Ke, uyifumene enye – le yenza intliziyo yakho itsibe iwaka leebhithi kodwa ikwenza uzive uzolile kunokuba ubunjalo. Lowo uyi-ankile yakho kunye nesaqhwithi sakho. Lowo wongeza umbala kunye nentsingiselo ebomini bakho. Kwaye ngoku ujonge eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokubuza umbuzo kwaye ubacele ukuba babe liqabane lakho ubomi bakho bonke. Ukuba libali lakho elo, sivumele ukuba sikwazise ngezimvo ezintle zesindululo sonxweme eziya kwenza uthando lobomi bakho luthi 'ewe' ovakalayo.
Kutheni isindululo elunxwemeni, uyabuza? Ewe, ngenxa yokuba ulwandle yenye yezona ndawo zothando emhlabeni, isipho esivela kwindalo kubathandi kuyo yonke indawo. Kwaye ngakumbi apho ndihlala khona, apha kwiziqithi ezinesanti eziselunxwemeni lwaseSri Lanka, isindululo solwandle sothando luhle kakhulu kumyalelo olindelekileyo wezinto zokutshayela iqabane likabani ezinyaweni zabo.
Nokuba awusikelelwanga ngonxweme olubanzi kwiyadi yakho yangasemva, unokuzama iindlela ezimnandi, zothando okanye ezintle zokucebisa elunxwemeni, kuxhomekeke kwi-vibe yakho njengesibini. Xa usongeza iholide yaselwandle engaqhelekanga kumxube, ngokuqinisekileyo isindululo sakho somtshato siba nomtsalane ngakumbi kwaye sithandana. Ukukunceda udibanise loo mzuzu ugqibeleleyo, uphefumlayo, masingene kanye kwiimbono zesindululo solwandle esivuthuza ingqondo.
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Kukho okuthile ngomoya opholileyo wolwandle ovuselela uthando emoyeni. Ngamaza abetha ezinyaweni zakho, umoya ezinweleni zakho, kunye ne-cocktail emnandi yokuhlamba zonke izithintelo zakho, kuba lula kakhulu ukuguqa ngedolo elinye kwaye ucele omnye wakho obalulekileyo ukuba akutshate.
Ngenxa yokuba uziswe ngolungiselelo olugqibeleleyo ngendalo akuthethi ukuba akufuneki ukhuphe imipu emikhulu ukucwangcisa esona sindululo solwandle somlingo. Ukusuka kwiimbono zesindululo elunxwemeni ebusuku - kunye nezibane zentsomi ezixhonywe phezulu, amakhandlela phantsi - ukuya kuthi ga umbuzo njengoko ujonge ukuphuma kwelanga elundini, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokushiya umsantsa wakho owuthandayo ukhwankqisiwe kwaye ukhwankqisiwe. Ukukunceda uqalise ubuchule bakho, sikukhethele awona macebiso ali-10 anobuchule bokusebenzisa isindululo solwandle:
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1. Umthendeleko weDionysian - ingcamango yesiphakamiso esihle solwandle
Masifumane ikeyiki ngaselwandle, njengoko watshoyo omnye wabazalwana bakaJonas. Bonke bulela oothixo beWayini kunye neDine, Dionysus! Olu lukhetho oludumileyo phakathi kwezimvo ezintle zesindululo elunxwemeni, apho ubeka khona konke ukutya kweemvakalelo kuba ukutya luthando. Olu dlelwane kunye nokutya lunjalo ngakumbi kumazwe aseAsia, eFransi naseSpain.
Iwayini ayinyanzelekanga, kodwa eyona ndlela iphambili kule ndawo yokutyela isecaleni lolwandle sisitya sokutya kwaselwandle, iintlobo ngeentlobo zenyama kunye neeyam, iikeyiki ezinqwenelekayo… Enye inketho yipikiniki yokutya kwingubo epholileyo. Veza umbuzo omkhulu ongqongwe kukutya okunencasa, neenyawo zakho entlabathini, kunye namaza acula kufutshane. Angathini umntu ukuthi hayi kulonto?
2. I-candlelit casanova - isiphakamiso solwandle sothando
Phakathi kwamawaka imibono yesindululo somtshato isimbo saselwandle, le yeyona nto ndiyithandayo ukungqina. Khawufan’ ucinge… Kusebusuku elunxwemeni, kwaye kumbala opholileyo oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kukho ukukhanya okushushu okutyheli okuxhonywe eluphahleni lwendlu yecawa, amakhandlela acalisa indlela, mhlawumbi amagqabi erozi achumileyo. Kubizwa ngokuba kukukhanya kweemvakalelo, kwaye sikwimo yothando, njengoko ebeya kuthetha uWong Kar-wai.
