisi, okanye uncumo oluvela kuloo cutie yikhawuntara, ngubani encwasa ngamehlo akhe. Ngendlela efanayo, xa kuziwa kwi-intanethi, unokufumana ingxelo okanye ufumane isicelo sokulandela.
U-Amitabh uyacacisa, "I-Netiquette yindlela oziphatha ngayo kakuhle kwi-intanethi. Ibaluleke kakhulu njengokuziphatha kwakho ngaphandle kweintanethi. I-intanethi yakho kunye nento oza kuyiphumeza kwi-intanethi - ngokobuqu nangomsebenzi - ixhomekeke kwimithetho ye-netiquette oyilandelayo. Ngokoluvo lwam, mhlawumbi sesona buchule sibalulekileyo sanamhlanje esisidingayo."
Umgaqo wegolide we-netiquette kukuba, ukuba awuyi kuthetha / wenze / ukwabelana ngento ethile ebomini bokwenyani, musa ukuyenza kwi-intanethi. Ilula ngolo hlobo. Xa sele kuthethiwe, nangona kunjalo, kusekho imithetho eli-10 ye-netiquette engena kwiinkcukacha ezithe kratya malunga nento omawuyenze kwaye ungayenzi kwi-Intanethi.
Ngoku ukuba siphendule ukuba yintoni i-netiquette kwaye kutheni ibalulekile, makhe sibone ukuba kulungile na ukukhangela umdlalo wakho we-app yokuthandana osanda kuyifumana kwimidiya yoluntu. Isilumkiso se-Spoiler: Hayi, ayilunganga, iyothusa…ingakumbi ukuba uthanda imifanekiso embalwa ngempazamo.
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Imithetho eyi-10 ye-Netiquette esisiseko wonke umntu kufuneka ayilandele
I-intanethi yindawo engaqhelekanga. Dating apps ingasibonisa icala elitsha lethu, kwaye kwezinye iindawo, ukungaziwa kwayo yonke into kunokunyanzela abantu ukuba bathethe izinto abangenakuze bazithethe elubala. Uyawazi umsindo wendlela onawo ngelixa usemotweni yakho? Ukuba ubuyithathile inqwelo-mafutha uze ujongwe ubuso ngobuso nenjubaqa ekufikele kuyo, mhlawumbi ubungayi kuthetha yonke into oyenzayo ngokhuseleko lwemoto yakho.
Okufanayo kuya kwi-intanethi. Thatha izikrini kunye neekhibhodi kude, mhlawumbi ungalunga kakhulu. Imithetho ye-10 ye-netiquette ijolise ekwenzeni i-intanethi ibe yindawo engcono, ngokwenza wonke umntu angenzi njenge-douche epheleleyo.
Ukuba usazamana nayo yonke inkalo yemithetho ye-netiquette kumajelo asekuhlaleni, u-Amitabh usixelela indlela esimele sicinge ngayo nge-intanethi, “I-intanethi inalo nxunguphalo. Kuvakala ngathi kubudlelwane obusondeleyo kakhulu kuba isikrini sakho sisondele kakhulu kwaye ifowuni yakho yeselula isesandleni sakho, kodwa ikwavakala ngathi unokungaziwa kwaye ke, kulula ukuziqhelanisa nomntu wonke.
"Enyanisweni, cinga ngale ndlela: Ngokwenene ukhwaza iingcinga kunye neengcinga zakho kwihlabathi liphela. Omnye kufuneka acinge ukuba umi phezu kophahla lwakho kwaye isixeko sonke siphambi kwakho, kwaye ukhwaza iingcinga zakho, naphi na apho uzibeke khona kwi-intanethi. Baya kubuyela kuwe, kwaye uya kubanjwa uxanduva. Xa uxanduva lusekiwe, imfuno yokucacisa imithetho esisiseko yokubona i-netiquette. "
Kuninzi nje yenza nokungamele ukwenze kubudlelwane, kukho izinto omele uzenze nokungamele zenziwe kwi-netiquette yobudlelwane ofanele ujonge kuyo, hleze uphume ungowayo. Makhe sijonge kwimithetho ye-netiquette enokutshintsha indlela osebenzisa ngayo usetyenziso lwemidiya yoluntu.
