10 ngā mea ka pā ki te hunga takakau anake!

Ka whakapae ahau i te whakamahere mō te tawhito – te take i tīmata ai ahau ki te whakaaro anō ki tōku ao takakau. I tēnei wā ko te taima oumu, ā, ka mōhio ahau kua rima ngā whare, e toru ngā ipu hiko, e rua ngā mīhini horoi wai i roto i ngā tau e whitu.

Ko koe anake

I taku wehenga atu i te kāinga o ōku mātua ki tōku ake kāinga i taku tīmatanga ki te mahi, koinei te rārangi o ngā wero i pā ki ahau:

"Ko te mea pai rawa atu o te noho takakau ko te te herekoretanga ki te mahi i tāu e pai ai, i ngā wā katoa e pai ai koe."

Ko koe anake te kawenga mō ō kī

Ae, he kawenga nui atu te noho takitahi i tō whakaaro. Tērā pea he kī tāpiri, engari kāore he tāngata tāpiri hei pupuri i aua kī māu! Kaua e mangere, kei kore koe e noho rāhui i waho o tō ake kāinga.

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Kāore he tangata hei hanga tī ina pāngia koe e te mate

Ko te wā anake kāore au e hiahia kia noho mokemoke – ina mate ahau, ā, kāore e taea te whakatika ki te hanga tī ina hiahia ahau ki te whakamarie. Ahakoa ka utua e koe he kaimahi tunu kai, kotahi noa tana haerenga mai i te rā. Ka hiahia tonu koe ki tētahi hei hanga tī māu mēnā he rewharewha tōu, mēnā rānei kua whati tō pona waewae, engari kāore he tangata e tata ana.

Ka puta hoki ngā aituā i ngā rā tino pukumahi

I te rā e haere ai koe ki tētahi hui, ka pau tō ipu penehīni. I te rā e tū ana tētahi hui nui, ka pānuitia hoki he raruraru paipa e kore e taea te waiho noa iho. Ki te hiahia koe kia tukuna mai ētahi taonga whare, ētahi atu taonga rānei o te whare, ka taea e te waka tuku te tae mai ki tō rohe ina kei tō tēpu tari koe e ngana ana ki te whakaoti i tētahi wāhanga o tētahi pūrongo me haere anō hoki i taua rā anō. He ao nanakia tēnei, me whakatau!

Ka moumou kai te whare

Ehara i te mea ka taea e tō whaea, e tō kuia rānei te ako i a koe ki te tunu kai mā te tangata kotahi. Nā te mea kāore anō rātou kia mahi i tēnei! Ka kī atu rātou kia whakamahia tō whakaaro nui, ā, kāore e reka te kai ka puta mai – kia rite ki te maka atu. Waihoki, i muri i ia whā rā ka whakakorea e te pouaka whakamātao ngā toenga kai – maka atu hoki.

Ko te hunga kua moe tāne anake i roto i ō porowhita pāpori he pakeke

Kāore he tangata e whakaaro ana he mea nui koe kia 'mārena' rā anō koe. Engari, ko koe te raruraru mēnā kāore koe i te pērā. Ā, ko te hunga e haere mai ana me ngā tāne me ngā wāhine he nui ake ō rātou whakaaro, he mātau ake, he nui ake ō rātou kawenga. He aha? He māmā noa iho – ka manawanui rātou tetahi ki tetahi, ka mahi tahi me ngā hungawai, me ngā pēpi. He nui ake te wāhi o ō rātou whakaaro i roto i te whānau whānui, ā, ka whai mana ā rātou pōti. I ngā huihuinga whānau, ka wehea ō rātou rūma, ko koe ia ka tonoa kia 'whakarerekē' ki ngā whanaunga taitamariki.

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I tētahi atu ringa…

I roa te wā ki te ako me pēhea te whakatau i ēnei mea. Ina koa i taku kitenga i te taha pai o te noho takitahi, I kite ahau koinei ngā painga e kore rawa e ngaro i ahau!

Kāore he tangata e amuamu ana ki a koe mō ō whanonga whaiaro

Ka taea e koe te whakahaere i tōu ake tikanga, te whakahaere rānei i tōu ake tikanga - kāore he tangata e aro mai, kāore he tangata hei tohu atu. Koinei te tikanga o te herekore tūturu. Ka taea e koe te noho paru i ngā wā katoa e hiahia ana koe, ā, ka taea e koe te horoi i tō whare ina kore koe e pai. Ka taea e koe te waiata i roto i te wharepaku i te koretake, ka roa te wā e hiahia ana koe - nā te mea kāore he tangata e tatari ana ki te kaukau i muri i a koe.

Kāore he raruraru moe

E kore rawa koe e kore e moe, e riri rānei. Moe i te wā e pai ana ki a koe, i te wā e hiahia ana koe. Ā, kāore he tangata i roto i tō whare e whakaputa ana i ngā oro kāore e hiahiatia, nō reira e kore rawa tō moe e kia pōreareaKa hou tonu koe, ā, ka pai ake te mahi.

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Te herekore ki te mau i tāu e pai ai (kāore rānei)

I tētahi rā raumati werawera, ki te hiahia koe ki te mau i ngā kākahu tawhito, pakaru, mārama, kāore rānei he kākahu e mau ana; kāore he tangata e titiro mai ana! Kāore koe e hiahia ki te kati i te tatau o te wharepaku me te mataku ki te wāhi e noho ana koe.

Nāu ngā mana whakahaere katoa

Nāu te kaupapa pouaka whakaata, ā, kāore he tangata e whawhai ana mō te mana mamao, nāu te whiriwhiri ko tēhea waiata e hiahia ana koe ki te whakarongo, ka taea e koe te whakarerekē i ngā tautuhinga o te hauhautanga me te hauhautanga kia rite ki ō hiahia, ā, ka rite tonu te pāmahana o tō taputapu kaukau ki tērā i waiho e koe inanahi.

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Kei te tuwhera tonu ō kōwhiringa

Kaua e manukanuka ki te āhua o te ao e whakahengia ai koe, kei te tuwhera tonu ō kōwhiringa, i te mea ko te mutunga tēnei o te hītori mō te ao. ngā tāngata kua moeĀ, he mea nui ake anō hoki, ka taea e koe te ako i ō rātou wheako, me te whakatau i ngā mea kia whai whakaaro nui ake!

Thoughts Final

He rerekē ngā harikoa me ngā wero o te noho takakau. Ahakoa he mea pea mokemoke i ētahi wā, e tuku ana hoki i te wairua herekore me te mana motuhake ka tino whai hua. Awhitia tō oranga takakau, kia pai ai te haerenga.

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