Ngaba umntu othile emsebenzini uqala ukuza ngendlela yobudlelwane bakho bothando? Nazi iimpawu ezili-17 onokuthi uzibandakanye ekungathembekeni ngokweemvakalelo emsebenzini ngaphandle kokuqonda.
Iimpawu ezili-17 ezingaziwayo zoMcimbi weemvakalelo emsebenzini Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Nokuba ucinga ukuba ungalibona njani iqabane eliqhathayo okanye ngobuqhetseba uzibeke kweli nqaku ukuze uzame ukugubungela umkhondo wakho, makhe sijonge ukuba ifunyanwa njani imicimbi emininzi.
Isazi ngengqondo uNandita Rambhia uchaza indlela onokuxolela ngayo ukukopela ngokweemvakalelo—kwaye ukuba ufanele.
Iingcebiso zeNgcali malunga nendlela yokuXolela ukukopela ngokweemvakalelo Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ekubeni akukho bungqina bokwenyani bokungathembeki kwimicimbi yeemvakalelo, usenokugqiba uzixelele ukuba ucinga ngezinto. Kodwa ngaba kukho into onayo kule hunch unayo? Ukuqwalasela indlela ekukhokelela ngayo kweli nqaku, makhe sithethe malunga nokuba yintoni ukukopela ngokweemvakalelo emtshatweni, kunye nemiqondiso ekufuneka uyiqaphele.
Iimpawu ezili-11 zokukopela ngokweemvakalelo ngeMizekeliso Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ukukopela ngokweemvakalelo vs ubuhlobo: Imigca inokuba mfiliba ngaphambi kokuba uqonde ukuba unyathela kwindawo eyingozi yokungathembeki.
Ibali lezovumo: Ukukopela ngokweemvakalelo Vs Ubuhlobo-Umgca oLuzizi Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ezinye izinto ekufuneka uzazi xa ungena kubudlelwane obude
IiNyaniso ezili-9 malunga neMicimbi yoBomi bonke ngaphandle komtshato Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ngaba wena neqabane lakho benixambulisana kwaye nixambulisana malunga nokuba isenzo esithile sifanelekile na njengokwaphulwa komthetho? Ukuqonda oko kugqalwa njengokuqhatha kulwalamano kunokukunceda ucacelwe ngendlela yokusingatha le ngxaki ngobuchule.
Izinto ezili-11 obungazazi Isixa sokukopela kubudlelwane Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ngoncedo lukagqirha wengqondo uJaseena Backer, makhe sijonge ukuba kutheni amadoda efuna ukuthandana ngaphandle komtshato.
Izizathu ezili-12 zokuba kutheni amadoda anemiba engaphandle komtshato Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Xa sithetha ngemicimbi, ukucinga kukuba umtshato uqhawukile. Kodwa ngaba ukujola kuyawunceda umtshato wakho? Ngumbuzo onika umdla, ongenazimpendulo zilula. Ngaphandle kokuba indoda nomfazi bobabini batyekele kwi-polyamory, ukuba neentlobano zesini ngaphandle komtshato kusoloko kunguhayi. Eyona mbono inamandla yomtshato kukutshata nomntu omnye, ngoko kukungathembeki
Ukufunda indlela yokujongana nemicimbi yeemvakalelo iqabane elinokubandakanyeka kulo kunokuba luhambo olunzima ukuluqalisa. Nali ilinge lokukunceda ukuba ujongane nale meko.
Amanyathelo asi-8 okujongana neMicimbi yeemvakalelo yeqabane lakho Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