1. Phatha ummelwane wakho: Hlala unembeko
Ukuba ubunokuthatha into enye kweli nqaku, susa umgaqo wegolide we-netiquette: rhoqo, HLALA uhlonipheke. Kanye njengoko kufanelekile, kubomi bokwenyani. Ngaba ukuReddit ngeakhawunti yokulahla apho abantu bangazi ukuba ngubani osemva kweakhawunti? Ayikuniki sizathu sokuba ukhohlakele ebantwini.
Ngenxa yokuba ungaziwa okanye ungajongani nabantu ngoko nangoko, oko akuthethi ukuba amazwi akho akayi kubenzakalisa abo bawafundayo. Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe kwaye ushiye uluvo olubi kwi-Instagram selfie yomntu okanye kwinto umntu ayilayishe ngokuzingca, zibuze ukuba ubuya kuziva njani ukuba iitafile zijikiwe.
U-Amitabh uchaza ukubaluleka kokuba nentlonipho kwi-intanethi, “Xa ukwi-intanethi, cinga ngento yokuba le nto uyibekayo ibonwa ngumntu wonke, oko kuquka abahlobo bakho, usapho, iqabane lakho kunye nabantu owawuthandana nabo ngaphambili.
"Yiba neso sihluzo engqondweni yakho, cinga ukuba sesawo wonke umntu kwaye ngonaphakade. Ungacingi ukuba le nto uyithethayo kwi-intanethi ithethwe kwigumbi elivaliweyo nezibane zicinyiwe kwaye ayinakuphendula kuwe. Iya kuphinda-phindwa izihlandlo eziliwaka, kwaye ukuba ayilunganga, umfanekiso-skrini unokwabelwana ngawo kumaqonga afana ne-Twitter kunye ne-Instagram, kwaye uya kubekwa phambi kwejaji yoluntu.
“Ukuba nethemba, idiplomatic, kwaye ungabi yingxaki zizihluzo ezisisiseko ekufuneka ubenazo. ubudlelwane obuphilileyo hlalani ninjalo.” Lo mgaqo we-netiquette ungundoqo awufuni nto ingako ebantwini, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ngowona ubalulekileyo.
2. Musa ukulungela ngokuphandle umdla wothando
Masithi izinto zihamba kakuhle nomntu ovela kwi-app yokuthandana, kwaye nobabini nigqibe ukuba inokuba luluvo oluhle ukongeza omnye komnye kwimidiya yoluntu. Kwimeko enjalo, kubalulekile ukulandela imithetho ye-netiquette kumajelo asekuhlaleni: Musa ukumbamba ngokuphandle umntu, ngakumbi nge-3 am, ngokungenamkhethe, ngaphandle kwengxoxo.
Oko kuthethwa, masithethe inyaniso, mhlawumbi akukho namnye umphefumlo eMhlabeni owongeza umntu kwi-Instagram, ejonga imifanekiso emithathu, kwaye acinge, "Ewe, yiloo nto. Andiyi kuskrola yonke indlela ukuya kwiifoto zasekholejini ezihlazisayo zalo mntu."
Nangona kulungile ukuba phanda umhla wakho kwi-intanethi, mhlawumbi owona mthetho ubalulekileyo we-netiquette weendaba zoluntu kukuba ungabakhweli abantu kwaye uthanda zonke iifoto zabo ukuze bafumane zonke izaziso. Uyintoni, Joe Goldberg? I-stalker ethe phithi, i-psychopathic, i-serial killer vibes le ntshukumo inikezelayo mhlawumbi sisizathu sokuba uza kufumana isiporho.
3. Qaphela ukuba uthetha nabani
Kanye njengoko ungenakubathemba abantu ongabaziyo ngolwazi olubuthathaka kwihlabathi lokwenyani, okufanayo kusebenza kumnatha kwakhona. Ukuba umntu ukuthumelela imiyalezo ekrokrisayo, ebonisa umdla wothando kuwe, usenokuba uyabanjwa. Ukuba inkosana yaseNigeria ikuthumelela i-imeyile icela imali, inokuba bubuqhophololo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awuzange ufumane enye yezo imeyile, khangela ifolda yakho ye-spam.
