E aroha ana rāua tetahi ki tetahi, engari kāore i te tino mōhio mō te marena

Porohia te aroha

Ahakoa te whānau matatau o tō whānau, e tino mōhiotia ana ka taka te kupu 'M' ki a koe i tētahi wā, mai i ō tau 20. Ā, he aha ai?

Kāore rawa he he o marena, mena he mea whiriwhiri noa iho, ehara i te mea nā te ao katoa e hiahia ana koe. He maha ngā marena kua tae atu ahau, ā, kua kite atu ahau i ētahi atu mā roto i ngā whakaahua o Pukamata, ā, e mōhio ana ahau, mō te tini o te tangata, ko te marena te mutunga o te whanaungatanga aroha. Ā, e whakaute ana ahau ki tēnā.

He mea whaiaro

Ripanga o Ihirangi

Ki ahau nei, heoi, he he mea whaiaro rawa te aroha ā, e pā ana ki te hunga kei roto i te whanaungatanga anake. E rima tau māua ko taku hoa e noho tahi ana, ā, kei roto māua i te 30 tau te pakeke. Mā ēnei e rua ngā tāngata e whai take pai ai ki te whakaaro, ki te tautoko, ki te whakatenatena i a māua kia mahi i taua mahi whakamutunga, kia marena. Ahakoa kāore au e mataku, e tahuri ke atu rānei i te whakahuatanga o te marena, kei te tino u tonu taku tūnga.

Te pānui e pā ana: He aha te tunu mō te Te Marena Harikoa?

Ki ahau nei, he whakaaetanga ture/pāpori/whakapono te marena tō koutou whakapau kaha tetahi ki tetahiMe te mea nei, ki te kore he marena, kāore i tino rite. Kia moe tāne koe, kua neke koe ki te huarahi 'tika', he huarahi e hari ai te katoa. He tini rawa atu ngā tāngata e uru ana ki tō whanaungatanga i taua wā. Mai i te pirihi, i te kai-rehita rānei i te marena, ki tō whaea kēkē e kī pouri ana he kuiti rawa ō hope ki te whānau tamariki. Ā, he tino rangatira taku whanaungatanga!

Ko tātou anake te mea nui

E whakaae ana ahau ko te nuinga o taku kore whakawhirinaki i ahu mai i te tirohanga a te tangata ki te marena hei mutunga o te rārangi. He wā 'koinei, kua uru koe ki te whakataetae nui'. E pouri ana ahau ki te āhua e tirohia ana te whanaungatanga he iti ake te tapu nā te mea kāore i whakaaetia e te hunga tika. Ki taku whakaaro, ko tātou anake te hunga e tika ana kia whakamana i tā tātou whanaungatanga.

Pānui e pā ana: Kua rerekē te whakamāramatanga o te marena i ngā tau kua pahure ake nei?

He hunga 'mahi' māua ko taku hoa, ehara i te hunga 'umanga', arā, kāore māua e titiro ana ki tētahi kauwhata mahi ka eke ki tōna taumata teitei i tētahi tau me tētahi wā. Waihoki, kei te he pūmau, he takitahi hoki, me te kore e hiahia ki te marena. E pai ana māua ki te noho tahi mā te whiriwhiri. E mōhio ana māua ki ngā tikanga o ia rā o ia rā. Ā, i ētahi wā ka noho tahi māua i te wāhi noho. Ka pai tā māua noho tahi me te whānau o ia hoa. He maha tonu tana haere tahi me tōku whānau ki te pāti, me te kore ahau. Tērā pea kāore tēnei e rerekē mēnā ka marena māua, engari ehara i te mea kāore ēnei mea katoa e tupu i waho o te marena.

he tokorua e aroha ana tetahi ki tetahi engari kāore i te tino mohio ki te whakapau kaha

He tirohanga taurite

He tini ngā mea kua kite ahau ngā marena harikoa me ētahi mea tino kino, nō reira he tino taurite taku tirohanga. He tangata aroha ā-whare ahau, ā, e mōhio ana ahau ki ngā waiata marena katoa i roto i ngā kiriata katoa a Yashraj Films. Engari kua whakaaro anō ahau ka taea e au te noho pērā me te kore e marena. Ka taea e au te porangi noa i te aroha.

