Lesi sigaba singenye yezindawo zewebhusayithi yethu ebona inani elikhulu lethrafikhi nsuku zonke. Abantu bahlale beza kulesi sigaba benemibuzo yabo yingakho sihlala sigcwele ku-inbox futhi leyo mibuzo siyidlulisela kumeluleki, yena abuye abhale ngeseluleko esiqondile embuzweni othize. Ubumfihlo obuphelele buhlala bugcinwa.
Ukwaneliseka kwethu okukhulu kuza lapho abafundi bethu bebhala bethi balandele iseluleko sobudlelwano futhi kulethe imiphumela emihle. Sibonile ukuthi abantu abaningi babhala kaningi ngoba bencike kakhulu eselulekweni someluleki wethu ukuze sibakhombise indlela eyiyo.
Mina noJames sasinobuhlobo obuqinile ngempela. Sasindawonye iminyaka emihlanu futhi senza yonke into ndawonye. Sabelana ngezimfihlo, futhi sahlekisana. Noma nini lapho ngiphansi, uJames wayekhona ukuze angiphakamise. Saqhubeka nokuzidela, sabuka amafilimu, futhi sajabulela ukuba ndawonye. Kodwa-ke, ngathola […]
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Ngisesimweni esinzima no-Bharat, umngane wami iminyaka eyisikhombisa. Besisondelene kakhulu njengabangane kodwa muva nje, kuphenduke okunye. Akukho okungokwenyama okwake kwenzeka kodwa saba nobudlelwane obungokomzwelo. U-Bharat uveze kimi ukwesaba okukhulu namaphupho akhe, wabelane ngezingxoxo ezijulile mayelana nemicabango yethu engaphakathi.
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Mina noJuhi sesineminyaka engu-6 sindawonye. Nokho besilokhu sixabana mihla namalanga. Siphikisana ngezinto ezincane ezifana nezintandokazi zokudla noma mayelana nokuthi yini okufanele siyibuke ku-tv. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi siyaxabana ngezinto ezinkulu ezinjengokusiza abangani bakhe nomndeni wakhe ngokwezimali nakuba sisobabili
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Mina noDavid sesineminyaka emine sindawonye, kodwa izenzo zakhe ziye zangizwisa ubuhlungu obukhulu ngokomzwelo. Naphezu kwalokhu, ngizithola ngingakwazi ukukukhulula. Uvame ukuyichitha imizwa yami, angenze ngizizwe ngingelutho. Uvame ukungigxeka, engishiya ngizizwa ngingalondekile futhi ngingafaneleki. UDavid unomkhuba wokunganginaki
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Mina noJames sesibe ngabangane abakhulu iminyaka eminingi. Sihlala sinesikhathi esingcono kakhulu ndawonye futhi ngizizwa sengathi ngingamethemba nganoma yini. Sobabili sike sajola nabanye abantu futhi izinto beziqinile phakathi kwethu esikhathini esidlule. Kodwa kungazelelwe, ngizithola ngizizwa kakhulu kunangaphambili. Iyacasula
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Umyeni wami oneminyaka engu-15 sishadile ube neshende nomunye wasehhovisi lakhe. Kwaphela 2 months ngathola nje ngoba ngibheka ifoni yakhe. Uthe useyiqedile kwaba yiphutha. Kodwa angazi noma ngiyamkholelwa yini. Ukukopela kuyisinqumo futhi akunjalo
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Ngenze iphutha eliwubulima. Mina nesoka lami besilwa kakhulu muva nje ngezinto ezincane kakhulu. Sobabili singabantu abanenkani ngakho-ke kuzwakala sengathi konke ukungaboni ngaso linye kuphenduka into enkulu. Ngemva kwenye yezimpi zethu ezimbi kakhulu, ngaphuma nabangane bami. Ngahlangana nalomfana saqeda
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Mina nomyeni wami sesineminyaka engu-6 sishadile futhi sinendodakazi eyodwa. Sekunesikhathi eside umshado wethu ungahambi kahle. Kuzwakala sengathi ngeke sikwazi ukuba nengxoxo eyodwa ngaphandle kokuthi iphenduke impi. Sobabili siyayithanda indodakazi yethu ngakho ngenxa yayo, ngangihlale ngikholelwa ukuthi sizozilungisa izinto ekugcineni.
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Umyeni wami wangibhebha nendoda angazi nokuthi ngenzenjani. Uzwa kuthiwa amadoda ashadile aqhatha nabesifazane, kodwa abambe indoda yami ijola nenye indoda? Kuzwakala njengokushaywa kabili. Ngithole imiyalezo efonini yakhe. Uyafunga ukuthi kwakuyinto yobusuku obubodwa, a
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Isoka lami leminyaka engu-5 langikhohlisa. Wayehamba nabangani bakhe futhi wahlangana nentombazane ngenkathi bephumile. Wangitshela besanda kubuya futhi nginenkinga enzima kusukela lapho. Ngike ngaba nomzwangedwa angazi ngingaphinde ngimethembe kanjani.
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