Njengomthetho we-netiquette ongaguqukiyo wonxibelelwano lwe-elektroniki, qiniseka ukuba unqumama umzuzwana phambi kokuba ucofe elo khonkco lithembisa owona msebenzi unengeniso enkulu owakhe wawuthemba. Ngapha koko, ayizizo zonke iiprofayili eziyinyani, ngakumbi ukuba ayiqinisekiswanga. U-Amitabh uyacacisa ngakumbi, “Kwihlabathi le-intanethi, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba kulula kakhulu ukwenza iprofayile yakhe nabani na.
"UMark Zuckerberg okanye u-Elon Musk abayi kuthetha nawe, ngoko ke ukuba ufumana ii-DMs kubo, okanye umntu obonakala enomtsalane kakhulu ngeefoto zabo (zomgunyathi), yiba nokuthandabuza malunga nalo.
"Ukuhamba ngedatha, into eziva ilungile kakhulu ukuba ibe yinyani kwi-intanethi iqhelekile. Awuyi kufumana itikiti lasimahla kwikonsathi kaBeyoncé ukuba uthumela iinkcukacha zakho ezibuthathaka, kwaye hayi, awuzukufumana kathathu isixa semali yakho ukuba utyala imali kweso sikimu sitsha kwifolda yakho yespam.
Ngokufanayo, kwindawo yokuthandana, qiniseka ukuba uyabaqinisekisa abantu othetha nabo. abaqhatha kwezothando. Ulwazi lomntu siqu kufuneka kwabelwane ngalo kuphela ngemidla yothando kwi-intanethi xa sele wenze uhlobo oluthile lokuqinisekisa nalo mntu. Endaweni yokumema umntu odibene naye kwiwebhusayithi yokuthandana endlwini yakho, qaphela kwaye uthabathe inyathelo emva. Ekupheleni kosuku, imithetho ephambili ye-netiquette ijolise ekukugcineni ukhuselekile. "
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4. Umthetho we-Netiquette wegolide: Sukuthumela umyalezo kubalandeli bakho
Ewe, uhambo lwakho lwamva nje oluya eWalmart kufutshane nendawo yakho belumnandi kakhulu kuba omnye umntwana weTikTok uthathe isigqibo sokwenza ibhotile ngebhotile yecoke kwaye yophuka, kodwa ungathumeli iparade engapheliyo yamabali ngayo.
Unokuba uthatha isigidi se-selfies kwezo izibini ezithandekayo zimi, kodwa musa ukugqiba ukuthumela loo mifanekiso yezigidi, kuba unako. Cinga ngako, xa uncokola nabantu behlabathi lokwenyani, awugqibi ukuthetha kangangemizuzu engama-20 ngento enye, uyiphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo, uze usondele kuyo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, akunjalo?
Ngokufanayo, zama ukungatyi ixesha elininzi labalandeli bakho ngokuthumela amabali amaninzi aphindaphindayo ngokulandelelana ngokukhawuleza. Njengomnye weyona mithetho isisiseko ye-netiquette yemithombo yeendaba zentlalo, oku kunokukugcina uninzi lwabalandeli.
5. Musa ukulwa umdaka
Kule minyaka yedijithali sikuyo, sihlala sincokola namaqabane ethu ngemiyalezo ebhaliweyo. Ukuba ubunokuthi usixelele ukuba awuzange ulwe neqabane lakho malunga neetekisi, akukho namnye kuni mhlawumbi unefowuni okanye ningamaxoki nobabini.
Xa sisilwa ngeetekisi, sidla ngokuzikhwebula kwinto yokuba emva kwemiyalezo, ngumntu omkhathalele kakhulu. Inkalo yetekhnoloji ethoba ubuntu, okt, ukunxibelelana ngefestile ye-WhatsApp yengxoxo, inokusenza sithethe izinto ngaphandle kokucinga ngeziphumo zaloo mazwi.
