Whakaarohia tēnei: kua maha ngā wā kua kōrero koe ki tō tāne kia whakatika i te pouaka whakamātao i mua i te haerenga mai o ō hoa ki a koe i tēnei wiki mutunga. Ka mea atu ia ka mahi ia, heoi, i te taenga mai o te wiki mutunga, ka whakapae ia i a koe, me te kī, "Kāore koe i whakamahara mai ki ahau mō tēnā! Nāu katoa te he." Āe, he tohu mārama tēnei […]
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Pānuihia tēnei kōrero a te tohunga mō ngā kīanga me ngā tauira whakamahi i te "hauhanga hau" i roto i ngā whanaungatanga tukino hei whakaiti, hei whakaute, hei whakapōrearea hoki i te tangata i pāngia.
He uaua ki te kite i te whanonga whakahaere i ngā wāhanga tōmua o te whakaipoipo. Mā ēnei tohu 11 ka mārama ake te āhua o te whanaungatanga.
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Ko ngā kīanga whakahāwea noa me ngā rerenga whakahāwea e whakamahia ana e te tangata whakahāwea hei whakapoauau i te tangata, hei whakahaere i a rātou, hei whakaiti hoki i tō rātou whakaaro ki a ia anō. Ko ngā kīanga whakahāwea whakahīhī e whakamahia ana e te tangata whakahāwea ka nui ake te morearea me te mamae ina whakamahia i roto i te whanaungatanga. Nā te mea ka taea te wareware ngāwari, ka whakarārangihia e mātou ngā kīanga whakahāwea tino noa kia kore ai koe e pātai mēnā kei te tukinotia koe i te taha hinengaro, kāore rānei.
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He rite te mahi tinihanga i roto i te whanaungatanga ki te whai kohatu iti i roto i tō hu. He rite tonu te ahua o te hē o tetahi mea, ā, e kore te raruraru e ngaro ahakoa kua whakaaro koe kua whakatikahia e koe. Ahakoa he uaua ki te kite i ngā mahi a te tukino kare ā-roto me te tinihanga, he nui, he roa hoki te kino e puta mai ana. Ko te kore o
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Kei konei te pātai "Kei te whakamātauria ahau e te hau?" hei whakamārama i ō feaa katoa mō te kupu rongonui 'gaslighting'. Kua mātaki koe i te raupapa Netflix, You? Ko te toa kino, ko Joe, kei te whai tonu me te whakahaere i ngā kiripuaki wahine o te raupapa, tae noa ki te taumata ka tīmata rātou ki te ruarua i ō rātou ake whakaaro pai. Ka teka ia, ka whakakore i ō rātou kare ā-roto, ka whakaatu i ngā kare ā-roto,
He nui ngā kōrero kua kōrerotia, kua tuhia hoki mō te aroha, engari he onge te wā ka mōhio tātou me pēhea te whakakore i te aroha ki tētahi. Ka tino pōhēhē te mārama ki te wā tika hei whakarērea te whanaungatanga. He raruraru kei ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa, engari me pēhea te mōhio mēnā he tika aua raruraru kia whakarērea tō hoa?
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He tino hē tetahi mea i roto i tō whanaungatanga, engari kāore e taea e koe te kī atu. Kei te pōuri koe, kei te ngenge hoki, ā, e kīia tonutia ana koe nāu te he… He kupu hei whakamārama i te āhua o tō wheako? Ae, ko te āhua o tō wheako ko te āhua o te gaslighting i roto i te…