Kwiingcamango ezininzi zesindululo solwandle ebusuku onokuthi ulinge, oku kufumana i-10/10 ngexabiso layo lobuhle. Abanye bakhetha indawo yokutyela engaselwandle, kwaye abanye bathatha indlela ethambileyo, yabucala ngakumbi kwindawo ethile elunxwemeni. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, ngumbono ophuphayo ekunzima ukuwulibala.
3. Ukulalela kwabo sibathandayo
Isindululo solwandle sothando kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo kwi-tow. Izandi ezingaqhelekanga? Ewe, sive. Umema lonke usapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo, ke umcebisi ufumana unyango olupheleleyo lothando oluhlangeneyo ekufikeni. Oku kuxhaphake kakhulu eMzantsi Asia, apho intsapho iyinxalenye yomanyano lomtshato phakathi kwabantu ababini. Ngumbhiyozo woluntu.
Kwakhona, kulungile ukuba nabahlobo bakho bekufutshane nawe ngosuku lwakho olukhethekileyo, ngakumbi ukuba i-bestie yakho iza kuphuma ibaleka emva kwehlathi kwaye ithathe ifoto ecacileyo yakho kunye nomhle wakho. Oku kunokuba bubusuku bothando kunye nokuhleka, kunye nenguqu egudileyo ku, "Kulungile, masibeke umhla womtshato!"
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4. Isindululo sokwaphulwa kwe-serenade enomtsalane
Akukho nto ihamba kakuhle kunye njengomculo kunye nolwandle. Esi sisindululo solwandle sothando kwiihippies kunye nemimoya yasimahla! Cwangcisa isindululo ngomculo oculayo, isiginkci esivakalayo, imvumi ye-indie, ibhendi ye-mariachi, okanye uluhlu lwadlalwayo olulungiselelwe umbulali oluneengoma ezithetha yonke into kwiintaka ezimbini zothando.
Landela oku kunye no-DJ onencasa entle, kunye nokuqubha elwandle emva kweseshoni yomdaniso onzima - ngaba usuku lunokugqibelela ngakumbi? Ezinye iimbono zakudala zokuseta umoya: Elvis Presley, Alicia Keys, The Carpenters, The Villages, Zero 7, Sam Smith… Phephekani phantsi nobabini nje ebusuku kakhulu kuBeach Boys okanye The Kinks. Sicebisa ukuba sele uqalile ukubhala izifungo zakho zomtshato kuba akukho ndlela ayisayi kuthi 'ewe' kwisindululo sothando njengale.
5. Ummangaliso wababukeli – olona luvo lubalaseleyo lwezimvo zesindululo solwandle
Le yenye yeembono zesindululo sokunkqonkqoza elunxwemeni, ifanelekile kumboniso kuthi sonke. Ufuna ukukhwaza igama lesithandwa sakho phezulu kwimiphunga yakho ukuze wonke umntu ongaphakathi kumgama oziimitha ezingamashumi amabini ayazi (ngamanye amaxesha iradiyasi ebanzi, kuxhomekeke ekufikeleleni kwimidiya yoluntu!).
Wonke umntu ujongile, ngesiqhelo kumsitho wohlobo oluthile elwandle, mhlawumbi igiga yomculo, isidlo sangokuhlwa sosapho, itheko loNyaka oMtsha… Ngequbuliso indoda iguqe ngedolo kwaye inkosikazi ibeke izandla ebusweni bayo yothukile (okanye ngenye indlela). Ummangaliso! Ukuqinisekiswa kweeseti ze-50 zamehlo kunye neentliziyo ezifudumeleyo, kubonakala ngathi ziqinisa isigqibo abasenzayo kunye ngelo xesha.
6. Isindululo solwandle kubathandi belanga
Njengezibane zasentsomini, olu lolunye uloyiso lobuhle, olubekwe ixesha lokuwa kwelanga emva kolundi olungenasiphako. Sonke sincoma ilanga, isandi sokukhanya, sibuya yonke imihla ukuze sifudumale umqolo nobuso bethu. Isindululo sonxweme siyachithwa ngaphandle kokutshona kwelanga.
Idityaniswe nemibongo kunye nomculo odlalwayo othambileyo mhlawumbi, uqinisekile yenza ezintsha, iinkumbulo zothando ukuxelela abazukulwana bakho malunga. Isenokwenziwa kwakhona ngokugqibeleleyo ekuphumeni kwelanga. Kwaye ndiyarhana ukuba izibini ezingakhathaliyo ukubonwa nguye nabani na zinokukhupha isiphakamiso kwiholide yaselwandle yabucala ekukhanyeni okutsha kwemini. Iimbono zesindululo esihle solwandle azifumani mhle kunale.