Awunakukwazi ukufihla emva kwefowuni yakho kwaye uzimele emva kwesikrini njengelayisenisi yokuthetha nantoni na onokuyenza. Oko kusengumntu ofunda ezo zibhalo, ke mhlawumbi ungathumeli umyalezo okrwada kakhulu uthelekisa iqabane lakho nomzali wabo onetyhefu. Khumbula imithetho ye-netiquette malunga nentlonipho, kwaye abanye baya kulandela.
6. Qaphela indawo yewebhu okuyo
Ubungekhe uthethe nge iingenelo zokuba ungatshatanga nomntu onobudlelwane bexesha elide, akunjalo? Ngokufanayo, yilumkele iwebhusayithi/iqela/itshaneli okuyo. I-intanethi ineqela lalo naluphi na uhlobo lomntu, nokuba ngumdlali wasekunene, osekhohlo, okanye abo bakholelwa kwi-intanethi. isilwanyana esiphaphazelayo se-spaghetti.
Imithetho ye-netiquette esisiseko yonxibelelwano lombane isixelela ukuba kufuneka uhlale ulumkele isithuba sewebhu okuso, kwaye unxibelelane ngokufanelekileyo. Ngubani owaziyo ukuba ngowuphi umngxuma womvundla oza kukusa kuwo? Qiniseka nje ukuba awukhubekisi lonke iqela labantu.
Njengoko u-Amitabh etshilo, izinto ozibeka kwi-intanethi zezabantu bonke kwaye ngonaphakade. Imithetho esisiseko ye-netiquette isixelela ukuba singalimazi abantu kwi-intanethi, kuba ayisiyonto intle ukuyenza. Xa ucinga ngayo, imithetho ye-netiquette yonke ngokusisiseko inxibelelana nendlela esifanele sibuqhube ngayo ubomi bethu ngaphandle kweintanethi.
7. Zihlonele iimfihlo zabanye
Ngaba uye waya kumhla wokuqala nomntu? Mhlawumbi usanda kuphuma nabahlobo bakho, kwaye ufuna ukuthumela ngayo kwi-intanethi. Ngelixa usenjenjalo, qiniseka ukuba uyabuhlonipha ubumfihlo babantu obafaka iifoto zabo. Musa ukunika ulwazi malunga nomhla wakho, banokungayithandi. Musa ukuxelela idilesi yomhlobo wakho kuye wonke umntu okuluhlu lwabalandeli bakho. Yaziwa ngokuba doxing, kwaye umhla wakho ukuze nje athambekele ukufumana umyalelo wothintelo nxamnye nawe ukuba ulayishe umfanekiso kunye neenkcukacha zabo zobuqu emva komhla wokuqala. Iingozi zokuthandana kwi-intanethi kunokuphetshwa, kufuneka nje uphaphe.
Ukuba usazibuza ukuba yintoni i-netiquette kwaye kutheni ibalulekile, sisizathu sokuba ungavalwanga yimihla ophuma nayo. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ubuphumile nomntu omqhelileyo, kwaye bathumele ibali lakho kwi-Instagram yabo kubalandeli babo be-13,000, bethetha ngendawo ohlala kuyo, okanye inkampani osebenza kuyo, okanye isikolo esiphakamileyo ofunda kuso. Ayiyiyo eyona meko ilungileyo onokuba kuyo, akunjalo?
8. Xela umxholo okhubekisayo
Ukuba ngumSamariya olungileyo ngumsebenzi osisigxina, ngaphandle kweintanethi nakwi-intanethi. Ngaba uye waqaphela ubuhlanga / ngokwesini / izimvo ezinengxaki phantsi kwefoto yeqabane lakho? Mhlawumbi kukho umntu okrwada kuwe kwi-app yokuthandana. Qhubeka kwaye uyixele. Ukuba ucinga ukuba kufanelekile, musa ukucinga kabini.
