Ukuzulazula kwihlabathi le-Gen Z yokuthandana ngamanye amaxesha kunokuziva ngathi kukhwela i-rollercoaster eyolisayo. Kodwa njengayo nayiphi na enye ipaki yokuzonwabisa, kuza ixesha apho unokugqiba ukuba lixesha lokuhamba kwaye uhlolisise ezinye izinto ezikhangayo. Ukhetho oluninzi kakhulu, kwaye akukho nzame ngokwaneleyo evela komnye umntu enokukwenza uzive […]
Ngaba ukhe wazifumana ugoba ngasemva ukuze ukholise abanye, kodwa uzive ngathi uhlala ubambekile kwindawo yomhlobo? Ngaba ukhe uzibuze ukuba kutheni ukuba 'ngumfo olungileyo' kungasoloko kukhokelela kubudlelwane obonwabileyo, obunelisayo ubuphupha ngabo? Ndiyayazi indlela eziva ngayo. Awuwedwa kule nto idla ngokubhida
Imigibe ye-Nice Guy Syndrome: Ichaphazela njani ubudlelwane Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
"Ingaba ndiyacinga okanye uphelelwa ngumdla?" "Ngaba ukude okanye ndicingela imeko?" Ukuba le mibuzo inzima engqondweni yakho, amathuba okuba awuqinisekanga ukuba lo mfo ukuye ukuwe okanye hayi. Omnye wemingeni engakholelekiyo yokujonga umdaniso onzima wobudlelwane babantu
Iqhina elinobuxhakaxhaka libhekisa kunxibelelwano olumandla noluhlala lucinezelwa ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwesondo phakathi kwamaqabane, kulandela ingxaki okanye ukungcatshwa kubudlelwane babo. Kubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo, kubalulekile ukutyhala ikhwele eliphilileyo ngokuvakalisa ngokuphandle iimvakalelo zakho kunye nemida yakho. Inceda ekugcineni ukuthembana kunye nentlonipho kubudlelwane bakho ngelixa usebenzisana nabanye. Nangona kunjalo,
Ukuqonda i-Hysterical Bonding: Yintoni na kwaye kutheni isenzeka Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ukuskrola kunye nokuswayipha kwimidiya yoluntu kuye kwaba yinxalenye yobudlelwane bale mihla. Landela iindlela zamva nje, yabelana ngeereli ezihlekisayo, okanye uqhayise iqabane lakho kancinci. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba oko kucofa kabini okanye uhlaziyo lwesimo lutyhila ngaphezulu kunokuba ubunethemba? Ngaba uyathandabuza ubunyani bomntu okwi-intanethi yeqabane lakho? Ngaba ufumana
I-Sociopathy kunye ne-psychopathy zombini ziwela phantsi kodidi lokuphazamiseka kobuntu obuchasene noluntu. Nangona kunjalo, i-sociopath inokuchongwa ngeempawu ezithile ezithile - ukukhwabanisa, ubundlongondlongo, kunye nemvukelo zimbalwa. Ukuba uzifumana usebudlelwaneni ne-sociopath, impilo yakho yengqondo kunye nokhuseleko lunokuba sengozini. Siphonononga iindlela zokuchonga i-sociopath kunye nendlela yokuzikhusela kwenye.
Xa ugqithise kwaye ulumke ngokufihlakeleyo xa ujikeleze umntu ngenxa yokuba unomdla kakhulu, uhamba phezu kwamaqokobhe eqanda, oku kuthetha ukuba ujonge amagama akho, indlela oziphatha ngayo, indlela osebenzisana ngayo, nokuba yintoni oyinxibayo, kunye nento oyicingayo.
Iimpawu ezili-12 zokuba uhamba kumaqokobhe eqanda kubudlelwane bakho Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
I-narcissist ngumntu onoluvo oluphakamileyo lokuziphakamisa ongayihoyiyo impembelelo yokuziphatha kwabo kwabanye. Ukuba uzifumana usebudlelwaneni nomntu oneNarcissistic Personality Disorder, izifundo zibonisa ukuba kukho iindlela zokuziphatha ezilandelwa ngabantu abanjalo xa ubudlelwane buphela. Oku ubukhulu becala kukukhusela imidla kunye nodumo lwabo. Kukho iindlela zokuzikhusela kwintlungu enokuvela emva kokuphela kobudlelwane obunjalo.
Inkcazo malunga nento eyenziwa nguNarcissist ekupheleni kobudlelwane Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ukuyeka ukuzola yinto eyaqala emsebenzini kwaye ngoku iye yangena nakubudlelwane. Xa iqabane lakho lihamba libanda kwaye liziqhelanisa ngaphandle konxibelelwano okanye ukwamkelwa kwengxaki, yindlela yokuyeka ngokuthe cwaka. Eli nqaku liphonononga iimpawu ekufuneka uzijonge xa ucinga ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe kwaye ungenza ntoni ukuze uzikhusele kwaye uye phambili.
Ukuba ufumana kunzima ukufumana intombazana, awuwedwa kwaye unokuzijika izinto. Eli nqaku lichaza ukuba yintoni ingxaki kwaye libonelela ngeendlela zokuyoyisa.
