Te Whakaaro o te Haere Takitahi mō ngā Wahine hei Whakaū i te Herekoretanga

I te mutunga iho, i whakamahere ahau i tētahi hararei takitahi. Āe, i tika tāu i rongo ai. Hararei takitahi! Ehara i te mea nā te mea e hiahia ana ahau ki te wā hararei mai i te mahi, ehara rānei i te mea he whakarihariha taku tāne. Ko te take anake i haere ai ahau i tēnei hararei he mea tautoko nui ahau i te whakaaro o te haere takitahi a ngā wāhine, ā, me tino hiahia ahau ki te okioki me te tīmata i taku ake haerenga.

Nō nā tata nei, kua horapa haere te kōrero mō te haere takitahi a ngā wāhine i roto i ngā rōpū wāhine. Ko ngā wāhine i haere, i haere, i whakamahere rānei mō tētahi haerenga, e kī ana he mea aroha ki a rātou anō, he rerekē ki ngā here o te kawenga ki te whānau me ngā tamariki. E tohu ana tēnei i te mana motuhake, e ai ki a rātou. E aroha ana rātou ki te hunga kāore e taea te whakaaro ki te rere takitahi. E whakahawea ana rātou ki te hunga kāore e whakaaro rite.

Āe, i mau ahau i a rātou!

He wahine ahau e haereere takitahi ana

I tākai ahau i taku peke, ā, i whakamōhio atu ki te kaiawhina o te whare, ki te kaitiaki tamariki, me ngā kaitiaki haumaru mō ngā mea hei mahi i ahau e ngaro ana. I tono ahau i aku huinga whakapaipai hou mō aku... te mahi tiaki kiri raumati me ngā tauera takutai hou.

Āe, kua mōhio koe! I haere ahau ki te takutai moana! I tono anō ahau i ētahi pukapuka hou mā ngā tamariki, i ētahi taonga tākaro me ngā rama pō, kia kore ai taku tamāhine e ngaro i ahau. Ahakoa i mōhio ahau kāore aua mea e āwhina.

Mō taku tāne, i penapenahia e au ngā pukapuka i whakaaro ahau ka pai ki a ia te pānui i a au e ngaro ana. Ngā kiriata ka taea e ia te mātaki ko ia anake, me ngā kiriata ka taea e ia me tā māua tamāhine te mātaki tahi.

Kātahi ka tae te rā, hei wahine pakeke, kua tae te wā mōku ki te haereere.

Ka tae mai te rā

Kua tae mai te tekesi, ā, kua tū ki tōku tatau. Kua ngunguru kē ahau - ara ake, ara ake, haere atu! I te moe taku tamāhine i taua wā. I te tatau taku tāne, e awhi ana i ahau, e poroporoaki ana. "Awhi mai ahau me te mea kāore koe e tuku i ahau kia haere!", ka hameme ahau.

"Āe, me kī atu...Au...?" ka pātai atu ahau.

"Āe?" Ka pātai ia.

"Me kī atu...ū, he aha te utu whakakorenga, mēnā..." i pōhēhē ahau. Kāore au i te mōhio he aha taku e kōrero nei.

"Ā." Ātaata ana ia.

"He pātai noa iho, e mōhio ana koe!"

"Kāore he aha!" Kei te kata ia ināianei. I te tōia e ia taku peke ki roto i te tomokanga mai i te whare ararewa.

"Taria!"

"He pai."

"Kāore anō kia taea e au te whakatau, e mōhio ana koe!"

"Kei te mohio au!"

"Ka karanga anō te taraiwa tekesi. I whakautua e au, me te mea nei kei te whaia ahau e ia."Aroha mai, e Steve, me whakakore e au,” ka korerotia e ahau ki a ia.

I kite ahau, ko te tangata i hoki mai ki te whare noho mai i te tomokanga o te ararewa, ehara i te tangata kotahi i wehe atu i ētahi meneti kua pahure ake nei. Kāo, kāore ia i te tika kia uru atu ki te karapu wahine haere takitahi engari he mea rerekē, i tino pai ia ki tēnā. Ko tēnei tangata e tomo mai nei kua pakeke ake, kua mātau ake. Kua marino ake. Kua mōhio ake ki a ia anō. Kua mōhio ake!

Ehara i te mea ko te haere takitahi mō ngā wāhine te mea katoa

Ā, koinei tāna e whakaaro nei… E whakaaro ana rānei tātou he mawhiti te rere atu i tō tātou ao o ia rā? He mea whakamiharo te hikoi maunga, ā, kāore e hiahiatia he tautohetohe, he ārai rānei hei whakamārama i tēnā. Engari i muri i tēnei wheako whakaaroaro iti nei, kua mōhio ake ahau ki a au anō i tērā wā.

Nā, ināianei, ina kite ahau i tēnei hei whakaaturanga o tō tātou mana me te whakanui i te takitahi e whakaara ana i te haki, ka kite ahau i roto i tēnei he whakakorekore. Mēnā kāore au i pai ki te noho hei whaea, ka waiho ko te whitu rā te haerenga me aku hoa wahine ki runga i ngā maunga hei whakautu i tētahi pātai e ngana ana ahau ki te whakautu?

E taea rānei e ētahi rā e mātakitaki ana i te ataahua o te rā e whiti ana te rā, te huna i te mamae nui o te ngaro i taku tamaiti, te whakaaro ki ōna ringa e totoro mai ana e rapu ana i ahau i te taha maroke o te moenga i a ia e moe ana? E kore ianei te haere takitahi e whakaiti i tōku āhua hou, e whakaiti i tōku tuakiri, e whakaiti i tōku ōritetanga? E kore rānei tōku hiahia ki te whakapuaki i te harikoa o te rā e tō ana i te taha o ngā ngaru o te moana me tōku whānau e whakaiti i tōku kaha hei wahine? He ngāwari noa iho te tautuhi i ngā here, ngā here me ngā mahi? He ngāwari noa iho te whakarērea o te aroha, ahakoa te āhua o tō aroha me te āhua o tō oranga?

Kāore au e whakahe ana i a koe. Kaua e pohehe. Ko te whakahe te mahi kino rawa atu ka taea e au te mahi ki a koe. Engari me tū koe, me whakaaroaro hoki mō tētahi wā poto. He rawe te haereere takitahi mā ngā wāhine, engari kaua e hurihia hei kaupapa noa iho.

Kei te tino whakaaro koe kei roto i tōu herekoretanga te mawhiti atu i ngā mahi o ia rā, i ētahi tāngata? Kua tae pea te wā ki te tirotiro hohonu atu, ki te tirotiro kaha atu. He haerenga ki te moana, he hui whakangā, he moko, he kōrero kawhe rānei, he haerenga hokohoko… he wāhi motuhake tō ia tangata i roto i te ao, he rerekē rawa atu i ngā kaupapa matua o te whānautanga o te tangata takitahi, ā, ki te kore koe e kite i a rātou, ka kitea koe e rātou.

Kia tae rā anō ki taua wā, ngā mihi o te hararei!

Mōku nei, he pai ake ki ahau te noho ki te kāinga! Kāore pea te haereere takitahi a ngā wāhine e pai mōku.

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