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7. Umboniso omkhulu – enye yeembono ezibalaseleyo zesindululo somtshato elunxwemeni
Esi sisindululo esicwangcisiweyo sothando lwaselwandle. Yonke into, ukusuka kwimibala yeempahla zabantu ababandakanyekayo ukuya kumfana okhanyayo, ukuya kwi-decor - ukholelwa ukuba kukho iqela elipheleleyo emva kwale mveliso yaselwandle. Bubungqina bokuzinikela kwakho ekucwangciseni isindululo esigqibeleleyo.
Ihlala ithunyelwa ngqo kwi-Instagram, okanye ivele kuFacebook feed kunye nesihloko esithi "Ucebise!" Incasa efunyenweyo, oku kukulingana kwale mihla yokubhengeza uthando lwakho kwihlabathi ukusuka phezulu eluphahleni. Kwabo bakhangela imibono yesiphakamiso somtshato esikhulu, esikhulu kunobomi elunxwemeni, awunakuhamba kakubi ngale nto.
8. ILala yahlala kwisiphakamiso sechweba
Oku kukhankanywa ngokukhethekileyo kuluhlu, kwii-lagoons - i-stretch yamanzi etyuwa, ehlulwe elwandle nge-coral reef ephantsi. Zisetyenziswa ngokutshintshanayo kunye neelwandle eSri Lanka. Icala lechweba elifana neli laseKalpitiya kunxweme olusentshona luhlobo olukhethekileyo lolwandle, olunesanti, amanzi amfusa-blue azole ngendlela emangalisayo, kwaye ahlala esecaleni ngokupheleleyo, ebonisa ukutshona kwelanga okuhle kakhulu.
Beka itafile enxibe ezimhlophe kunye nezitulo ezilula emanzini angekho nzulu kwaye ujabulele isidlo esizolileyo kunye. Mhlawumbi wothuswa ngu-boo wakho ngokufaka umsesane eglasini yakhe. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo le yenye yeendlela ezinencasa ngakumbi kwaye zizodwa ngokupheleleyo zokucebisa elunxwemeni. Oku kungasebenza kakuhle njenge imbono yesindululo yoSuku lweValentine yothando.
9. I-reverse googly - isindululo solwandle esishiya imihlathi
Ngaba ujonge isindululo solwandle esiwisa imihlathi esiya kunkqonkqoza iikawusi zikamhlekazi wakho? Bulisa kwinto esiyibiza ngokuba yi-reverse googly yemibono yesindululo somtshato isimbo saselwandle. Eli linyathelo elingalindelekanga, elinesibindi, elenziwa kuphela ngabasetyhini abaqinisekileyo, ngabaphathi abathile kunye nookumkanikazi abathile. Lo mfazi ujija iswitshi aze alalele indoda elunxwemeni, endaweni yezinye iindlela!
Mhlawumbi udiniwe kukulinda kwaye sele efuna ukudanisa elunxwemeni. Kanye njengebhola yeqakamba eshukumayo 'i-googly', le yibhola egobileyo, eyakumothusa kakhulu ukuba uyakwazi kwaye uyakuthanda ngenene, kwaye kusenokungahambi kakuhle ukuba i-ego yakhe ayikwazi ukumelana nokubetha. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ufanelekile ukugembula kunye novavanyo lwe-litmus, yiya kuyo, sthandwa. Wenza wena.
10. Isindululo solwandle oluqhutywa ekhaya
Le yeyona intle phakathi kwazo zonke izimvo zesindululo elunxwemeni, ndingatsho. Xa abantu ababini abahlala elunxwemeni okanye ngaselunxwemeni sele bephumile, bavele baphumele ngaphandle befake iinzwane zabo entlabathini, bagqibe ngelithi, “Heyi, masitshate kwaye sihlale kunye, sithandwa sam, iyavakala.”
Ndikhe ndababona abalobi beyenza, ndibone izithandani ezisencinci ziyenza, ndibone izibini ezindala ziyenza. Idityaniswe bubulumko kunye ne-organic, into-of-fact, ukulunga kwe-cosmic. Ke, thatha igqabi kwincwadi yokudlala yomthonyama kwaye ukhuphe isindululo solwandle esithe ngqo kwilulwane.
Nokuba yeyiphi na isiphakamiso sonxweme oluthandayo, hlala ukhumbula ukuba nangona izindululo kunye neelwandle zizitoni zolonwabo, kwaye akufuneki siyeke isiko, okuza emva koko luvavanyo lokwenyani lothando lwakho. Ngoko ke ziqinise kwaye uye ngqo kwi-jingi yothando, unxile kwimvakalelo kodwa ulungele ukuqubha okupholileyo okulandelayo. Ulwandle luya kuhlala lunezifundo kubathandi abaphulaphula ngenyameko.
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