"Kāore koe e hiahia ki te hohoro ki te marena hei whakamatau i tō aroha—i ētahi wā, ko te whai wā te mea pai rawa atu ka taea e koe te mahi."

I ētahi wā, ka whakaaro ahau me marena tāua kia uru ai tāua ki ā tāua mahere inihua hauora. Mēnā rānei i te 50 tau te pakeke, i muri mai rānei, kia kite noa i te āhua o te kanohi o te tangata. Mēnā rānei kāore tāua e pērā. Mēnā rānei ka noho tahi tāua ake ake, me te mōhio kei te herea tāua e ngā mea katoa o te marena, me te kore whakaae a tetahi. Nā te mea, ko te aroha e kore e paingia e te tangata te momo tino ngahau!

Te pānui e pā ana: Ngā kōrero marena pai rawa atu – he kohinga o ngā kōrero aroha

FAQs

1. He mea noa te kore e tino mōhio mō te marena ahakoa e aroha ana tāua tetahi ki tetahi?

Ae, he mea noa iho. He herenga nui te marena, ā, he mea maori te whai ruarua, te āwangawanga rānei, ahakoa kei te aroha nui kōrua. Ko te mea nui ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tuwhera me te mārama ki ngā tirohanga a tetahi ki tetahi.

"E waru tau a Maya rāua ko Rahul e noho tahi ana, ā, e aroha nui ana rāua. Ahakoa te pātai tonu a te whānau me ngā hoa mō te marena, kāore rāua i tere. I aroha rāua ki te haereere, ki te whakatipu i ā rāua mahi, me te tūhura tahi i te ao, me te kore e pēhia kia "mana" ngā mea. I tētahi rā, i te tina mārie, ka kōrero rāua mō te whakaaro mō te marena. I kite rāua e harikoa ana rāua ki te āhua o ngā mea. I noho pūmau rāua, kāore i whakatakoto i tētahi rā marena, hei whakaatu kāore te aroha e hiahia ki tētahi mowhiti, ki tētahi hui rānei kia pono."

2. Me pēhea tātou e whakatika ai i ō tātou feaa mō te marena?

Ko te huarahi pai ki te whakatika i ngā feaa ko te kōrero pono. Kōrerohia ō mataku, ō tumanakohanga, me te tikanga o te marena ki a kōrua. Ka taea hoki e te tohutohu, te rongoā rānei te āwhina i te whakatere i ēnei kōrero kia whai hua.

3. Ka taea e tāua te haere tonu i roto i tētahi hononga me te kore e marena?

Ehara i te mea ko te marena anake te huarahi hei whakaatu i te whakapau kaha. He maha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e whiriwhiri ana kia noho tonu i roto i ngā whanaungatanga pumau mō te wā roa, me te kore e whakamana i roto i te marena. Ko te mea nui ko te kimi i tētahi ara e pai ana mō ngā hoa tokorua.

Thoughts Final

Ehara te aroha me te marena i te ariā kotahi e pai ana mō ngā mea katoa. Ahakoa te kore e tino mōhio ki te marena, ehara i te mea ka iti ake te whai mana, te whai tikanga rānei o tō aroha. He motuhake ia whanaungatanga, ā, he mea nui kia neke i te tere e pai ana mō ngā hoa e rua. Ahakoa e whiriwhiri ana koe ki te marena, kāore rānei, ko te mauri o te whanaungatanga kaha kei roto i te whakaute, te māramatanga, me te tipu. He haerenga te aroha, ā, ka taea e te marena te whai wāhi ki taua haerenga, engari ehara i te mea koinei anake te ūnga. Kāore koe i te tino mōhio ki te taahiraa e whai ake nei i roto i tō whanaungatanga? Kei konei ā mātou kaiwhakaora hinengaro hei āwhina Ka whakatere koe i te aroha, te whakapau kaha, me ngā pātai nui mō te marena.

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