Abantu bayahlupheka ebudlelwaneni. Bayaphilisa futhi. Kodwa ukuhlupheka nokuphulukiswa akwenzeki ngaleyo ndlela. Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba nokudlwengulwa emshadweni kuyizinhlobo ezinzima kakhulu zokuhlupheka abantu abaningi abakubekezelela ebudlelwaneni babo. Kodwa ukuhlupheka kwenzeka futhi lapho umlingani oyedwa ezicabangela ngokweqile, enganakile noma engazi ngezidingo ezingokomzwelo zomlingani. Iminyaka yokunganakwa nokuxabana njalo kungaholela ohlotsheni lokuhlupheka futhi kuthatha isikhathi ukululama.
Kulesi sigaba I-Bonobology wabelane ngezindaba zokuthi abantu bahlupheka kanjani, bathola amandla okuzabalaza kulesi sigaba bese beqhubeka. Basinda baxoxa indaba futhi baphulukisa ukuze baqale impilo entsha.
Ukwelashwa kuvame ukubhekwa njengendlela yokugcina yobudlelwano obusenkingeni enkulu. Umbhangqwana ungase ulinde kuze kube yilapho izingxabano seziyinto evamile, ukwethembana sebuthaka, noma ukuqhelelana ngokomzwelo kuzwakala kungenakwenzeka ukungakunaki ngaphambi kokucabangela ukwesekwa kochwepheshe. Kodwa ukwelashwa kungafeza injongo ehluke kakhulu. Umbhangqwana akudingeki ube senkingeni ukuze uzuze ku- […]
Isifiso singaqondwa njengokushaja okusebenzayo ebudlelwaneni. Ku-psychology, isifiso sihlobene nesifiso esinamandla kanye nomdlandla onamandla. Usengamkhathalela umuntu ngokujulile kodwa uzizwe inhlansi incipha. Empilweni yansuku zonke, isifiso sibonakala njengesifiso, ilukuluku, umzamo, uthando, ukudlala, kanye namandla angokomzwelo. Izimpawu eziningi
Ukuzivikela ebudlelwaneni yilokho okwenzekayo uma uzwa isikhalazo njengokuhlasela futhi uhlelo lwakho lwezinzwa luqonda ngqo kwimodi yokuzivikela. Esikhundleni sokumunca lokho okushiwo umlingani wakho, uqala ukuvikela isithombe sakho, izinhloso zakho, noma "uhlangothi lwakho lwendaba." Yingakho ingxoxo iphenduka ngokushesha ibe yicala, izaba,
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Uma ubheke ku-Google ukuthi “Ngineminyaka engu-30 futhi angikaze ngibe nentombi,” cishe awufuni nje amazwi okududuza. Ufuna ukucaciselwa ukuthi kungani kunjalo nokuthi yini ongayenza ngakho. Silapha ukuze senze lokho kanye. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba siphendule yonke imibuzo yakho, sikukhuthaza ukuthi uyeke ukuziqhathanisa
I-Imago Therapy, eyaziwa nangokuthi i-Imago Relationship Therapy, iyindlela ekhethekile yokweluleka imibhangqwana eyenzelwe ukusiza wena nomlingani wakho ukuthi nikhulumisane kangcono futhi niphulukise amanxeba angokomzwelo angaphansi. Igama elithi “imago” lingesiLatini elisho “isithombe,” elibhekisela esithombeni sothando esingaqondakali umuntu ngamunye asithwele kusukela ebuntwaneni. Ku-Imago Therapy, uhlola ukuthi indlela yakho yokweluleka imibhangqwana injani.
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"Ukwenza imali ngebhange" ekupholeni yitemu lesenzo esinobuthi lapho othile ekuthakasela ngokuncoma kakhulu, bese ehoxa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi akushiye ubambe ongezansi. Igama livela kumdwebi wasemgwaqweni u-Banksy, owaziwa ngemisebenzi yobuciko emangazayo enama-twist amangalisayo, ebonisa ukuthi leli qhinga lokuqomisana lisebenza kanjani. Esimeni se-Banksying, uzakwethu wenza i-
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Ayikho indlela elula yokunquma ukuthi ngabe uqhubeka ngokushesha okukhulu ngemva kokushona komngane womshado noma usukulungele ngempela ukuqala isahluko esisha empilweni yakho. Phela, azikho izikhathi ezimisiwe zokuthi ungaqala kanjani ukuqomisana ngemva kokulahlekelwa umngane womshado. Konke kuncike esimweni sakho somzwelo. Inikezwe
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Ukuhlukana kungase kuzwakale njengokuphela komhlaba, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kuba inkinobho yokumisa okwesikhashana, evumela isikhala sokuzindla nokukhula. Kodwa leli themba lokubuyisana lingakushiya uzibuza, “Ingabe i-ex yami izobuya?” ukukuvimba ukuthi ungaqhubekeli phambili. Sikweluleka ukuthi ubheke izimpawu ezibonakalayo enizobuyelana kuzo
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Njengoba u-Ernest Hemingway asho, “Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola ukuthi ungamethemba yini umuntu othile ukumethemba.” Kodwa ingabe kulula ngaleyo ndlela ngempela ukwethemba abantu, ikakhulukazi uma uye wakhashelwa esikhathini esidlule? Ukuthembela akuzi kalula kanjalo. Kudingeka izinyembezi eziningi, izingxabano, nokuthula phakathi kwabashadile ukuze bafinyelele
Ucwaningo lwango-2014 lukhanyisele amaqiniso athile akhungathekisa ingqondo. Ishilo ukuthi sigcina sithukuthele futhi silimaza labo abasondelene kakhulu nathi. Kwafakazela nokuthi indlela esibalimaza ngayo “ixhomeke ebuhlotsheni bethu nabo.” Kuyathakazelisa, akunjalo? Ngakho-ke, ngokusobala, lapho sisondelana nabantu, siba sezingeni eliphakeme
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