U-Amitabh uchaza ukubaluleka kokuxela umxholo oyingozi, “Kusenokuba nzima ukuba abantu bachaze umxholo kuba benexhala lokuba bangoobani abasemngciphekweni.Kodwa ekuphela kwendlela yokusombulula ingxaki kukuthetha ngayo.Xa udibana namava angathandekiyo, yithi, kukho umntu okuthumelela umyalezo wokukuhlukumeza okanye ukuba uyasokola. ubanjiwe, kukho amathuba aphezulu okuba bayayenza nakwabanye abantu.
“Xa uxelela ihlabathi ukuba kukho into engalunganga eyenzekileyo kuwe, linyathelo lokuqala elo lokuba ube lixhoba endaweni yokuba ube lixhoba. Qonda ukuba ayilotyala lakho, kwaye indlela ekukuphela kwayo nantoni na eya kuze itshintshe eqongeni okanye ngaphakathi emntwini kuxa uxela ukuziphatha okuyingxaki. Ekubeni usuka kwihlabathi lokhuseleko kwi-intanethi, ndingatsho ukuba ekuphela kwamatyala esikwaziyo ukuwacombulula yayingawo wonke umntu oye waxelelwa ukuba andixelele. ngale nto.”
Kanye njengolwandle, sinokwenza kancinci ukugcina i-intanethi ingenankunkuma. Kule meko, inkunkuma ibhekiselele kwiitroli ezifihla emva kwamagama abo omsebenzisi. Singofudo, kwaye umxholo wocalucalulo/uthanda abantu abathandana nabantu abathandana nabo obufanayo/ubufanasini/obugwenxa obukhutshwa ziitroli ziindiza zeplastiki.
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9. Imithetho ye-Netiquette isixelela ukuba singasasazi ulwazi olungeyonyani
Sonke sinomalume / umakazi okude ohlala esabelana ngeyona nto ingenangqondo ka-WhatsApp kumaqela osapho, esixelela ukuba iinqaba ze-5G yeyona nto imbi inokusehlela. Yinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye kufuneka wenze kancinci ukuyiyeka.
Ngelixa kungekho mntu ufuna ukuthetha nomalume uGreg kwaye amthintele ekwabelaneni kwakhe phambili noWhatsApp, zama ukukhumbula imithetho ye-netiquette kwaye uqalise incoko naye malunga nento ayenzayo. Ukusasaza ulwazi lobuxoki kunokuphelisa umonakalo omkhulu kubantu abathile kunye / okanye amaqela asele ecinezelwe.
10. Kulumkele ukuba ngasese kwakho
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuba neeakhawunti zakho ezibekwe bucala, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ubumfihlo bakho buqinisekisiwe kwi-intanethi. Ukuba kukho into oyithumelayo ongafuni ukuba abantu osebenza nabo okanye usapho lwakho bayibone, inokuba luluvo oluhle ukuba ungayithumeli. Ngaphandle kokuba uyafuna, qiniseka ukuba awuzenzi izinto ezifana nendawo okuyo zaziwe eluntwini. Ukwaba ngaphezulu Imidiya yokuncokola ngumba omkhulu phakathi kwezizukulwana eziselula. Qinisekisa ukuba uyawukhumbula lo mgaqo wegolide we-netiquette.
Eminye imithetho embalwa ye-netiquette ekufuneka uyilandele: Musa ukulayisha kuphela iifoto zeqela kwii-apps zokuthandana, ungalandeli kwaye ungalandeli abantu ukwenza umlinganiselo wakho ubonakale. kuhle, MUSA UKUTHAYIPHA KUZO ZONKE I-CAPS, musa ukulandela abantu abafana no-Alex Jones, kwaye musa ukuyalela ukutya kwindawo yokutyela imizuzu emi-5 ngaphambi kokuba bavale (musa nje, abasebenzi baya kuthiya ngenxa yoko).
Iziqhulo ezisecaleni, siyathemba ukuba ngoku ungaphendula umbuzo othi 'yeyiphi imithetho eli-10 esisiseko ye-netiquette' ngokulula, kwaye ngoku ungumzekelo wommi - kwi-intanethi nangaphandle kweintanethi. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, sinethemba lokuba imihla yakho ayipheli ngokukhathazayo kwiziqendu zakho zokulandela. Ngamanye amazwi, jonga kodwa musa ukucofa.
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