He wheako uaua te wehenga atu i tētahi hoa rangatira whakahihi, i kitea e au i muri i te mutunga o taku hononga ki tētahi hoa wahine o mua he whakahihi. He maha ngā āhuatanga pouri o te hunga whakahihi ka taea te whakapoauau me te mamae hoki mō ā rātou hoa o mua. Nō reira, he mea whakamere te ruku hohonu ki roto i te […]
"Ko te tikanga matua mō te whakatutukitanga o te aroha ko te wikitoria i te whakapehapeha o te tangata," te kī a te tohunga hinengaro a Erich Fromm i roto i tana pukapuka rongonui The Art of Loving. Ā, he tika tana. I te nui o tō rātou whakaaro nui ki a rātou anō me te hiahia kia pāngia e tetahi ō rātou whakapehapeha, ka whakaaro tātou mēnā ka taea e te hunga whakapehapeha te aroha pono ki tetahi, ā, kāore rawa.
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Kua whakaaro koe mēnā ko te wahine i arohaina e koe, te wahine nāna koe i whakapōturi i te tīmatanga, he… rerekē? Ehara i te mea he rerekē noa iho, engari he tauira e waiho ana i a koe kia pātai mēnā he tino aroha ia ki a koe, he aroha noa rānei ki te nui o tō aroha ki a ia. Tērā pea kua waiho koe e ia kia pātai, "Kei te piripono ahau ki tētahi tangata whakahihi?" Dhriti
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I roto i te piki me te heke o ngā whanaungatanga, he maha ngā wā ka kitea tātou e whakatere ana i roto i ngā wero, e rapu ana i te māramatanga, e whai ana hoki kia hono atu. I a au e whakaaroaro ana ki taku ake haerenga, ka mahara ahau ki tētahi upoko i huri ai ngā āhuatanga uaua, ka waiho ahau kia uaua ki te ako me pēhea te whakautu ki a DARVO. I taua wā, i tae te aroha ki taku
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E taea ana e te hunga whakahihi te aroha? He pātai tēnei e pā ana ki te hinengaro o te tini o te tangata kua pāngia e ngā tauira aroha whakahihi o te whakaaro nui, te whakaiti i te uara, te maka atu, me te whakahāwea. Ki te mea kei te raru koe i tēnei, kia mōhio koe ehara i te mea ko koe anake. E mārama ana mātou ki te kaha o te ngākau me te ngangau o te whanaungatanga me te tangata whakahihi.
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He hoha te kōrero ki te tangata whakahihi, he whakarihariha te mahi tahi, ā, he kino hoki te āhua o te rā. He mea maori te whakaaro me pēhea te whakapouri i te tangata whakahihi. Anei ngā mea 13 ka taea e koe te mahi hei wikitoria i te tangata whakahihi!
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Pānuihia tēnei kōrero a te tohunga mō ngā kīanga me ngā tauira whakamahi i te "hauhanga hau" i roto i ngā whanaungatanga tukino hei whakaiti, hei whakaute, hei whakapōrearea hoki i te tangata i pāngia.
Me nui te manawanui me te māramatanga hōhonu ki ana whanonga te noho tahi me te wahine whakahihi. Me titiro tātou ki ngā tohu me pēhea te whakatau i te wahine whakahihi.
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E whakaatu ana tētahi rangahau ko te whakahihi te take o te koretake me te iti o te whakaaro ki a ia anō. Ko tētahi o ngā momo mate hinengaro e whakanuia ana te whakaaro o te tangata ki a ia anō. Waihoki, e ai ki tētahi atu rangahau, ko ngā āhuatanga kino e kitea ana e te nuinga o te tangata, ka kitea pea e te hunga whakahihi hei kaha mō rātou. Ko koe tētahi o rātou? E kite ana koe i tō...
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Ko te marena takitahi raupapa he mahi e uru ana ki ngā whanaungatanga poto, pumau mō te wā roa, me te iti rawa o te wā takakau. Ahakoa kei te whakaipoipo koe i tētahi tangata e marena takitahi ana, i tētahi rānei, kāore he he o te tono āwhina.
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