Ukujamelana nesicelo somtshato esaliwayo kunokuziva ngathi yinyikima, kugungqisa isiseko solwalamano. Usenokuzibona sele ubuza imibuzo enjengale, “Intombi yam yalandula isicelo sam. Ngaba ayisandithandi?” okanye “Ngaba ubudlelwane bunokusinda kwisicelo esaliwayo?” Ngelixa kulula ukujikeleza, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba “hayi” […]
Intombi Yam Yalile Isiphakamiso Sam: Ndithini? Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ukwaliwa yenye yamava angenakuphepheka ebomini, ngakumbi xa kufikwa kwizilangazelelo zothando. Nokuba luhlaba lokuphoswa lithuba nomntu okhethekileyo okanye intlungu elandela isivumo esingaphumelelanga, ukogqitha ukwaliwa kunokuba nzima kakhulu. Kodwa ukuqonda indlela yokujongana nokugatywa kwi-crush kunokukunceda kuphela
Imvakalelo yokungathandwa yimeko yeemvakalelo eyendeleyo apho abantu abathile ngokwemvelo bezibona bengakufanelekeli ukuthandwa okanye ukwamkelwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuvela kwiintlungu ezidlulileyo, ukulahlwa, okanye ukunqongophala kokuqiniswa okulungileyo, okufaka isandla ekuziphatheni kakubi kunye nemingeni ekwenzeni kunye nokugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo.
"Ngaba andithandeki" - izizathu ezili-9 oziva ngale ndlela Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ngaba ukhe wafuna ukwahlukana nesithandwa sakho okanye intombi yakho waza waziva unetyala ngaloo nto? Ngaba unqwenela ukuphelisa ubudlelwane bakho ne-SO yakho kodwa qiniseka ukuba usenokuthetha kamva? Ngaba uyamhlonipha umhlekazi wakho kodwa uvakalelwa kukuba kufuneka uphelise izinto njengamaqabane? Liqhinga eli
Uthando lolona mvakalelo luntsonkothileyo, yaye maxa wambi lunokuba buhlungu kanye njengokuba luzisa uvuyo. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba kutheni inokuba ikwenzakalise, okanye kutheni unokuba uyayibaleka. Funda ukuze ufumanise ukuba kutheni uthando lunokukhathaza kwaye wenze ntoni ngalo.
Kutheni uthando lubuhlungu kakhulu kwaye wenze ntoni? Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Fumana iindlela ezingama-20 ezicingayo nezisebenzayo zokugatya umntu ngaphezulu kwesicatshulwa esingayi kushiya umkhondo weentliziyo ezaphukileyo.
Iingcebiso ezili-17 zendlela yokugatya umntu kakuhle-Ngemizekelo Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Phantse wonke umntu ukhe wagxwala ngaxa lithile kwaye unokuba sele ebhubhile amaqabane abo ubuncinci kanye ebomini babo. Nokuba kukwenza amadinga kwi-intanethi, kubuhlobo, kunye nosapho olwandisiweyo, okanye nabantu osebenza nabo ngaphambili, ukuphefumla akufanelekanga. Kodwa ukuphendula ungenanto ngelixa ukuphelisa izinto sele kuxhaphake kakhulu kule mihla. Nangona kunjalo, kunjalo
Ukuthandana nomntu ongathandani naye kuyakhathaza. Jonga iingcebiso eziluncedo malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukuthanda umntu ongenamdla kuwe.
Ukuyeka njani ukuthanda umntu-13 iingcebiso eziluncedo Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ukuba usukela intombazana oyithandayo kwaye ayibonisi mdla, kufuneka uyeke ukuzama.
Ngamanye amaxesha, xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle, akukho ndlela yokukhetha ngaphandle kokuyeka uthando olubambe isitshixo sentliziyo yakho. Umceli mngeni ke kukufunda indlela yokuphuma eluthandweni - ngenxa yakho kunye nelomnye umntu.
Uphuma njani eluthandweni nomntu-iingcebiso ezili-9 zokuyenza yenzeke Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
