Ngaba likhona iqhawe elibambekayo? Qhubeka, cinga enye ngoku. Ngaba umfanekiso weClint Eastwood ethile, amehlo ethe ntsho, icuba emlonyeni, enxibe iponcho yawela engqondweni yakho? Kutheni kungenjalo? Kwisizukulwana, ukubulala, ukuphanga, ulwaphulo-mthetho "indoda" owayibona entshona yayiyingcamango yegorha.
Kwaye hayi, asiyonto yakudala. Mad Men, umboniso oboosterously romanticized hassment and sexism, yaphela mva nje ngo-2015. Xa iimuvi zethu kunye namajelo eendaba ebonisa iimpawu zamaqhawe abambekayo ngokweyona ndlela iphakamileyo, imbono yento ekufanele ukuba yiyo “indoda”, iyabandezeleka.
Esi sisizathu kanye sokuba xa iimuvi ziphuma ngaphandle kwesiqhelo ngokubonisa iqhawe, lutshintsho olwamkelekileyo. Makhe sijonge amaxesha endlela esijonga ngayo “iqhawe”, neendima zesini esiqhele ukuzibona zaphoswa ngefestile.
Ngaphaya kweKapa: Ezi bhanyabhanya zichaza ngokutsha ubugorha bamadoda, zibonisa ukomelela ekubeni sesichengeni, ukomelela ngaphandle kwamandla amakhulu, kunye nobugorha kwizenzo zemihla ngemihla.
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Isiqulatho
Ukuba ngenxa yesizathu esithile, wena nangoku ubhidekile malunga stereotypical oyindoda "iqhawe" sithetha ngayo, yiya IMDB kwaye chola nasiphi na bhanyabhanya uDwayne Johnson wakha waba kuyo. Bangaphela ekubumbeni iimbono kwaye echaphazela ubudlelwane amadoda nabafazi kunye omnye komnye kwaye nabo ngokwabo.
Ungasiphazamisi, kuye kwabhiyozelwa ukubonakaliswa kwamagorha abasetyhini kwiimuvi (cinga uMhlolokazi omnyama, u-Erin Brockovich). Kodwa namhlanje sigxile kumadoda angabonakali “njengamaqhawe” ekuqaleni kodwa afanele ukuqhwatyelwa izandla. Masingene kanye kuyo.
1. Forrest Gump, ukusuka Forrest Gump
Ngaba uluhlu lwamagorha angalindelekanga angaze agqibe ngaphandle kokukhankanya iForrest Gump? Umntwana one-autism kunye nepoliyo uqhelene kakhulu neengcinga ezibambekayo zokuba iqhawe lifanele ukuba yintoni na. Ukanti, uyakwazi ukwenza izinto uninzi lwethu olunomnqweno wokuzenza.
Igqala laseVietnam, umdlali weping pong oqeqeshiweyo, usomashishini, kunye nephilanthropist, bonke ngelixa begcina eyona imnandi ubudlelwane nomama wakhe.
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2. Mudit Sharma, ukusuka Shubh Mangal Saavdhan
Kwilizwe le-Bollywood, apho incoko ngesondo iseyinto engathandekiyo, umboniso bhanya-bhanya omalunga nokungabi namandla kwanyanzeleka ukuba utsale umdla. Indoda ijonga ibala elijikeleze ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, ngakumbi xa sele iza kwenza tshata, yajika yaba yinkcazelo ebaluleke ngakumbi eluntwini kunokuba uninzi lwalulindelwe.
Ubizwa ngokuba liqhawe apha, ngenxa yendlela awayeyisingatha ngayo imiba yakhe. Nangona kwakunzima kuye ukujongana nemeko yakhe kwaye alwe nemikhethe ejikeleze kuyo, akazange ayitshayele phantsi kombhoxo kwaye wakwazi ukusebenza malunga nayo.
3. Ben, ukusuka Iziseko zokuKhathalela
Umnakekeli oqeqeshiweyo njengomlinganiswa oyindoda? Ivakala ngathi yinto evela kwindalo ehambelanayo, akunjalo? Eli bali lombhali odandathekileyo owajika waba ngumkhathaleli owadibana nomfana okwishumi elivisayo onesiphene ogama linguTrevor lithetha kakhulu ngamandla okuphilisa ovelwano.
Nangona wayegculelwa kuba eyindoda enyamekela abantu, waphela sele ephola amanxeba akhe kolu hambo. Ngaphandle kokubetha umntu ombi okanye ukutyhala kanye, wakwazi ukunika uTrevor imbono entsha ngobomi. Ebonisa amandla ovelwano, lo mboniso bhanyabhanya wakwenza kwacaca ukuba ukunyamekela akuyonto ifanele ibe yengaqhelekanga emadodeni.
4. Ron Woodroof, ukusuka Dallas Umthengi Club
Indoda egulayo esebenza ngokusondeleyo nayo abatshintshe isini kunye namafanasini ukubanceda ukuba bathintele iimpawu zikagawulayo yeyona nto ikude onokuthi uyifumane kwiimpawu zamaqhawe abambekayo. Wasebenza yedwa ejikeleza le nkqubo ukunika amayeza e-AIDS awayefuneka kakhulu kumawaka abantu abamngqongileyo. Ukuba ayilogorha elo, asazi ukuba yintoni na.
Mhlawumbi eyona nto ilungileyo ngalo mboniso bhanyabhanya kukuba isekelwe kwibali lokwenyani likaRonald Dickson Woodroof, owathubelezisa iziyobisi eMexico waya eTexas ukuze azincede yena kunye nabagulayo abamngqongileyo.
5. Ferdinand, ukusuka UFerdinand
Inkunzi yenkomo onovelwano engavumi ukulwa ibonisa abaphulaphuli abancinci ukuba iindima zesini azikho kuqala kunemilinganiselo yobuqu. Nangona wazalwa eyinkunzi yenkomo elwayo, uvelwano lwakhe aluzange lwamvumele ukuba ahambelane nolindelo alunikwe luluntu.
Xa ekugqibeleni izinto zimhambela kakuhle umhlobo wethu othandekayo, oko kubonisa ukuba ukuba yindoda ayikuphela kwendlela onokuthi ufezekise ngayo iinjongo zakho. Ngaphezu koko, izihlobo awayezenza endleleni zazingenakumnyamezela nokuba yayingengovelwano lwakhe.
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Okukhona sibona ukuba iimpawu zobugorha aziyomfuneko kwaphela kumadoda kuluntu lwethu, kokukhona siya kukwazi ukuthoba izithethe ezibonakala zinxulunyaniswa nathi oko sazalwayo. Ngokufumana inkuthazo kule miboniso bhanyabhanya, masingazichazi ukuba isithethe singathanda kwaye sixabise indlela yokuziphatha kwethu ngaphezu kwezo zinyanzeliswe kuthi.
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Umnikelo wakho awuquki isisa umnikelo. Iya kuvumela i-Bonobology ukuba iqhubeke nokukuzisela ulwazi olutsha nolwangoku kwiphulo lethu lokunceda nabani na osehlabathini ukuba afunde ukwenza nantoni na.
