Izingcaphuno ezingama-20 zokuthethelela zokukusiza ukuthi uqhubekele phambili

Ukuthethelela ngezinye izikhathi kungase kuzwakale kungenakwenzeka lapho sizizwa sigcwele imizwa yenzondo nentukuthelo. Kungaba nzima ukwedlula okuthile noma othile esinomuzwa wokuthi wonile noma usizwise ubuhlungu. Lokhu kwenqaba ukudedela kuwushevu ohamba kancane osibangela ukuhlushwa okwengeziwe usuku ngalunye, kodwa kunekhambi elilodwa elilula: intethelelo.

Uma sithethelela kuphela lapho sibona khona ukuthi intukuthelo yayisindwa kangakanani. Yingakho ukuthethelela kuyisipho esingcono kakhulu ongazipha sona. Vumela lezi zingcaphuno ezivela kwabesilisa nabesifazane abakhulu abafana no-Maya Angelou, Mahatma Gandhi, no-Martin Luther King, Jr bakukhuthaze futhi bakusize udedele okwedlule.

1. Ukuxolela kusho ukukhulula isiboshwa uthole ukuthi isiboshwa nguwe. -Lewis B. Smedes

2. Ubumnyama abunakuxosha ubumnyama; ukukhanya kuphela okungenza lokho. Inzondo ayinakuxosha inzondo; uthando kuphela olungenza lokho. - UMartin Luther King, Jr.

3. Kungesinye sezipho ezinkulu kakhulu ongazinika zona, ukuthethelela. Xolela wonke umuntu. – Maya Angelou

4. Umphefumulo womuntu awukaze ubonakale unamandla njengalapho uyeka ukuziphindiselela. -Edwin Hubbel Chapin

5. Obuthakathaka akasoze axolela. Intethelelo yimfanelo yabanamandla. – Mahatma Gandhi

6. Ukuphambuka kungumuntu; ukuthethelela, kwaphezulu. - U-Alexander Pope

7. Ukuthethelela akuvumi okwenzekile. Ikhetha ukuphakama ngaphezu kwakho. - URobin Sharma

8. Ukuthethelela akushintshi okwedlule, kodwa kwandisa ikusasa. - UPaul Boese

9. Ngicabanga ukuthi isinyathelo sokuqala siwukuqonda ukuthi ukuthethelela akumkhululi umenzi wobubi. Ukuthethelela kuyakhulula isisulu. Kuyisipho ozipha sona. – TD Jakes

10. Ngeke wazi ukuthi inhliziyo yakho iqine kangakanani uze ufunde ukuxolela owayiphula.

11. Uma ukhetha ukuxolela abakonile usuke ubaphuca amandla.

12. Akulula ukuhamba, ukufika endaweni lapho uxolela khona abantu. Kodwa iyindawo enamandla kakhulu, ngoba iyakukhulula. – Tyler Perry

13. Ukuthethelela akubuthakathaka. Kudinga isibindi ukubhekana nokunqoba imizwa enamandla. – Desmond Tutu

14. Amaphutha ayathethelelwa njalo, uma umuntu enesibindi sokuwavuma. – Bruce Lee

15. Indlela kuphela yokuphuma ku-labyrinth yokuhlupheka ukuthethelela. - UJohn Green

16. Akukho ukuziphindiselela okuphelele njengokuthethelela. – Josh Billings

17. Kulula ukuxolela isitha kunokuxolela umngane. - UWilliam Blake

18. Ukuthethelela kuwuhlobo lokugcina lothando. – Reinhold Niebuhr

19. Ongakwazi ukuxolela abanye uyaligqobhoza ibhuloho okumele adlule kulo; ngoba wonke umuntu udinga ukuthethelelwa. -Thomas Fuller

20. Ukuthethelela kungumnotho wenhliziyo… ukuthethelela konga izindleko zentukuthelo, izindleko zenzondo, ukumosha imimoya.
– Hannah More

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